Re: Topic for discussion: The Sharpei body type (posted to 2 diff. lists)

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> I wouldn't say a damned thing. Let them find out after you are

naked. frankly, they are just so happy to have a little action coming

their way, they probably won't even notice.

LOL!!! Thank you for that, I never thought about it from that stand

point.

Kerre

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> > When I was dating online I had no trouble quantifying my

> > category: I described myself as a BBW ( " Big Beautiful

> > Woman " --the standard euphemism for fat). But even after my

> > successful plastic surgery, if I'd been on the market I would

> > have had a dilemma: How to describe my body?

> > After my belt lipectomy, my torso is lovely... but I have a

> > couple of long scars. And I have wrinkles and extra skin that

> > are not typical of even an aging woman. I know many of us have

> > this issue to one degree or another. We can't say we're fat or

> > BBW; we can't say we're slim or slender; what DO you say?! How

> > do you explain the extra skin and unusual contours to a

> > prospective partner?

> > I know many of you will say, well, if he/she loves me they'll

> > accept me as I am. If I wait until we get to know each other, if

> > I wait until we're ready to make a committment, etc. etc., (in

> > other words: " If I wasn't messin' around like some slut "

> > hahaha), this won't be an issue. Fair enough. But let's face it:

> > In this culture, we have to have a body type, a body identity if

> > you will. If you're not slim, average, fat, etc., if you're

> > sharpei-saggy, what are you?

> > Martha

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