Guest guest Posted March 20, 2005 Report Share Posted March 20, 2005 There are three colleges in the immediate area, with over 20,000 students. Our campus police are Newark (NJ) police, and state troopers to a lesser extent. So it might be a consideration for others who attend college to look for a smaller school where there would be more personal attention. The head of parking did know me for a while, I complained so much about lack of parking and people using spots without placards/license plates (and delivery trucks blocking spots). I did have a strong relationship with the disability services department - they send out a form every year for registered disabled students to request accommodations. I requested an accommodation to have a class changed to a different room because there were 50 students in a 30 desk classroom, and the heat and having to stand or lean against the wall for a 3-hour class was unacceptable. The professor ended up switching to a large seminar room on the other side of the campus for most of the classes. I am hoping if I get a job at a medical school, there will be less misuse of the spots there. I know from my visits to that campus, at least they don't have to double park like they do at my current school. Certainly the parking issue was a significant concern for my decision to request 95% telecommuting for my research while at school. I haven't had the same parking issues at workplaces - in fact, when I first got sick and had severe symptoms but didn't have a placard, I talked to the HR person about how to get a temporary placard, and she said " Since this is a private company, we police the spots, so we can allow you to use our handicapped spots without a regular placard " . They gave me a note to display - essentially " authorized disabled parking - please call HR with any questions " . Without having a diagnosis or prognosis at the time, that helped me out tremendously. Take care, RH > > > > > > > > > > I have hand rails in my shower and on the front steps. They > > were > > > > > actually there when we bought the house. The gentleman that > > owned > > > > > it before us had parkinsons. It worked out really nice. > > > > Especially > > > > > the one in the shower. I hold on to it a lot when I am in a > > crash. > > > > > I also use the furniture and walls to get around at times. I > > have > > > > > been known to crawl up the stairs and slide down them. ) > > quite a > > > > > sight. I also have learned how to fall without hurting myself. > > I do > > > > > it like the sky divers do. I just relax and slump to the > > ground. I > > > > > have a cane that I use quite often and a wheel chair that I use > > out > > > > > of the house when I need to. I really would like a power > > chair, > > > > but > > > > > need a diagnosis for that. It was hard enough getting the wheel > > > > > chair. I do use the ones provided in stores. They make > > shopping > > > > > somewhat possible. I use a handicapped sticker. It has helped > > a > > > > > lot. I do get a lot of dirty looks when I get out of the car. > > I > > > > > look too normal I guess. LOL! I even had trouble at the DMV. > > She > > > > > challenged me about needing a sticker, and accused me of using > > > > undue > > > > > influence to get my dr to fill out the paper. I was so mad! > > > > > I have a little 'nest' by my recliner. It has the phone, food, > > > > etc. > > > > > Everything that I need close at hand so I don't have to move > > very > > > > > much. I have set up a network of friends at my church that are > > > > > willing to come and help me if I need it. I even had a friend > > who > > > > is > > > > > a nurse who was out on disability last year sit with me and > > take > > > > > care of me when I was really bad. My son is home right now so I > > > > > haven't had to call them recently, but it is nice to know they > > are > > > > > there. I am in the process of doing some remodeling in my > > kitchen > > > > to > > > > > make it more easily accessible. Building pantry shelves that > > are > > > > > closer and I don't have to go down stairs to get to. That is > > all > > > > > that I can think of right now. I guess I have adapted in my > > > > > attitude too. I used to spend a lot of time being frustrated. > > I > > > > > still do get frustrated, but not as bad as I used to. I > > decided > > > > > that this is the life I have and I will just enjoy the parts > > that I > > > > > can. " I do what I can, when I can " and try not to let it get to > > me. > > > > > Any way I have gone on long enough. > > > > > Joanne > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Medical advice, information, opinions, data and statements > > contained herein > > > > are not necessarily those of the list moderators. The author of > > this e mail > > > > is entirely responsible for its content. List members are > > reminded of their > > > > responsibility to evaluate the content of the postings and > > consult with > > > > their physicians regarding changes in their own treatment. > > > > > > > > Personal attacks are not permitted on the list and anyone who > > sends one is > > > > automatically moderated or removed depending on the severity of > > the attack. > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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