Re: Parted ways ...(Francisco)

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Hi Francisco,

I think this happens, but cheer up You are taking care of yourself (something IM learning)

I have been a giver always helping people and IM changing that and I can already see the change in my family. I think this is a good thing and what the heck find someone to support you for a change.....LOL Oh yes, Congratulations on the Run.... You guys Rock......

Big Hugs

Caryl

Hey everyone, especially you posties:Have you had anything like this happen?A now former friend (he is boardering on being morbidly obese)and I had another disagreement, and I've decided that this is just the last straw.After this little disagreement, I was sitting here mulling it over. He said that the last year has been all about me, and that I haven't given anything back to him. Oh boo hoo! That is such needy crap, and I just don't agree.And it just hit me. Bill was my last fat friend. All of my fat friends have turned their backs on me in some sort of jealous fit, and I now live among the normal-weighted. What the hell was I supposed to give back? I think what he really wanted was for me to FAIL, like he's failed over and over again. He originally wanted me to be his food police (I refused), and he wanted me to be his workout buddy, but he didn't want to get up at 5:00 AM to work out. And quite frankly, I didn't have the energy to "carry" someone else when I really have to make an effort all on my own. I figure, if he wanted to exercise, he'd stop making excuses and just do it. I did!Hmmm... it's not that I don't get along with fat people (I mean, part of me in my mind is still morbidly obese), and I appreciate all of you here regardless of your size, but what I won't do is fail. And I won't put up with sabotage crap from friends (or former friends) who really hate that I've gone from the fat team to the non-fat team.OK, I'm done ranting. Does this make sense to anyone?Franciscosteadfastly refusing to fail

Caryl DeHerrerawww.Fantasyinart.net

[Guest guest]

Caryl:

That animated hug is so cute! Thanks for your support. I really

appreciate it.

Francisco

>

>

> Hi Francisco,

> I think this happens, but cheer up You are taking care of yourself

> (something IM learning)

> I have been a giver always helping people and IM changing that and

I can

> already see the change in my family. I think this is a good thing

and what the

> heck find someone to support you for a change.....LOL Oh yes,

Congratulations

> on the Run.... You guys Rock......

> Big Hugs

> Caryl

>

>

> Hey everyone, especially you posties:

>

> Have you had anything like this happen?

>

> A now former friend (he is boardering on being morbidly obese)and

I

> had another disagreement, and I've decided that this is just the

last

> straw.

>

> After this little disagreement, I was sitting here mulling it

over.

> He said that the last year has been all about me, and that I

haven't

> given anything back to him. Oh boo hoo! That is such needy crap,

> and I just don't agree.

>

> And it just hit me. Bill was my last fat friend. All of my fat

> friends have turned their backs on me in some sort of jealous fit,

> and I now live among the normal-weighted. What the hell was I

> supposed to give back? I think what he really wanted was for me

to

> FAIL, like he's failed over and over again. He originally wanted

me

> to be his food police (I refused), and he wanted me to be his

workout

> buddy, but he didn't want to get up at 5:00 AM to work out. And

> quite frankly, I didn't have the energy to " carry " someone else

when

> I really have to make an effort all on my own. I figure, if he

> wanted to exercise, he'd stop making excuses and just do it. I

did!

>

> Hmmm... it's not that I don't get along with fat people (I mean,

> part of me in my mind is still morbidly obese), and I appreciate

all

> of you here regardless of your size, but what I won't do is fail.

> And I won't put up with sabotage crap from friends (or former

> friends) who really hate that I've gone from the fat team to the

non-

> fat team.

>

> OK, I'm done ranting. Does this make sense to anyone?

>

> Francisco

> steadfastly refusing to fail

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> Caryl DeHerrera

> _www.Fantasyinart.net_ (http://www.fantasyinart.net/)