Re: Urgent Advice Needed

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I know--my sister was supposed to be here but she is the one who's been missing since April 22nd. I'm just leaning towards if he can't be here for surgery, he might as well wait until October.Pamela A Marsh wrote:

I am not sending any negative vibes your way butI think that if you want him here, tell him. I wenthome (North Carolina) on June 16th and returned my onJune 19th (4 days) to go see my dad. Nothing ispromised. It is something you have to decide. I wishyou luck as you sort this out.Pam Marsh--- chris lopez wrote:> Hi everyone,> > I need some advice from post-oppers. My 29 year-old> nephew (who by the way was the one who convinced me> to look into surgery to begin with--said I deserved> to do this for myself as he'd watched me struggle> with my weight issues as long as he could remember)> will not be able to be here from Canada for my> surgery as he has to fly to Florida on the 27th the> day of

surgery. He has a business obligation and> has to fly to South America on August 2nd. He found> out, however, that he could catch a reasonable> flight on the 28th and come to Sacramento but would> have to leave on the 31st. So my question is> this--since I don't know when I'll get out of the> hospital and don't know how I'll be feeling, should> I have him spend the money to come, in which case we> won't see him again until January or should I have> him wait and come for a week or two in October when> I should be fully ready to enjoy his company? Our> plan always was that he would be here for the> surgery but then a business obligation> took him to Buenos Aires for five months and now he> has to go back. He's perfectly willing to spend the> money and I'd love for him to be here but I'm not so> sure it would be fair to him to spend money for

four> days and me not knowing when I'll be home. He's> willing to stay with my daughter until I get out of> the hospital and of course visit me, but we have> made other arrangements for my daughter so it's not> like he needs to be here. Both of them say it's up> to me. I would love to have him here, but we> usually have such a good time doing things together,> I'm leaning towards the time in October.> > What do you all think? What would you do? Would it> be totally unfair and selfish since I won't be> feeling in peak form while he's here? Mind you he's> not coming to be entertained, but I still think it's> kind of selfish on my part to want him to come that> far for just four days. Just don't know what to> do!!!> > Chris> Sacramento> > > >

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