Re: Re: Robynn take the risk

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GIVE IN !

colleenRobynn VanPatten wrote:

Sigh. Ok. He has said, "look, if you feel more comfortable, I will wait until you come in September...but I really really really want to meet you." So, part of me thinks that I should give in, and let him come in early August....

RobynnColleen Garner wrote:

Robin

I think i lost about but not quite 30 pounds at the two month mark, I was 197 when i met you and i am about an inch shorter than you are. I also once met a man online when i was younger and when he one day said i am going to drive up from phoneix to meet you, panicked, i had always told him i was not thin, and once he told me it didnt matter and he told me that

his exwife had once weighed as much as 185, that devistated me because i was so way past that weight,i just like Shell had said sent more pictures that showed all of me and you know what...............he still drove here, we still met, and we dated long distance for 5 years, in the end he didnt want to date someone so far away, i couldnt move till my daughter finished high school ..............it was the saddest thing the day he told me that we needed to date other people and then on and off we still found our way to each other, then one day he met a woman at work and that was the end,, but it opened new doors for me and now i am happily married to a great guy and have a stepson and my husband is a wonderful dad to my daughter, who never had a good dad growing up and she just adores my husband. I say go for it and dont fret over how much you lose between now and then, but concentrate on healing and getting enough rest so you will feel well when he arrrives !

Colleenmusil321 wrote:

I would probably guess you will lose about 30 at that point. 3-5 per week but within reason. I don't want you getting your hopes up. Patience m'dear. If he loves you he loves you and that is all there is to it. Your heart is what he loves. > > Hi all,> > It seems I read about someone getting their cpap machine > adjusted...> > I think mine needs one. I got it while I was covered by Blue > Cross/Blue > > Shield so I have no idea who to contact in Kaiser...I also need a > new > > mask, and I think someone posted a link.> > Thanks,> > Maggie> > > > > > > > > > ---------------------------------> >

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Thanks, Tim. Actually, had written and said, "Would you feel more comfortable if we waited until September? I feel like I bullied you." And I told him that I was torn, because I really want to see him...on the other hand, I feel like I'll have more energy and that I'll feel more confident about myself if I have some more time. But that I am very very eager to spend time with him, too. So, i told him that he could choose. He called me and said that he's choosing September, because that was my original choice, the one I had been comfortable with, and he felt like he had pressured me to change that. He said he will wait for me, and he loves me, and he wants me to feel completely comfortable.

In a weird way, I'm a bit disappointed...I said,"Are you choosing September because you think I must look like a monster from what I said?" He laughed and said, "I'm choosing September because that's what you want, and I want you to know that I am ok with that. I will wait."

He's very sweet. So, now I will be 12 or 13 weeks out. I assume I'll have more energy? And I assume I'll be down a bit more...maybe 60 lbs?

RobynnUncle Timmy wrote:

Absolutely give in Robynn! I've embarked on "something" with a woman who has seen my entire journey of recovery, so it's not just because of the finished product. The real you will shine through, as it already does. Don't let your container stop you from sharing the contents.Uncle Timmy -236 > > > Hi all,> > > It seems I read about someone getting their cpap machine > > adjusted...> > > I think mine needs one. I got it while I was covered by Blue > >

Cross/Blue > > > Shield so I have no idea who to contact in Kaiser...I also need > a > > new > > > mask, and I think someone posted a link.> > > Thanks,> > > Maggie> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ---------------------------------> > >

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Thanks, Tim. Actually, had written and said, "Would you feel more comfortable if we waited until September? I feel like I bullied you." And I told him that I was torn, because I really want to see him...on the other hand, I feel like I'll have more energy and that I'll feel more confident about myself if I have some more time. But that I am very very eager to spend time with him, too. So, i told him that he could choose. He called me and said that he's choosing September, because that was my original choice, the one I had been comfortable with, and he felt like he had pressured me to change that. He said he will wait for me, and he loves me, and he wants me to feel completely comfortable.

In a weird way, I'm a bit disappointed...I said,"Are you choosing September because you think I must look like a monster from what I said?" He laughed and said, "I'm choosing September because that's what you want, and I want you to know that I am ok with that. I will wait."

He's very sweet. So, now I will be 12 or 13 weeks out. I assume I'll have more energy? And I assume I'll be down a bit more...maybe 60 lbs?

RobynnUncle Timmy wrote:

Absolutely give in Robynn! I've embarked on "something" with a woman who has seen my entire journey of recovery, so it's not just because of the finished product. The real you will shine through, as it already does. Don't let your container stop you from sharing the contents.Uncle Timmy -236 > > > Hi all,> > > It seems I read about someone getting their cpap machine > > adjusted...> > > I think mine needs one. I got it while I was covered by Blue > >

Cross/Blue > > > Shield so I have no idea who to contact in Kaiser...I also need > a > > new > > > mask, and I think someone posted a link.> > > Thanks,> > > Maggie> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ---------------------------------> > >

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Thanks, Tim. Actually, had written and said, "Would you feel more comfortable if we waited until September? I feel like I bullied you." And I told him that I was torn, because I really want to see him...on the other hand, I feel like I'll have more energy and that I'll feel more confident about myself if I have some more time. But that I am very very eager to spend time with him, too. So, i told him that he could choose. He called me and said that he's choosing September, because that was my original choice, the one I had been comfortable with, and he felt like he had pressured me to change that. He said he will wait for me, and he loves me, and he wants me to feel completely comfortable.

In a weird way, I'm a bit disappointed...I said,"Are you choosing September because you think I must look like a monster from what I said?" He laughed and said, "I'm choosing September because that's what you want, and I want you to know that I am ok with that. I will wait."

He's very sweet. So, now I will be 12 or 13 weeks out. I assume I'll have more energy? And I assume I'll be down a bit more...maybe 60 lbs?

RobynnUncle Timmy wrote:

Absolutely give in Robynn! I've embarked on "something" with a woman who has seen my entire journey of recovery, so it's not just because of the finished product. The real you will shine through, as it already does. Don't let your container stop you from sharing the contents.Uncle Timmy -236 > > > Hi all,> > > It seems I read about someone getting their cpap machine > > adjusted...> > > I think mine needs one. I got it while I was covered by Blue > >

Cross/Blue > > > Shield so I have no idea who to contact in Kaiser...I also need > a > > new > > > mask, and I think someone posted a link.> > > Thanks,> > > Maggie> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ---------------------------------> > >