Re: Re: Dr. Ren.....A list for Support and Education

[Guest guest]

JJ -

VERY well said. Thank you for saying what I have been

feeling. As a pre-op, I wanted to hear it all -- the

good, the bad and the ugly. While I can understand

people trying to defend their surgeon -- we all seem

to hold ours on a pedestal (I know I do mine)-- it

would be a much better idea to simply state our actual

experience, versus being defensive.

Love,

Kris G.

--- Janice jejjejjej@...> wrote:

> Hmmmmmm.....just feeling a little sad as I read the

> posts tonight.....we have to deal with some serious

> issues here on the list....I am wondering if there

> is

> an easy way to allow people to share and support

> them

> and make sure we do not ban important good and bad

> surgical outcomes....I mean.....it is clear that

> many

> people have clearly experienced very good surgical

> outcomes... and they respect and appreciate what Dr.

> Ren has accomplished with her skills ...for them.

> It

> is also very clear to me that Deb is in a lot of

> pain

> and did not experience very good surgical

> outcomes.....and that she has her own feelings about

> that based on the facts she believes to be true (

> and

> it is clear she has more knowledge about medical

> issues than the majority of us)...regardless...I

> guess

> what I am trying to say is that both situations

> can

> be valid.

> There are good results...there are bad results...and

> we read the information and make our own best

> judgements on the matter. I know it would be very

> hard for me if someone had a bad experience with my

> doctor and but they would be entitle to their own

> opinion...and as WE ALL WERE NOT THERE and DO KNOW

> THE

> FACTS AROUND Their reality...I would just hope we

> could support and acknowledge and just report our

> realities without judgement....or personalizing

> things. I am happy for the positive results people

> have achieved. My heart aches for Deb and the pain

> she is feeling.... JJ

>

>

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