Re: Re: , Colleen, HELP

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Sure, I know that, Sandi. I mean, we do love each other for our minds. But, we don't just live in our heads. Realistically, biologically...naturally...there needs to be attraction between two people. And part of that attraction is physical. Physiological. Part of it is smell, something that can't really be controlled...it's animal. But people have different notions of beauty...and I want him to find me beautiful. More importantly, I want to FEEL beautiful. And yes, it's not like I think I'm a troll under the bridge or anything. That's not the case, at all. But, I don't feel super confident.

I mean, it's one thing when you meet at a party and there is chemistry and you know they find you, at least not REPULSIVE....and you build a friendship from there. It's a different thing altogether when somebody meets you in the ether...no physical contact at all...just words, just spirit...and then you meet in person. Fantasies are dashed, or ignited in real time.

I want his to be ignited, that's all. Because I really, really, really, like this guy.

Robynn

"Sandi H." wrote:

Robynn--IMHO if the guy doesn't love you for your mind, it aint worth it.Loving you for your body alone (or you loving him for his body alone) doesn't last.Like everyone, just trust that your looks can't be bad enough to chase him away.Neither my hubby nor I are considered physically beautiful or hansome, but our marriage has lasted 25 wonderful years. It's our friendship that really helped.AND THAT'S MY TWO CENTS!--Sandi> > Hi all,> > It seems I read about someone getting their cpap machine > adjusted...> > I think mine needs one. I got it while I was covered by Blue > Cross/Blue > > Shield so I have no idea who to contact in Kaiser...I also need a > new > > mask, and I think someone posted a link.> > Thanks,> > Maggie> > > > > > > > > > ---------------------------------> >