Re: Collected Wisdom

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Though we appreciate the sweet words, saying that La people are more "refined" than San Franciscans are FIGHTING WORDS!!!! LOLRandy Mendez wrote:

Ya know, I went to the pre surgery meetings at UCLA and bragged so much about this wonderful group, and about all the support it gives, I even printed a few pages so they could all see how wonderful you are..... and what do you do????? You proved me right! I blush at lots of things, that prudish school teacher in training behavior.... but alas, those are my hangups. Thank you for discussing everything ....and with such passion (?) I am grateful to have found such open, sweet, and smart friends like you... Down here near Hollywood, we could never discuss such progressive things..... we are a refined group.....hey BTW does Good Vibrations have another store a little south of SF? Hugs! and smiles!

Sue (who got approved on June 6th and awaits with baited breath for my orientation meeting....and then.....YAHOOOOOO!Pamela A Marsh wrote:

But you are fabulous in every sense and have such away with words. I feel confident that you could do abest seller and then some..if you would only believe. Making it up as you go is great because that means itis original, from experience and personal. Peoplelike stuff like that. I mean I know I do. Also, the"Best of" compilation is great to. I understandthough also that it is risky putting your life outthere in an open book but the pay off is so muchbetter because you help heal souls and smooth overwrinkles places and give people ways around all thepot holes in life. You should really think about it.Pam Marsh--- Uncle Timmy wrote:> I think the best thing, would be a "Best of"> compilation of the > postings to this list, from

everyone. The> collective wisdom here is > far more than any one single person could possess. > Besides, I feel > very uncomfortable as anybody's role model! God> knows, I'm just > making this (life) up as I go! You guys (wheter you> realize it or > not) are the real "Bari-Gurus."> > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > Hi ,> > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous> husband> > > > for decades. What > > > > I did > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I> > > > basically closed the > > > > door on > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.> > > > > > >

> > > OK, here's my personal (very!)> recommendation, and> > > > I truly hope it > > > > does > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your> > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > reject > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido> is> > > > diminished because > > > > of his > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with> either> > > > helping you with > > > > either > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while> you> > > > play with them? > > > > This may > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way> for your> > > > libido issues > > > > to be > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly>

recommend> > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > San > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and> erotic> > > > literature.> > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other> suggestions.> > > > You do need to > > > > take > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including> your> > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > said, > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't> mean it> > > > to.> > > > > > > > > > Eleanor> > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > Eleanor Oster> > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)> > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm> > > > > San , CA> >

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