RE: A Pessimists Tale

[Guest guest]

Blane,

Congradgulations on your surgery date.

I also used to feel that when good things happend, watch out

something bad is comimg.I think I thought that way because I was

raised in a family that was very negative. My father to this day

believes there is a black cloud over his head. Thank God I never

really fit in with my family, and I had the ability to see the glass

half full,in the shadow of that black cloud.

2 yrs ago I started attending Science of Mind and Religous

Science.Thats where I found out that I could change my mind and

change my life.(I'm not pushing any religion here just a simple

thought).

I know it sounds real easy, but old habits are hard to break.

After lots of trial and error I have truly come to believe that

whatever I put out is what I get back. Can you imagine having good

things happen and not waiting for the axe to drop? It really does

work.

I have also come to belive I deserve to have good things in

my life. We as humans for some reason, seem to think our time here on

earth is to suffer. Well I refuse to suffer, I know I'm here for

something much more enjoyable than suffering.

It's funny because when this thinking really set in, my life

improved so much. Having this surgery is proof of that. For the first

time in my life I'm going to know how it feels to be healthy and not

have to deal with all the baggage that comes with being morbidly

obese.

I really believe everything good I have in my life is because

I've changed my negative thinking and by doing that I've changed my

life into a positive, joyous, abundant and fearless event.

So Blaine, try this. You do have happy feet and forget the

hard hat and cover you don't need it. Just your positive thinking and

your joy for this wonderful event happening in your life,is all you

need. Because you do deserve good things as we all do. We don't need

to know or understand or justify our good fortune, just except it and

be greatful.And most important when we are gifted by something

wonderful, we need not taint it with negativity, as that will only

push it away.

I hope you understand that this is only a sugestion. I'm

just letting you know what has worked for me. These ideas may not be

for you and thats ok, we are all different and I certainly respect

that about people. In any event I am happy you have your surgry date

and I'll be praying for your highest good that all goes well.

NAMESTE,