Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 But you are fabulous in every sense and have such a way with words. I feel confident that you could do a best seller and then some..if you would only believe. Making it up as you go is great because that means it is original, from experience and personal. People like stuff like that. I mean I know I do. Also, the " Best of " compilation is great to. I understand though also that it is risky putting your life out there in an open book but the pay off is so much better because you help heal souls and smooth over wrinkles places and give people ways around all the pot holes in life. You should really think about it. Pam Marsh --- Uncle Timmy n01un0@...> wrote: > I think the best thing, would be a " Best of " > compilation of the > postings to this list, from everyone. The > collective wisdom here is > far more than any one single person could possess. > Besides, I feel > very uncomfortable as anybody's role model! God > knows, I'm just > making this (life) up as I go! You guys (wheter you > realize it or > not) are the real " Bari-Gurus. " > > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > Hi , > > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous > husband > > > > for decades. What > > > > I did > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I > > > > basically closed the > > > > door on > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) > recommendation, and > > > > I truly hope it > > > > does > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your > > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > reject > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido > is > > > > diminished because > > > > of his > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with > either > > > > helping you with > > > > either > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while > you > > > > play with them? > > > > This may > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way > for your > > > > libido issues > > > > to be > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly > recommend > > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > San > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and > erotic > > > > literature. > > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other > suggestions. > > > > You do need to > > > > take > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including > your > > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > said, > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't > mean it > > > > to. > > > > > > > > > > Eleanor > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > Eleanor Oster > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > > > > San , CA > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > > > > ~5'9 " tall > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > > > > Goal 140-150? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 But you are fabulous in every sense and have such a way with words. I feel confident that you could do a best seller and then some..if you would only believe. Making it up as you go is great because that means it is original, from experience and personal. People like stuff like that. I mean I know I do. Also, the " Best of " compilation is great to. I understand though also that it is risky putting your life out there in an open book but the pay off is so much better because you help heal souls and smooth over wrinkles places and give people ways around all the pot holes in life. You should really think about it. Pam Marsh --- Uncle Timmy n01un0@...> wrote: > I think the best thing, would be a " Best of " > compilation of the > postings to this list, from everyone. The > collective wisdom here is > far more than any one single person could possess. > Besides, I feel > very uncomfortable as anybody's role model! God > knows, I'm just > making this (life) up as I go! You guys (wheter you > realize it or > not) are the real " Bari-Gurus. " > > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > Hi , > > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous > husband > > > > for decades. What > > > > I did > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I > > > > basically closed the > > > > door on > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) > recommendation, and > > > > I truly hope it > > > > does > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your > > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > reject > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido > is > > > > diminished because > > > > of his > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with > either > > > > helping you with > > > > either > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while > you > > > > play with them? > > > > This may > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way > for your > > > > libido issues > > > > to be > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly > recommend > > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > San > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and > erotic > > > > literature. > > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other > suggestions. > > > > You do need to > > > > take > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including > your > > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > said, > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't > mean it > > > > to. > > > > > > > > > > Eleanor > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > Eleanor Oster > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > > > > San , CA > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > > > > ~5'9 " tall > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > > > > Goal 140-150? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 But you are fabulous in every sense and have such a way with words. I feel confident that you could do a best seller and then some..if you would only believe. Making it up as you go is great because that means it is original, from experience and personal. People like stuff like that. I mean I know I do. Also, the " Best of " compilation is great to. I understand though also that it is risky putting your life out there in an open book but the pay off is so much better because you help heal souls and smooth over wrinkles places and give people ways around all the pot holes in life. You should really think about it. Pam Marsh --- Uncle Timmy n01un0@...> wrote: > I think the best thing, would be a " Best of " > compilation of the > postings to this list, from everyone. The > collective wisdom here is > far more than any one single person could possess. > Besides, I feel > very uncomfortable as anybody's role model! God > knows, I'm just > making this (life) up as I go! You guys (wheter you > realize it or > not) are the real " Bari-Gurus. " > > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > Hi , > > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous > husband > > > > for decades. What > > > > I did > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I > > > > basically closed the > > > > door on > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) > recommendation, and > > > > I truly hope it > > > > does > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your > > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > reject > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido > is > > > > diminished because > > > > of his > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with > either > > > > helping you with > > > > either > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while > you > > > > play with them? > > > > This may > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way > for your > > > > libido issues > > > > to be > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly > recommend > > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > San > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and > erotic > > > > literature. > > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other > suggestions. > > > > You do need to > > > > take > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including > your > > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > said, > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't > mean it > > > > to. > > > > > > > > > > Eleanor > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > Eleanor Oster > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > > > > San , CA > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > > > > ~5'9 " tall > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > > > > Goal 140-150? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Ok! I have been in this site for 2 hours today! I have gotton nothing done at work! Is anyone working today??? I also meant to say beach party not pool party, although we could do ether as we do have a pool. > > > > > > Hi , > > > > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous > > husband > > > > > for decades. What > > > > > I did > > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I > > > > > basically closed the > > > > > door on > > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) > > recommendation, and > > > > > I truly hope it > > > > > does > > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your > > > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > > reject > > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido > > is > > > > > diminished because > > > > > of his > > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with > > either > > > > > helping you with > > > > > either > > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while > > you > > > > > play with them? > > > > > This may > > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way > > for your > > > > > libido issues > > > > > to be > > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly > > recommend > > > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > > San > > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and > > erotic > > > > > literature. > > > > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other > > suggestions. > > > > > You do need to > > > > > take > > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including > > your > > > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > > said, > > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't > > mean it > > > > > to. > > > > > > > > > > > > Eleanor > > > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > > Eleanor Oster > > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > > > > > San , CA > > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > > > > > ~5'9 " tall > > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > > > > > Goal 140-150? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Ok! I have been in this site for 2 hours today! I have gotton nothing done at work! Is anyone working today??? I also meant to say beach party not pool party, although we could do ether as we do have a pool. > > > > > > Hi , > > > > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous > > husband > > > > > for decades. What > > > > > I did > > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I > > > > > basically closed the > > > > > door on > > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) > > recommendation, and > > > > > I truly hope it > > > > > does > > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your > > > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > > reject > > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido > > is > > > > > diminished because > > > > > of his > > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with > > either > > > > > helping you with > > > > > either > > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while > > you > > > > > play with them? > > > > > This may > > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way > > for your > > > > > libido issues > > > > > to be > > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly > > recommend > > > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > > San > > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and > > erotic > > > > > literature. > > > > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other > > suggestions. > > > > > You do need to > > > > > take > > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including > > your > > > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > > said, > > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't > > mean it > > > > > to. > > > > > > > > > > > > Eleanor > > > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > > Eleanor Oster > > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > > > > > San , CA > > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > > > > > ~5'9 " tall > > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > > > > > Goal 140-150? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Ok! I have been in this site for 2 hours today! I have gotton nothing done at work! Is anyone working today??? I also meant to say beach party not pool party, although we could do ether as we do have a pool. > > > > > > Hi , > > > > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous > > husband > > > > > for decades. What > > > > > I did > > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I > > > > > basically closed the > > > > > door on > > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) > > recommendation, and > > > > > I truly hope it > > > > > does > > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your > > > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > > reject > > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido > > is > > > > > diminished because > > > > > of his > > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with > > either > > > > > helping you with > > > > > either > > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while > > you > > > > > play with them? > > > > > This may > > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way > > for your > > > > > libido issues > > > > > to be > > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly > > recommend > > > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > > San > > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and > > erotic > > > > > literature. > > > > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other > > suggestions. > > > > > You do need to > > > > > take > > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including > > your > > > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > > said, > > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't > > mean it > > > > > to. > > > > > > > > > > > > Eleanor > > > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > > Eleanor Oster > > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > > > > > San , CA > > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > > > > > ~5'9 " tall > > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > > > > > Goal 140-150? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Ya know, I went to the pre surgery meetings at UCLA and bragged so much about this wonderful group, and about all the support it gives, I even printed a few pages so they could all see how wonderful you are..... and what do you do????? You proved me right! I blush at lots of things, that prudish school teacher in training behavior.... but alas, those are my hangups. Thank you for discussing everything ....and with such passion (?) I am grateful to have found such open, sweet, and smart friends like you... Down here near Hollywood, we could never discuss such progressive things..... we are a refined group.....hey BTW does Good Vibrations have another store a little south of SF? Hugs! and smiles! Sue (who got approved on June 6th and awaits with baited breath for my orientation meeting....and then.....YAHOOOOOO!Pamela A Marsh wrote: But you are fabulous in every sense and have such away with words. I feel confident that you could do abest seller and then some..if you would only believe. Making it up as you go is great because that means itis original, from experience and personal. Peoplelike stuff like that. I mean I know I do. Also, the"Best of" compilation is great to. I understandthough also that it is risky putting your life outthere in an open book but the pay off is so muchbetter because you help heal souls and smooth overwrinkles places and give people ways around all thepot holes in life. You should really think about it.Pam Marsh--- Uncle Timmy wrote:> I think the best thing, would be a "Best of"> compilation of the > postings to this list, from everyone. The> collective wisdom here is > far more than any one single person could possess. > Besides, I feel > very uncomfortable as anybody's role model! God> knows, I'm just > making this (life) up as I go! You guys (wheter you> realize it or > not) are the real "Bari-Gurus."> > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > Hi ,> > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous> husband> > > > for decades. What > > > > I did > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I> > > > basically closed the > > > > door on > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.> > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!)> recommendation, and> > > > I truly hope it > > > > does > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your> > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > reject > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido> is> > > > diminished because > > > > of his > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with> either> > > > helping you with > > > > either > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while> you> > > > play with them? > > > > This may > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way> for your> > > > libido issues > > > > to be > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly> recommend> > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > San > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and> erotic> > > > literature.> > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other> suggestions.> > > > You do need to > > > > take > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including> your> > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > said, > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't> mean it> > > > to.> > > > > > > > > > Eleanor> > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > Eleanor Oster> > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)> > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm> > > > > San , CA> > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003> > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)> > > > > ~5'9" tall> > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation> > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery> > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?> > > > > Goal 140-150?> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >> __________________________________________________> > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Ya know, I went to the pre surgery meetings at UCLA and bragged so much about this wonderful group, and about all the support it gives, I even printed a few pages so they could all see how wonderful you are..... and what do you do????? You proved me right! I blush at lots of things, that prudish school teacher in training behavior.... but alas, those are my hangups. Thank you for discussing everything ....and with such passion (?) I am grateful to have found such open, sweet, and smart friends like you... Down here near Hollywood, we could never discuss such progressive things..... we are a refined group.....hey BTW does Good Vibrations have another store a little south of SF? Hugs! and smiles! Sue (who got approved on June 6th and awaits with baited breath for my orientation meeting....and then.....YAHOOOOOO!Pamela A Marsh wrote: But you are fabulous in every sense and have such away with words. I feel confident that you could do abest seller and then some..if you would only believe. Making it up as you go is great because that means itis original, from experience and personal. Peoplelike stuff like that. I mean I know I do. Also, the"Best of" compilation is great to. I understandthough also that it is risky putting your life outthere in an open book but the pay off is so muchbetter because you help heal souls and smooth overwrinkles places and give people ways around all thepot holes in life. You should really think about it.Pam Marsh--- Uncle Timmy wrote:> I think the best thing, would be a "Best of"> compilation of the > postings to this list, from everyone. The> collective wisdom here is > far more than any one single person could possess. > Besides, I feel > very uncomfortable as anybody's role model! God> knows, I'm just > making this (life) up as I go! You guys (wheter you> realize it or > not) are the real "Bari-Gurus."> > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > Hi ,> > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous> husband> > > > for decades. What > > > > I did > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I> > > > basically closed the > > > > door on > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.> > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!)> recommendation, and> > > > I truly hope it > > > > does > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your> > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > reject > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido> is> > > > diminished because > > > > of his > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with> either> > > > helping you with > > > > either > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while> you> > > > play with them? > > > > This may > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way> for your> > > > libido issues > > > > to be > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly> recommend> > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > San > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and> erotic> > > > literature.> > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other> suggestions.> > > > You do need to > > > > take > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including> your> > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > said, > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't> mean it> > > > to.> > > > > > > > > > Eleanor> > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > Eleanor Oster> > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)> > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm> > > > > San , CA> > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003> > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)> > > > > ~5'9" tall> > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation> > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery> > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?> > > > > Goal 140-150?> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >> __________________________________________________> > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Ya know, I went to the pre surgery meetings at UCLA and bragged so much about this wonderful group, and about all the support it gives, I even printed a few pages so they could all see how wonderful you are..... and what do you do????? You proved me right! I blush at lots of things, that prudish school teacher in training behavior.... but alas, those are my hangups. Thank you for discussing everything ....and with such passion (?) I am grateful to have found such open, sweet, and smart friends like you... Down here near Hollywood, we could never discuss such progressive things..... we are a refined group.....hey BTW does Good Vibrations have another store a little south of SF? Hugs! and smiles! Sue (who got approved on June 6th and awaits with baited breath for my orientation meeting....and then.....YAHOOOOOO!Pamela A Marsh wrote: But you are fabulous in every sense and have such away with words. I feel confident that you could do abest seller and then some..if you would only believe. Making it up as you go is great because that means itis original, from experience and personal. Peoplelike stuff like that. I mean I know I do. Also, the"Best of" compilation is great to. I understandthough also that it is risky putting your life outthere in an open book but the pay off is so muchbetter because you help heal souls and smooth overwrinkles places and give people ways around all thepot holes in life. You should really think about it.Pam Marsh--- Uncle Timmy wrote:> I think the best thing, would be a "Best of"> compilation of the > postings to this list, from everyone. The> collective wisdom here is > far more than any one single person could possess. > Besides, I feel > very uncomfortable as anybody's role model! God> knows, I'm just > making this (life) up as I go! You guys (wheter you> realize it or > not) are the real "Bari-Gurus."> > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > Hi ,> > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous> husband> > > > for decades. What > > > > I did > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I> > > > basically closed the > > > > door on > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.> > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!)> recommendation, and> > > > I truly hope it > > > > does > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your> > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > reject > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido> is> > > > diminished because > > > > of his > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with> either> > > > helping you with > > > > either > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while> you> > > > play with them? > > > > This may > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way> for your> > > > libido issues > > > > to be > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly> recommend> > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > San > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and> erotic> > > > literature.> > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other> suggestions.> > > > You do need to > > > > take > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including> your> > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > said, > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't> mean it> > > > to.> > > > > > > > > > Eleanor> > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > Eleanor Oster> > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)> > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm> > > > > San , CA> > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003> > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)> > > > > ~5'9" tall> > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation> > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery> > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?> > > > > Goal 140-150?> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >> __________________________________________________> > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Though we appreciate the sweet words, saying that La people are more "refined" than San Franciscans are FIGHTING WORDS!!!! LOLRandy Mendez wrote: Ya know, I went to the pre surgery meetings at UCLA and bragged so much about this wonderful group, and about all the support it gives, I even printed a few pages so they could all see how wonderful you are..... and what do you do????? You proved me right! I blush at lots of things, that prudish school teacher in training behavior.... but alas, those are my hangups. Thank you for discussing everything ....and with such passion (?) I am grateful to have found such open, sweet, and smart friends like you... Down here near Hollywood, we could never discuss such progressive things..... we are a refined group.....hey BTW does Good Vibrations have another store a little south of SF? Hugs! and smiles! Sue (who got approved on June 6th and awaits with baited breath for my orientation meeting....and then.....YAHOOOOOO!Pamela A Marsh wrote: But you are fabulous in every sense and have such away with words. I feel confident that you could do abest seller and then some..if you would only believe. Making it up as you go is great because that means itis original, from experience and personal. Peoplelike stuff like that. I mean I know I do. Also, the"Best of" compilation is great to. I understandthough also that it is risky putting your life outthere in an open book but the pay off is so muchbetter because you help heal souls and smooth overwrinkles places and give people ways around all thepot holes in life. You should really think about it.Pam Marsh--- Uncle Timmy wrote:> I think the best thing, would be a "Best of"> compilation of the > postings to this list, from everyone. The> collective wisdom here is > far more than any one single person could possess. > Besides, I feel > very uncomfortable as anybody's role model! God> knows, I'm just > making this (life) up as I go! You guys (wheter you> realize it or > not) are the real "Bari-Gurus."> > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > Hi ,> > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous> husband> > > > for decades. What > > > > I did > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I> > > > basically closed the > > > > door on > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.> > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!)> recommendation, and> > > > I truly hope it > > > > does > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your> > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > reject > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido> is> > > > diminished because > > > > of his > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with> either> > > > helping you with > > > > either > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while> you> > > > play with them? > > > > This may > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way> for your> > > > libido issues > > > > to be > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly> recommend> > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > San > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and> erotic> > > > literature.> > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other> suggestions.> > > > You do need to > > > > take > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including> your> > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > said, > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't> mean it> > > > to.> > > > > > > > > > Eleanor> > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > Eleanor Oster> > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)> > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm> > > > > San , CA> > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003> > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)> > > > > ~5'9" tall> > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation> > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery> > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?> > > > > Goal 140-150?> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >> __________________________________________________> > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Randy, go to their web sight, you can order anything from there > > > > > > Hi , > > > > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous > > husband > > > > > for decades. What > > > > > I did > > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I > > > > > basically closed the > > > > > door on > > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) > > recommendation, and > > > > > I truly hope it > > > > > does > > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your > > > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > > reject > > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido > > is > > > > > diminished because > > > > > of his > > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with > > either > > > > > helping you with > > > > > either > > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while > > you > > > > > play with them? > > > > > This may > > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way > > for your > > > > > libido issues > > > > > to be > > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly > > recommend > > > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > > San > > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and > > erotic > > > > > literature. > > > > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other > > suggestions. > > > > > You do need to > > > > > take > > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including > > your > > > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > > said, > > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't > > mean it > > > > > to. > > > > > > > > > > > > Eleanor > > > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > > Eleanor Oster > > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > > > > > San , CA > > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > > > > > ~5'9 " tall > > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > > > > > Goal 140-150? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Randy, go to their web sight, you can order anything from there > > > > > > Hi , > > > > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous > > husband > > > > > for decades. What > > > > > I did > > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I > > > > > basically closed the > > > > > door on > > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) > > recommendation, and > > > > > I truly hope it > > > > > does > > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your > > > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > > reject > > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido > > is > > > > > diminished because > > > > > of his > > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with > > either > > > > > helping you with > > > > > either > > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while > > you > > > > > play with them? > > > > > This may > > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way > > for your > > > > > libido issues > > > > > to be > > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly > > recommend > > > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > > San > > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and > > erotic > > > > > literature. > > > > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other > > suggestions. > > > > > You do need to > > > > > take > > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including > > your > > > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > > said, > > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't > > mean it > > > > > to. > > > > > > > > > > > > Eleanor > > > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > > Eleanor Oster > > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > > > > > San , CA > > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > > > > > ~5'9 " tall > > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > > > > > Goal 140-150? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 You got that right! GRRRRR! LaWanda At 10:36 AM 6/14/05, you wrote: >Though we appreciate the sweet words, saying that La people are more > " refined " than San Franciscans are FIGHTING WORDS!!!! LOL > >Randy Mendez mendez6@...> wrote: >Ya know, I went to the pre surgery meetings at UCLA and bragged so much >about this wonderful group, and about all the support it gives, I even >printed a few pages so they could all see how wonderful you are..... and >what do you do????? You proved me right! I blush at lots of things, that >prudish school teacher in training behavior.... but alas, those are my >hangups. Thank you for discussing everything ....and with such passion (?) >I am grateful to have found such open, sweet, and smart friends like >you... Down here near Hollywood, we could never discuss such progressive >things..... we are a refined group.....hey BTW does Good Vibrations have >another store a little south of SF? Hugs! and smiles! >Sue (who got approved on June 6th and awaits with baited breath for my >orientation meeting....and then.....YAHOOOOOO! > >Pamela A Marsh sweetnlow20012001@...> wrote: >But you are fabulous in every sense and have such a >way with words. I feel confident that you could do a >best seller and then some..if you would only believe. >Making it up as you go is great because that means it >is original, from experience and personal. People >like stuff like that. I mean I know I do. Also, the > " Best of " compilation is great to. I understand >though also that it is risky putting your life out >there in an open book but the pay off is so much >better because you help heal souls and smooth over >wrinkles places and give people ways around all the >pot holes in life. You should really think about it. > >Pam Marsh > >--- Uncle Timmy n01un0@...> wrote: > > > I think the best thing, would be a " Best of " > > compilation of the > > postings to this list, from everyone. The > > collective wisdom here is > > far more than any one single person could possess. > > Besides, I feel > > very uncomfortable as anybody's role model! God > > knows, I'm just > > making this (life) up as I go! You guys (wheter you > > realize it or > > not) are the real " Bari-Gurus. " > > > > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > > > > Hi , > > > > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous > > husband > > > > > for decades. What > > > > > I did > > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I > > > > > basically closed the > > > > > door on > > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) > > recommendation, and > > > > > I truly hope it > > > > > does > > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your > > > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > > reject > > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido > > is > > > > > diminished because > > > > > of his > > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with > > either > > > > > helping you with > > > > > either > > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while > > you > > > > > play with them? > > > > > This may > > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way > > for your > > > > > libido issues > > > > > to be > > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly > > recommend > > > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > > San > > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and > > erotic > > > > > literature. > > > > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other > > suggestions. > > > > > You do need to > > > > > take > > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including > > your > > > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > > said, > > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't > > mean it > > > > > to. > > > > > > > > > > > > Eleanor > > > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > > Eleanor Oster > > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > > > > > San , CA > > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > > > > > ~5'9 " tall > > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > > > > > Goal 140-150? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 You got that right! GRRRRR! LaWanda At 10:36 AM 6/14/05, you wrote: >Though we appreciate the sweet words, saying that La people are more > " refined " than San Franciscans are FIGHTING WORDS!!!! LOL > >Randy Mendez mendez6@...> wrote: >Ya know, I went to the pre surgery meetings at UCLA and bragged so much >about this wonderful group, and about all the support it gives, I even >printed a few pages so they could all see how wonderful you are..... and >what do you do????? You proved me right! I blush at lots of things, that >prudish school teacher in training behavior.... but alas, those are my >hangups. Thank you for discussing everything ....and with such passion (?) >I am grateful to have found such open, sweet, and smart friends like >you... Down here near Hollywood, we could never discuss such progressive >things..... we are a refined group.....hey BTW does Good Vibrations have >another store a little south of SF? Hugs! and smiles! >Sue (who got approved on June 6th and awaits with baited breath for my >orientation meeting....and then.....YAHOOOOOO! > >Pamela A Marsh sweetnlow20012001@...> wrote: >But you are fabulous in every sense and have such a >way with words. I feel confident that you could do a >best seller and then some..if you would only believe. >Making it up as you go is great because that means it >is original, from experience and personal. People >like stuff like that. I mean I know I do. Also, the > " Best of " compilation is great to. I understand >though also that it is risky putting your life out >there in an open book but the pay off is so much >better because you help heal souls and smooth over >wrinkles places and give people ways around all the >pot holes in life. You should really think about it. > >Pam Marsh > >--- Uncle Timmy n01un0@...> wrote: > > > I think the best thing, would be a " Best of " > > compilation of the > > postings to this list, from everyone. The > > collective wisdom here is > > far more than any one single person could possess. > > Besides, I feel > > very uncomfortable as anybody's role model! God > > knows, I'm just > > making this (life) up as I go! You guys (wheter you > > realize it or > > not) are the real " Bari-Gurus. " > > > > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > > > > Hi , > > > > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous > > husband > > > > > for decades. What > > > > > I did > > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I > > > > > basically closed the > > > > > door on > > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) > > recommendation, and > > > > > I truly hope it > > > > > does > > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your > > > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > > reject > > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido > > is > > > > > diminished because > > > > > of his > > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with > > either > > > > > helping you with > > > > > either > > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while > > you > > > > > play with them? > > > > > This may > > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way > > for your > > > > > libido issues > > > > > to be > > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly > > recommend > > > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > > San > > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and > > erotic > > > > > literature. > > > > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other > > suggestions. > > > > > You do need to > > > > > take > > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including > > your > > > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > > said, > > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't > > mean it > > > > > to. > > > > > > > > > > > > Eleanor > > > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > > Eleanor Oster > > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > > > > > San , CA > > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > > > > > ~5'9 " tall > > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > > > > > Goal 140-150? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 You got that right! GRRRRR! LaWanda At 10:36 AM 6/14/05, you wrote: >Though we appreciate the sweet words, saying that La people are more > " refined " than San Franciscans are FIGHTING WORDS!!!! LOL > >Randy Mendez mendez6@...> wrote: >Ya know, I went to the pre surgery meetings at UCLA and bragged so much >about this wonderful group, and about all the support it gives, I even >printed a few pages so they could all see how wonderful you are..... and >what do you do????? You proved me right! I blush at lots of things, that >prudish school teacher in training behavior.... but alas, those are my >hangups. Thank you for discussing everything ....and with such passion (?) >I am grateful to have found such open, sweet, and smart friends like >you... Down here near Hollywood, we could never discuss such progressive >things..... we are a refined group.....hey BTW does Good Vibrations have >another store a little south of SF? Hugs! and smiles! >Sue (who got approved on June 6th and awaits with baited breath for my >orientation meeting....and then.....YAHOOOOOO! > >Pamela A Marsh sweetnlow20012001@...> wrote: >But you are fabulous in every sense and have such a >way with words. I feel confident that you could do a >best seller and then some..if you would only believe. >Making it up as you go is great because that means it >is original, from experience and personal. People >like stuff like that. I mean I know I do. Also, the > " Best of " compilation is great to. I understand >though also that it is risky putting your life out >there in an open book but the pay off is so much >better because you help heal souls and smooth over >wrinkles places and give people ways around all the >pot holes in life. You should really think about it. > >Pam Marsh > >--- Uncle Timmy n01un0@...> wrote: > > > I think the best thing, would be a " Best of " > > compilation of the > > postings to this list, from everyone. The > > collective wisdom here is > > far more than any one single person could possess. > > Besides, I feel > > very uncomfortable as anybody's role model! God > > knows, I'm just > > making this (life) up as I go! You guys (wheter you > > realize it or > > not) are the real " Bari-Gurus. " > > > > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > > > > Hi , > > > > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous > > husband > > > > > for decades. What > > > > > I did > > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I > > > > > basically closed the > > > > > door on > > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) > > recommendation, and > > > > > I truly hope it > > > > > does > > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your > > > > > marriage, feel free to > > > > > reject > > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido > > is > > > > > diminished because > > > > > of his > > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with > > either > > > > > helping you with > > > > > either > > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while > > you > > > > > play with them? > > > > > This may > > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way > > for your > > > > > libido issues > > > > > to be > > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly > > recommend > > > > > Good Vibrations on > > > > > San > > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and > > erotic > > > > > literature. > > > > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other > > suggestions. > > > > > You do need to > > > > > take > > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including > > your > > > > > sexuality. Like I > > > > > said, > > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't > > mean it > > > > > to. > > > > > > > > > > > > Eleanor > > > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > > Eleanor Oster > > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > > > > > San , CA > > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > > > > > ~5'9 " tall > > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > > > > > Goal 140-150? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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