Guest guest Posted January 4, 2005 Report Share Posted January 4, 2005 Hi Guys I just need to vent I am so angry!!!!! Now let me start by saying that I love my husband with all of my heart and he is very special and use to be my very best friend Now he is my very special child. I am so sick of walking up with a jolt to find him in the bath room peeing on the floor, the chair, the garbage can, the hamper, or what ever else that might be there, any way I wake up with a jolt to run in there to say NO NO NO Stop and he cant until he is done and am I surprised that he can pee like a race horse!!!!! Then I spend two hours cleaning up the mess because it got down the heater vent and in all of the nooks crannies and crevasses!!!!! and after cleaning him up and putting him back to bed and he can go back to sleep, like nothing happened. I steam for the time that I am cleaning then cant go back to sleep, after just going to sleep at 3 and he woke me up at 5 and now its 7 and I cant sleep I am tired and cranky....and there is pee al over my feet so now I have to wash me too. AAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHHHH. I don't know what that was I just had to do it. any way thanks for letting me vent Some times it just becomes hard and I get frustrated I hope that I made you laugh because it is funnie if I was a fly on the wall. Thanks Hugs Jan Hugs Jan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2005 Report Share Posted January 4, 2005 Sounds like some ABA (applied behavior analysis, used for autistic people) might help him. Hopefully it's just a " phase " . Are you sure he doesn't have diabetes? I suppose since I've gotten close to having an accident myself due to a medication, I'm not going to throw any stones from my glass house... Take care, RH > Hi Guys > > I just need to vent I am so angry!!!!! > Now let me start by saying that I love my husband with all of my heart and he is very special and use to be my very best friend Now he is my very special child. > > I am so sick of walking up with a jolt to find him in the bath room peeing on the floor, the chair, the garbage can, the hamper, or what ever else that might be there, any way I wake up with a jolt to run in there to say NO NO NO Stop and he cant until he is done and am I surprised that he can pee like a race horse!!!!! > Then I spend two hours cleaning up the mess because it got down the heater vent and in all of the nooks crannies and crevasses!!!!! > and after cleaning him up and putting him back to bed and he can go back to sleep, like nothing happened. > I steam for the time that I am cleaning then cant go back to sleep, after just going to sleep at 3 and he woke me up at 5 and now its 7 and I cant sleep I am tired and cranky....and there is pee al over my feet so now I have to wash me too. > AAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHHHH. > I don't know what that was I just had to do it. > any way thanks for letting me vent > Some times it just becomes hard and I get frustrated > I hope that I made you laugh because it is funnie if I was a fly on the wall. > > Thanks Hugs Jan > > Hugs Jan > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2005 Report Share Posted January 4, 2005 Jan Vent away. I love your sense of humor and ability to deal with so many obstacles. One of my sons (he would hate me for saying this), got up as a middle aged child and urinated into the running fan. I was afraid of him being electrocuted. You can also picture the area around the fan. Might he be able to have an external catheter for nighttime. Maybe even a siderail on his bed to slow down his departure, so you can remind him he doesn't need to get up. Just an idea. I'm sure you have tried many. Hugs, laurie > > Reply-To: > Date: Tue, 4 Jan 2005 07:37:45 -0800 > To: > Subject: vent > > Hi Guys > > I just need to vent I am so angry!!!!! > Now let me start by saying that I love my husband with all of my heart and he > is very special and use to be my very best friend Now he is my very special > child. > > I am so sick of walking up with a jolt to find him in the bath room peeing on > the floor, the chair, the garbage can, the hamper, or what ever else that > might be there, any way I wake up with a jolt to run in there to say NO NO NO > Stop and he cant until he is done and am I surprised that he can pee like a > race horse!!!!! > Then I spend two hours cleaning up the mess because it got down the heater > vent and in all of the nooks crannies and crevasses!!!!! > and after cleaning him up and putting him back to bed and he can go back to > sleep, like nothing happened. > I steam for the time that I am cleaning then cant go back to sleep, after just > going to sleep at 3 and he woke me up at 5 and now its 7 and I cant sleep I am > tired and cranky....and there is pee al over my feet so now I have to wash me > too. > AAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHHHH. > I don't know what that was I just had to do it. > any way thanks for letting me vent > Some times it just becomes hard and I get frustrated > I hope that I made you laugh because it is funnie if I was a fly on the wall. > > Thanks Hugs Jan > > Hugs Jan > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2005 Report Share Posted January 4, 2005 Yes he does have diabetes and is being treated for this Thanks Jan Re: vent > > > Sounds like some ABA (applied behavior analysis, used for autistic > people) might help him. Hopefully it's just a " phase " . Are you sure > he doesn't have diabetes? > > I suppose since I've gotten close to having an accident myself due to > a medication, I'm not going to throw any stones from my glass house... > > > Take care, > RH > > > > > Hi Guys > > > > I just need to vent I am so angry!!!!! > > Now let me start by saying that I love my husband with all of my > heart and he is very special and use to be my very best friend Now he > is my very special child. > > > > I am so sick of walking up with a jolt to find him in the bath room > peeing on the floor, the chair, the garbage can, the hamper, or what > ever else that might be there, any way I wake up with a jolt to run > in there to say NO NO NO Stop and he cant until he is done and am I > surprised that he can pee like a race horse!!!!! > > Then I spend two hours cleaning up the mess because it got down the > heater vent and in all of the nooks crannies and crevasses!!!!! > > and after cleaning him up and putting him back to bed and he can go > back to sleep, like nothing happened. > > I steam for the time that I am cleaning then cant go back to sleep, > after just going to sleep at 3 and he woke me up at 5 and now its 7 > and I cant sleep I am tired and cranky....and there is pee al over my > feet so now I have to wash me too. > > AAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHHHH. > > I don't know what that was I just had to do it. > > any way thanks for letting me vent > > Some times it just becomes hard and I get frustrated > > I hope that I made you laugh because it is funnie if I was a fly on > the wall. > > > > Thanks Hugs Jan > > > > Hugs Jan > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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