Do not respond in public to this email thread

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I ask everyone to immediately take this email thread in private (i pasted

a portion of the thread since I am on digest I didn't want to post the

entire thread). It has the potential to get out of hand. It has the

hallmarks of misunderstanding because it has to do with 1) a person's

personality & 2) the inability to convey what a person is truly trying to

express across email channels.

Therefore, do not respond (positive or negative) or try to justify

anything that was said in this email unless you do it in private to any of

the senders. If you have a problem with my email, please email me in

private.

Thank you, R

Message: 7

Date: Sun, 29 Apr 2001 16:35:56 -0700 (PDT)

Subject: Re: Re: Flaming on support groups/ nan responds

Caroline-- I realize that you feel that anyone who

disagrees with you is hurting you, and you respond with

anger. I am not angry, and I am not calling you names, and

I am not dissing you in any way. I am asking you to look

at your interactions with physicians' offices in the past

and calmly evaluate your role in what happened. You may

have some behaviors or attitudes or approaches which are

not helping you get what you want. I have a temper, and I

tend to let it loose when I am frustrated or dissapointed.

It has never been in my best interests to do that, in hind

sight. People who work with the public in helping

capacities (like doctor's offices and lawyers offices) tend

to lable certain types of people who demonstrate certain

types of behaviors. May not be fair, may not be right, but

it is often done. I am suggesting that you may have gotten

one of those lables, which you might want to get rid of.

You are the only one who knows what your end of things is

like-- I am just suggesting based solely on the posts you

have placed here that you may have some behaviors that are

getting in your way. It is only my opinion, and my opinion

is worth whatever you think it is.

Nan E. ( an angry woman trying very hard to chill and not

take this personally)

--- Caroline Powser humngbrd2001@...> wrote:

>

> You bet I am angry!! And then I have to be attacked

> on a *support* group by a couple of people who enjoy

> seeing others in pain?

> Bye......

>

>

> --- Nan Earnheart leafynan@...> wrote:

> > Any one else begining to understand Caroline's the

> > turn

> > down? No disrespect, Caroline, but you are a little

> > intense and angry. Do you have a history of being

> > pissed

> > off that is documented in your records? You might

> > have

> > gotten a " diffiuclt " patient sign hung on your back.

> >

> > Nan E. ( an angry and difficult woman learning to

> > chill.)

> >

>

>

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