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--- In duodenalswitch@y..., " Montgomery "

>

> Let Deb be where she needs to be without defending herself.

Just being present and a witness is a great gift

> to give a person in pain.

>

> in Seattle

>

> ----- Original Message -----

> From: " gobo "

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> > I DO care very much about Deb as she goes through this

> > challenging ordeal.

, , Deb, et al.

I am truly sorry that you are under the impression I am attacking

Deb. I feel like I am the one who is defending themself.

I have gotten many private emails complimenting what I had to

offer. It's too bad it wasn't directed at one of the members who

seems to appreciate what I had to say.

I am surprised that this is only a forum to make a statement and

not to offer helpful suggestions that might expedite finding a

solution. That really bothers me. I cannot listen to someone tell

me how much they are suffering and then simply say, " thanks for

sharing " , at least not when something occurs to me that might

be helpful.

In the future I shall remain silent and do my posting elsewhere.

gobo

" Sometimes We Never Know How We Influence the Lives of

Others, Yet We Touch Those Lives Just the Same "