Re: Re: Flaming on support groups/ nan responds

[Guest guest]

Caroline-- I realize that you feel that anyone who

disagrees with you is hurting you, and you respond with

anger. I am not angry, and I am not calling you names, and

I am not dissing you in any way. I am asking you to look

at your interactions with physicians' offices in the past

and calmly evaluate your role in what happened. You may

have some behaviors or attitudes or approaches which are

not helping you get what you want. I have a temper, and I

tend to let it loose when I am frustrated or dissapointed.

It has never been in my best interests to do that, in hind

sight. People who work with the public in helping

capacities (like doctor's offices and lawyers offices) tend

to lable certain types of people who demonstrate certain

types of behaviors. May not be fair, may not be right, but

it is often done. I am suggesting that you may have gotten

one of those lables, which you might want to get rid of.

You are the only one who knows what your end of things is

like-- I am just suggesting based solely on the posts you

have placed here that you may have some behaviors that are

getting in your way. It is only my opinion, and my opinion

is worth whatever you think it is.

Nan E. ( an angry woman trying very hard to chill and not

take this personally)

--- Caroline Powser humngbrd2001@...> wrote:

>

> You bet I am angry!! And then I have to be attacked

> on a *support* group by a couple of people who enjoy

> seeing others in pain?

> Bye......

>

>

> --- Nan Earnheart leafynan@...> wrote:

> > Any one else begining to understand Caroline's the

> > turn

> > down? No disrespect, Caroline, but you are a little

> > intense and angry. Do you have a history of being

> > pissed

> > off that is documented in your records? You might

> > have

> > gotten a " diffiuclt " patient sign hung on your back.

> >

> > Nan E. ( an angry and difficult woman learning to

> > chill.)

> >

>

>

>

> __________________________________________________

>

[Guest guest]

No, Nan..... outside of this experience, I have never

been treated with this kind of disrespect and

certainly not been lied to by staff in a doctor's

office . It might interest you to know that I had NO

Words over this with Angie..... I just want my films

back so that I can move on. I have a very sensitive

job... and like you, have been an attorney's

paralegal. You people in the USC group and the only

ones that have jumped on me.

You suggested that I have a sign on my back

labeling me! That is not disrespectful? Obviously,

you have a different set of ethics than I do.

I have left the USC group list...... I don't need

the agrivation. I came here to learn.... to have

dialogue with others who share my life problems and

for support.

Do I have to leave here too?

CAroline

--- Nan Earnheart leafynan@...> wrote:

> Caroline-- I realize that you feel that anyone who

> disagrees with you is hurting you, and you respond

> with

> anger. I am not angry, and I am not calling you

> names, and

> I am not dissing you in any way. I am asking you to

> look

> at your interactions with physicians' offices in the

> past

> and calmly evaluate your role in what happened. You

> may

> have some behaviors or attitudes or approaches which

> are

> not helping you get what you want. I have a

> temper, and I

> tend to let it loose when I am frustrated or

> dissapointed.

> It has never been in my best interests to do that,

> in hind

> sight. People who work with the public in helping

> capacities (like doctor's offices and lawyers

> offices) tend

> to lable certain types of people who demonstrate

> certain

> types of behaviors. May not be fair, may not be

> right, but

> it is often done. I am suggesting that you may have

> gotten

> one of those lables, which you might want to get rid

> of.

> You are the only one who knows what your end of

> things is

> like-- I am just suggesting based solely on the

> posts you

> have placed here that you may have some behaviors

> that are

> getting in your way. It is only my opinion, and my

> opinion

> is worth whatever you think it is.

> Nan E. ( an angry woman trying very hard to chill

> and not

> take this personally)

>

> --- Caroline Powser humngbrd2001@...> wrote:

> >

> > You bet I am angry!! And then I have to be

> attacked

> > on a *support* group by a couple of people who

> enjoy

> > seeing others in pain?

> > Bye......

> >

> >

> > --- Nan Earnheart leafynan@...> wrote:

> > > Any one else begining to understand Caroline's

> the

> > > turn

> > > down? No disrespect, Caroline, but you are a

> little

> > > intense and angry. Do you have a history of

> being

> > > pissed

> > > off that is documented in your records? You

> might

> > > have

> > > gotten a " diffiuclt " patient sign hung on your

> back.

> > >

> > > Nan E. ( an angry and difficult woman learning

> to

> > > chill.)

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> > __________________________________________________

> >

[Guest guest]

No, Nan..... outside of this experience, I have never

been treated with this kind of disrespect and

certainly not been lied to by staff in a doctor's

office . It might interest you to know that I had NO

Words over this with Angie..... I just want my films

back so that I can move on. I have a very sensitive

job... and like you, have been an attorney's

paralegal. You people in the USC group and the only

ones that have jumped on me.

You suggested that I have a sign on my back

labeling me! That is not disrespectful? Obviously,

you have a different set of ethics than I do.

I have left the USC group list...... I don't need

the agrivation. I came here to learn.... to have

dialogue with others who share my life problems and

for support.

Do I have to leave here too?

CAroline

--- Nan Earnheart leafynan@...> wrote:

> Caroline-- I realize that you feel that anyone who

> disagrees with you is hurting you, and you respond

> with

> anger. I am not angry, and I am not calling you

> names, and

> I am not dissing you in any way. I am asking you to

> look

> at your interactions with physicians' offices in the

> past

> and calmly evaluate your role in what happened. You

> may

> have some behaviors or attitudes or approaches which

> are

> not helping you get what you want. I have a

> temper, and I

> tend to let it loose when I am frustrated or

> dissapointed.

> It has never been in my best interests to do that,

> in hind

> sight. People who work with the public in helping

> capacities (like doctor's offices and lawyers

> offices) tend

> to lable certain types of people who demonstrate

> certain

> types of behaviors. May not be fair, may not be

> right, but

> it is often done. I am suggesting that you may have

> gotten

> one of those lables, which you might want to get rid

> of.

> You are the only one who knows what your end of

> things is

> like-- I am just suggesting based solely on the

> posts you

> have placed here that you may have some behaviors

> that are

> getting in your way. It is only my opinion, and my

> opinion

> is worth whatever you think it is.

> Nan E. ( an angry woman trying very hard to chill

> and not

> take this personally)

>

> --- Caroline Powser humngbrd2001@...> wrote:

> >

> > You bet I am angry!! And then I have to be

> attacked

> > on a *support* group by a couple of people who

> enjoy

> > seeing others in pain?

> > Bye......

> >

> >

> > --- Nan Earnheart leafynan@...> wrote:

> > > Any one else begining to understand Caroline's

> the

> > > turn

> > > down? No disrespect, Caroline, but you are a

> little

> > > intense and angry. Do you have a history of

> being

> > > pissed

> > > off that is documented in your records? You

> might

> > > have

> > > gotten a " diffiuclt " patient sign hung on your

> back.

> > >

> > > Nan E. ( an angry and difficult woman learning

> to

> > > chill.)

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> > __________________________________________________

> >

[Guest guest]

No, Nan..... outside of this experience, I have never

been treated with this kind of disrespect and

certainly not been lied to by staff in a doctor's

office . It might interest you to know that I had NO

Words over this with Angie..... I just want my films

back so that I can move on. I have a very sensitive

job... and like you, have been an attorney's

paralegal. You people in the USC group and the only

ones that have jumped on me.

You suggested that I have a sign on my back

labeling me! That is not disrespectful? Obviously,

you have a different set of ethics than I do.

I have left the USC group list...... I don't need

the agrivation. I came here to learn.... to have

dialogue with others who share my life problems and

for support.

Do I have to leave here too?

CAroline

--- Nan Earnheart leafynan@...> wrote:

> Caroline-- I realize that you feel that anyone who

> disagrees with you is hurting you, and you respond

> with

> anger. I am not angry, and I am not calling you

> names, and

> I am not dissing you in any way. I am asking you to

> look

> at your interactions with physicians' offices in the

> past

> and calmly evaluate your role in what happened. You

> may

> have some behaviors or attitudes or approaches which

> are

> not helping you get what you want. I have a

> temper, and I

> tend to let it loose when I am frustrated or

> dissapointed.

> It has never been in my best interests to do that,

> in hind

> sight. People who work with the public in helping

> capacities (like doctor's offices and lawyers

> offices) tend

> to lable certain types of people who demonstrate

> certain

> types of behaviors. May not be fair, may not be

> right, but

> it is often done. I am suggesting that you may have

> gotten

> one of those lables, which you might want to get rid

> of.

> You are the only one who knows what your end of

> things is

> like-- I am just suggesting based solely on the

> posts you

> have placed here that you may have some behaviors

> that are

> getting in your way. It is only my opinion, and my

> opinion

> is worth whatever you think it is.

> Nan E. ( an angry woman trying very hard to chill

> and not

> take this personally)

>

> --- Caroline Powser humngbrd2001@...> wrote:

> >

> > You bet I am angry!! And then I have to be

> attacked

> > on a *support* group by a couple of people who

> enjoy

> > seeing others in pain?

> > Bye......

> >

> >

> > --- Nan Earnheart leafynan@...> wrote:

> > > Any one else begining to understand Caroline's

> the

> > > turn

> > > down? No disrespect, Caroline, but you are a

> little

> > > intense and angry. Do you have a history of

> being

> > > pissed

> > > off that is documented in your records? You

> might

> > > have

> > > gotten a " diffiuclt " patient sign hung on your

> back.

> > >

> > > Nan E. ( an angry and difficult woman learning

> to

> > > chill.)

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> > __________________________________________________

> >