Please remember some simple rules

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Hi everyone. First, thank you to the people who informed me of my little

virus that decided to infect my computer. I finally did get rid of it.

Second, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE....

If you have a problem with someone on the list whether it may be a

legitimate problem or not, bring it up with one of the list managers

rather than present the problem to the list in general. For example, if

you feel someone is attacking you personally rather than debating what you

say, ask a list manager for help. If someone is harassing you in private

email, bring it to the list managers attention. If you feel compelled to

leave the list because you don't like the politics, tone, etc regarding

the list, talk to a list manager. We may be able to help.

What I don't want to see is anymore " he said, she said " stuff on the list.

It's a waste of time. If you feel hurt about someone's responses, please

take it in private. Usually it's just a misunderstanding. I realize that

many people will speak up on the list after feeling attacked because they

want to rally up support for their position but it's not productive.

If you have problems with this email, please bring it up with me (in

private).

And remember, everyone be kind to one another!!!!!

Much love to you all, R

Again to and , thanks for managing this list so wonderfully!