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Lynnette:

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can't believe he lost his battle with

this disease after only 4 months. He was too young. Try to honor his

memory with all the beautiful thoughts of how good he was to you and your

little

ones. You are in my thoughts.

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Lynnette:

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can't believe he lost his battle with

this disease after only 4 months. He was too young. Try to honor his

memory with all the beautiful thoughts of how good he was to you and your

little

ones. You are in my thoughts.

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((((((((Lynette))))))))))) hang in there

Deb

" Mrs. Lynette Hoffmann " lkfraley@...> wrote:

Hi Everyone,

I am feeling kind of gloomy this week, more so than usual. Tomorrow

is

the One-year anniversary of my Dad's death. For those of you who

don't

know me, I am 25 years old and I lost my Dad on September 9, 2004. He

died from Metastatic (?) Colon Cancer after a 4 month battle with the

beast. He was 67 years old. We buried him on 9/11/04...never thought

I

would be laying my Father to rest on that day.

What a bummer. I miss him so much. Just closing my eyes I can see him

right here beside me, what'll I do without him for the rest of my

life?

He was my best friend. He also loved my little children very much,

and

they loved him too. They talk about Poppy all the time still. Just

wish

he was still here with us.

Just wanted to post this before I head off to bed.

Thanks for reading,

Lynette

I also wanted to add that at my Dad's funeral we played " Angel " by

Maclachlan and " Go Rest High On That Mountain " by Mr. Vince Gill.

So if you hear these songs think of my Dad.

Thanks again

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Lynette,

Your grief is shared. Just want you to know that and know that your Dad is

there with you. You just can't see him.

Karima

Sad Day Tomorrow

Hi Everyone,

I am feeling kind of gloomy this week, more so than usual. Tomorrow

is

the One-year anniversary of my Dad's death. For those of you who

don't

know me, I am 25 years old and I lost my Dad on September 9, 2004. He

died from Metastatic (?) Colon Cancer after a 4 month battle with the

beast. He was 67 years old. We buried him on 9/11/04...never thought

I

would be laying my Father to rest on that day.

What a bummer. I miss him so much. Just closing my eyes I can see him

right here beside me, what'll I do without him for the rest of my

life?

He was my best friend. He also loved my little children very much,

and

they loved him too. They talk about Poppy all the time still. Just

wish

he was still here with us.

Just wanted to post this before I head off to bed.

Thanks for reading,

Lynette

I also wanted to add that at my Dad's funeral we played " Angel " by

Maclachlan and " Go Rest High On That Mountain " by Mr. Vince Gill.

So if you hear these songs think of my Dad.

Thanks again

*Support Colon Cancer Awareness*

---------------------------------

Click here to donate to the Hurricane Katrina relief effort.

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Lynette, I am so sorry that you lost your dad a year ago. I too never

have gotten over the loss of my dad. He died 25 years ago from

stomach cancer. But our dad's live in our hearts. They are with us

each and every day. Don't ever let your children forget your dad. I

wish my son could of known his grandpa. But he was not born yet then.

God Bless You and your children. Ingrid

> Hi Everyone,

>

> I am feeling kind of gloomy this week, more so than usual. Tomorrow

> is

> the One-year anniversary of my Dad's death. For those of you who

> don't

> know me, I am 25 years old and I lost my Dad on September 9, 2004.

He

> died from Metastatic (?) Colon Cancer after a 4 month battle with

the

> beast. He was 67 years old. We buried him on 9/11/04...never thought

> I

> would be laying my Father to rest on that day.

> What a bummer. I miss him so much. Just closing my eyes I can see

him

> right here beside me, what'll I do without him for the rest of my

> life?

> He was my best friend. He also loved my little children very much,

> and

> they loved him too. They talk about Poppy all the time still. Just

> wish

> he was still here with us.

>

> Just wanted to post this before I head off to bed.

> Thanks for reading,

>

> Lynette

>

> I also wanted to add that at my Dad's funeral we played " Angel " by

Maclachlan and " Go Rest High On That Mountain " by Mr. Vince

Gill.

>

> So if you hear these songs think of my Dad.

>

> Thanks again

>

>

>

>

> *Support Colon Cancer Awareness*

>

> ---------------------------------

> Click here to donate to the Hurricane Katrina relief effort.

>

>

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Lynette

So sorry you are feeling bad on the anniversary of your dad's passing.

Is okay... time will heal the pain of your loss.

He is with you, no doubt about it. As the kids talk about their Poppy

you know he is right there.. Is a great way

to keep his memory alive. I used to talk about about my hubby... LOL...

Even now usually when I do something

he would not approve of... He was sure I would ruin his lawn.. Well

thank goodness it is still nice and green.

I don't baby it like he did, or water it etc - I let nature take care of

it. So I am relieved that I am doing that

much almost right. But it is over 5 years now and pain of loss is easier

to bear and so in time it will be for

you as well. You will manage.... Take care and God Bless Jolene

Mrs. Lynette Hoffmann wrote:

> Hi Everyone,

>

> I am feeling kind of gloomy this week, more so than usual. Tomorrow

> is

> the One-year anniversary of my Dad's death. For those of you who

> don't

> know me, I am 25 years old and I lost my Dad on September 9, 2004. He

> died from Metastatic (?) Colon Cancer after a 4 month battle with the

> beast. He was 67 years old. We buried him on 9/11/04...never thought

> I

> would be laying my Father to rest on that day.

> What a bummer. I miss him so much. Just closing my eyes I can see him

> right here beside me, what'll I do without him for the rest of my

> life?

> He was my best friend. He also loved my little children very much,

> and

> they loved him too. They talk about Poppy all the time still. Just

> wish

> he was still here with us.

>

> Just wanted to post this before I head off to bed.

> Thanks for reading,

>

> Lynette

>

> I also wanted to add that at my Dad's funeral we played " Angel " by

> Maclachlan and " Go Rest High On That Mountain " by Mr. Vince Gill.

>

> So if you hear these songs think of my Dad.

>

> Thanks again

>

>

>

>

> *Support Colon Cancer Awareness*

>

> ---------------------------------

> Click here to donate to the Hurricane Katrina relief effort.

>

>

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Lynette

So sorry you are feeling bad on the anniversary of your dad's passing.

Is okay... time will heal the pain of your loss.

He is with you, no doubt about it. As the kids talk about their Poppy

you know he is right there.. Is a great way

to keep his memory alive. I used to talk about about my hubby... LOL...

Even now usually when I do something

he would not approve of... He was sure I would ruin his lawn.. Well

thank goodness it is still nice and green.

I don't baby it like he did, or water it etc - I let nature take care of

it. So I am relieved that I am doing that

much almost right. But it is over 5 years now and pain of loss is easier

to bear and so in time it will be for

you as well. You will manage.... Take care and God Bless Jolene

Mrs. Lynette Hoffmann wrote:

> Hi Everyone,

>

> I am feeling kind of gloomy this week, more so than usual. Tomorrow

> is

> the One-year anniversary of my Dad's death. For those of you who

> don't

> know me, I am 25 years old and I lost my Dad on September 9, 2004. He

> died from Metastatic (?) Colon Cancer after a 4 month battle with the

> beast. He was 67 years old. We buried him on 9/11/04...never thought

> I

> would be laying my Father to rest on that day.

> What a bummer. I miss him so much. Just closing my eyes I can see him

> right here beside me, what'll I do without him for the rest of my

> life?

> He was my best friend. He also loved my little children very much,

> and

> they loved him too. They talk about Poppy all the time still. Just

> wish

> he was still here with us.

>

> Just wanted to post this before I head off to bed.

> Thanks for reading,

>

> Lynette

>

> I also wanted to add that at my Dad's funeral we played " Angel " by

> Maclachlan and " Go Rest High On That Mountain " by Mr. Vince Gill.

>

> So if you hear these songs think of my Dad.

>

> Thanks again

>

>

>

>

> *Support Colon Cancer Awareness*

>

> ---------------------------------

> Click here to donate to the Hurricane Katrina relief effort.

>

>

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Yes, my Dad was called Papa by my sister, 's girls. No matter how

awful he felt when they walked in Dad would perk up and smile at them.

He really loved all his kids. In fact those were his last words I love you

too I love you all.

Sounds like the world lost a couple of gems

Crying with you

Hugs and Prayers

Narice

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I guess the cancer had progressed to far by the time we found it. He had surgery

on June 18th, 2004 and that was when the surgeon came out and told us that Dad

was in fact going to die. I couldn't believe he was talking about my Dad, the

person whom I loved so much. He told us 6-9 months was what he had left. After

his surgery he was in the hospital until July 10th. He couldn't keep anything

down and he had to keep the stomach tube in, he developed an infection and blood

clots, it was always something it seemed. We brought him home on July 10th and

he was doing alright for a month or so, but then around the third week of August

he complained of such deep constant pain in his back and stomach area again.

Took him for a bone scan to see if it spread. It didn't spread to the bone, but

it was now in his liver and lungs...after only 2 months. He stayed in the

hospital for another 2 weeks, and then we decided it was just time for him to

come home, so the amulance brought him home, and we

called Hospice . He lived about 2 more weeks after hospice came in.

I wish that we never would have let him have that awful surgery. All it did was

cause him extreme pain. You couldn't hardly tell he was sick until he had that

surgery. If we would have refused it he wouldn't have spent the last days of his

life in the hospital with tubes, surgeries, pain, vomiting...but how were we to

know? I thought we were saving him.

I tried, I really did, we all did.

It's been a year today, and I still can't believe he is gone. Miss him very

much.

Lynette

brencolinmom@... wrote:

Lynnette:

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can't believe he lost his battle with

this disease after only 4 months. He was too young. Try to honor his

memory with all the beautiful thoughts of how good he was to you and your

little

ones. You are in my thoughts.

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My baby is now 2, and he still holds my Dad's picture and says My Poppy! Warms

my heart. When Dad was really out of it, hardly able to talk whenever Caleb

would walk into the room, Dad would grin from ear to ear, the biggest smile, I

didn't think he had it in him still but I guess that showed how much he loved my

kids. Caleb would pick up Dad's hand and kiss it, he and Dad would always give

high 5's, Caleb still would do it even though Poppy couldn't do it back.

I don't know if he actually remembers him or if he just remembered that picture

is of someone we call Poppy. The girls remember him I know they do, they are 5

and 4.

We'll never forget him. Love him too much.

Thanks,

Lynette and Family

Ingrid Lowe lowenco@...> wrote:

Lynette, I am so sorry that you lost your dad a year ago. I too never

have gotten over the loss of my dad. He died 25 years ago from

stomach cancer. But our dad's live in our hearts. They are with us

each and every day. Don't ever let your children forget your dad. I

wish my son could of known his grandpa. But he was not born yet then.

God Bless You and your children. Ingrid

> Hi Everyone,

>

> I am feeling kind of gloomy this week, more so than usual. Tomorrow

> is

> the One-year anniversary of my Dad's death. For those of you who

> don't

> know me, I am 25 years old and I lost my Dad on September 9, 2004.

He

> died from Metastatic (?) Colon Cancer after a 4 month battle with

the

> beast. He was 67 years old. We buried him on 9/11/04...never thought

> I

> would be laying my Father to rest on that day.

> What a bummer. I miss him so much. Just closing my eyes I can see

him

> right here beside me, what'll I do without him for the rest of my

> life?

> He was my best friend. He also loved my little children very much,

> and

> they loved him too. They talk about Poppy all the time still. Just

> wish

> he was still here with us.

>

> Just wanted to post this before I head off to bed.

> Thanks for reading,

>

> Lynette

>

> I also wanted to add that at my Dad's funeral we played " Angel " by

Maclachlan and " Go Rest High On That Mountain " by Mr. Vince

Gill.

>

> So if you hear these songs think of my Dad.

>

> Thanks again

>

>

>

>

> *Support Colon Cancer Awareness*

>

> ---------------------------------

> Click here to donate to the Hurricane Katrina relief effort.

>

>

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My baby is now 2, and he still holds my Dad's picture and says My Poppy! Warms

my heart. When Dad was really out of it, hardly able to talk whenever Caleb

would walk into the room, Dad would grin from ear to ear, the biggest smile, I

didn't think he had it in him still but I guess that showed how much he loved my

kids. Caleb would pick up Dad's hand and kiss it, he and Dad would always give

high 5's, Caleb still would do it even though Poppy couldn't do it back.

I don't know if he actually remembers him or if he just remembered that picture

is of someone we call Poppy. The girls remember him I know they do, they are 5

and 4.

We'll never forget him. Love him too much.

Thanks,

Lynette and Family

Ingrid Lowe lowenco@...> wrote:

Lynette, I am so sorry that you lost your dad a year ago. I too never

have gotten over the loss of my dad. He died 25 years ago from

stomach cancer. But our dad's live in our hearts. They are with us

each and every day. Don't ever let your children forget your dad. I

wish my son could of known his grandpa. But he was not born yet then.

God Bless You and your children. Ingrid

> Hi Everyone,

>

> I am feeling kind of gloomy this week, more so than usual. Tomorrow

> is

> the One-year anniversary of my Dad's death. For those of you who

> don't

> know me, I am 25 years old and I lost my Dad on September 9, 2004.

He

> died from Metastatic (?) Colon Cancer after a 4 month battle with

the

> beast. He was 67 years old. We buried him on 9/11/04...never thought

> I

> would be laying my Father to rest on that day.

> What a bummer. I miss him so much. Just closing my eyes I can see

him

> right here beside me, what'll I do without him for the rest of my

> life?

> He was my best friend. He also loved my little children very much,

> and

> they loved him too. They talk about Poppy all the time still. Just

> wish

> he was still here with us.

>

> Just wanted to post this before I head off to bed.

> Thanks for reading,

>

> Lynette

>

> I also wanted to add that at my Dad's funeral we played " Angel " by

Maclachlan and " Go Rest High On That Mountain " by Mr. Vince

Gill.

>

> So if you hear these songs think of my Dad.

>

> Thanks again

>

>

>

>

> *Support Colon Cancer Awareness*

>

> ---------------------------------

> Click here to donate to the Hurricane Katrina relief effort.

>

>

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My baby is now 2, and he still holds my Dad's picture and says My Poppy! Warms

my heart. When Dad was really out of it, hardly able to talk whenever Caleb

would walk into the room, Dad would grin from ear to ear, the biggest smile, I

didn't think he had it in him still but I guess that showed how much he loved my

kids. Caleb would pick up Dad's hand and kiss it, he and Dad would always give

high 5's, Caleb still would do it even though Poppy couldn't do it back.

I don't know if he actually remembers him or if he just remembered that picture

is of someone we call Poppy. The girls remember him I know they do, they are 5

and 4.

We'll never forget him. Love him too much.

Thanks,

Lynette and Family

Ingrid Lowe lowenco@...> wrote:

Lynette, I am so sorry that you lost your dad a year ago. I too never

have gotten over the loss of my dad. He died 25 years ago from

stomach cancer. But our dad's live in our hearts. They are with us

each and every day. Don't ever let your children forget your dad. I

wish my son could of known his grandpa. But he was not born yet then.

God Bless You and your children. Ingrid

> Hi Everyone,

>

> I am feeling kind of gloomy this week, more so than usual. Tomorrow

> is

> the One-year anniversary of my Dad's death. For those of you who

> don't

> know me, I am 25 years old and I lost my Dad on September 9, 2004.

He

> died from Metastatic (?) Colon Cancer after a 4 month battle with

the

> beast. He was 67 years old. We buried him on 9/11/04...never thought

> I

> would be laying my Father to rest on that day.

> What a bummer. I miss him so much. Just closing my eyes I can see

him

> right here beside me, what'll I do without him for the rest of my

> life?

> He was my best friend. He also loved my little children very much,

> and

> they loved him too. They talk about Poppy all the time still. Just

> wish

> he was still here with us.

>

> Just wanted to post this before I head off to bed.

> Thanks for reading,

>

> Lynette

>

> I also wanted to add that at my Dad's funeral we played " Angel " by

Maclachlan and " Go Rest High On That Mountain " by Mr. Vince

Gill.

>

> So if you hear these songs think of my Dad.

>

> Thanks again

>

>

>

>

> *Support Colon Cancer Awareness*

>

> ---------------------------------

> Click here to donate to the Hurricane Katrina relief effort.

>

>

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Lynette don't hold that regret. What was done was done to save the life of that

wonderful man. No one knows how the outcome will be either way. Cancer left

alone can be a very very painful way to die.

It is a terrible thing to have lost him to this cancer. I am so sorry for your

loss.

Priscilla A. Savary

Executive Director

Colorectal Cancer Network

PO Box 182, Kensington MD 20895

psavary@...

www.colorectal-cancer.net

_________

Screening for All. Colon Cancer for None.

ProjectMARCH -- rarely in life do you get a chance to make major change or save

thousands of lives. March 6, 2006 you can.

http://www.colorectal-cancer.net/projectmarch.htm

Re: Sad Day Tomorrow

I guess the cancer had progressed to far by the time we found it. He had

surgery on June 18th, 2004 and that was when the surgeon came out and told us

that Dad was in fact going to die. I couldn't believe he was talking about my

Dad, the person whom I loved so much. He told us 6-9 months was what he had

left. After his surgery he was in the hospital until July 10th. He couldn't keep

anything down and he had to keep the stomach tube in, he developed an infection

and blood clots, it was always something it seemed. We brought him home on July

10th and he was doing alright for a month or so, but then around the third week

of August he complained of such deep constant pain in his back and stomach area

again. Took him for a bone scan to see if it spread. It didn't spread to the

bone, but it was now in his liver and lungs...after only 2 months. He stayed in

the hospital for another 2 weeks, and then we decided it was just time for him

to come home, so the amulance brought him home,! and we

called Hospice . He lived about 2 more weeks after hospice came in.

I wish that we never would have let him have that awful surgery. All it did

was cause him extreme pain. You couldn't hardly tell he was sick until he had

that surgery. If we would have refused it he wouldn't have spent the last days

of his life in the hospital with tubes, surgeries, pain, vomiting...but how were

we to know? I thought we were saving him.

I tried, I really did, we all did.

It's been a year today, and I still can't believe he is gone. Miss him very

much.

Lynette

brencolinmom@... wrote:

Lynnette:

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can't believe he lost his battle with

this disease after only 4 months. He was too young. Try to honor his

memory with all the beautiful thoughts of how good he was to you and your

little

ones. You are in my thoughts.

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Lynette don't hold that regret. What was done was done to save the life of that

wonderful man. No one knows how the outcome will be either way. Cancer left

alone can be a very very painful way to die.

It is a terrible thing to have lost him to this cancer. I am so sorry for your

loss.

Priscilla A. Savary

Executive Director

Colorectal Cancer Network

PO Box 182, Kensington MD 20895

psavary@...

www.colorectal-cancer.net

_________

Screening for All. Colon Cancer for None.

ProjectMARCH -- rarely in life do you get a chance to make major change or save

thousands of lives. March 6, 2006 you can.

http://www.colorectal-cancer.net/projectmarch.htm

Re: Sad Day Tomorrow

I guess the cancer had progressed to far by the time we found it. He had

surgery on June 18th, 2004 and that was when the surgeon came out and told us

that Dad was in fact going to die. I couldn't believe he was talking about my

Dad, the person whom I loved so much. He told us 6-9 months was what he had

left. After his surgery he was in the hospital until July 10th. He couldn't keep

anything down and he had to keep the stomach tube in, he developed an infection

and blood clots, it was always something it seemed. We brought him home on July

10th and he was doing alright for a month or so, but then around the third week

of August he complained of such deep constant pain in his back and stomach area

again. Took him for a bone scan to see if it spread. It didn't spread to the

bone, but it was now in his liver and lungs...after only 2 months. He stayed in

the hospital for another 2 weeks, and then we decided it was just time for him

to come home, so the amulance brought him home,! and we

called Hospice . He lived about 2 more weeks after hospice came in.

I wish that we never would have let him have that awful surgery. All it did

was cause him extreme pain. You couldn't hardly tell he was sick until he had

that surgery. If we would have refused it he wouldn't have spent the last days

of his life in the hospital with tubes, surgeries, pain, vomiting...but how were

we to know? I thought we were saving him.

I tried, I really did, we all did.

It's been a year today, and I still can't believe he is gone. Miss him very

much.

Lynette

brencolinmom@... wrote:

Lynnette:

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can't believe he lost his battle with

this disease after only 4 months. He was too young. Try to honor his

memory with all the beautiful thoughts of how good he was to you and your

little

ones. You are in my thoughts.

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Lynette don't hold that regret. What was done was done to save the life of that

wonderful man. No one knows how the outcome will be either way. Cancer left

alone can be a very very painful way to die.

It is a terrible thing to have lost him to this cancer. I am so sorry for your

loss.

Priscilla A. Savary

Executive Director

Colorectal Cancer Network

PO Box 182, Kensington MD 20895

psavary@...

www.colorectal-cancer.net

_________

Screening for All. Colon Cancer for None.

ProjectMARCH -- rarely in life do you get a chance to make major change or save

thousands of lives. March 6, 2006 you can.

http://www.colorectal-cancer.net/projectmarch.htm

Re: Sad Day Tomorrow

I guess the cancer had progressed to far by the time we found it. He had

surgery on June 18th, 2004 and that was when the surgeon came out and told us

that Dad was in fact going to die. I couldn't believe he was talking about my

Dad, the person whom I loved so much. He told us 6-9 months was what he had

left. After his surgery he was in the hospital until July 10th. He couldn't keep

anything down and he had to keep the stomach tube in, he developed an infection

and blood clots, it was always something it seemed. We brought him home on July

10th and he was doing alright for a month or so, but then around the third week

of August he complained of such deep constant pain in his back and stomach area

again. Took him for a bone scan to see if it spread. It didn't spread to the

bone, but it was now in his liver and lungs...after only 2 months. He stayed in

the hospital for another 2 weeks, and then we decided it was just time for him

to come home, so the amulance brought him home,! and we

called Hospice . He lived about 2 more weeks after hospice came in.

I wish that we never would have let him have that awful surgery. All it did

was cause him extreme pain. You couldn't hardly tell he was sick until he had

that surgery. If we would have refused it he wouldn't have spent the last days

of his life in the hospital with tubes, surgeries, pain, vomiting...but how were

we to know? I thought we were saving him.

I tried, I really did, we all did.

It's been a year today, and I still can't believe he is gone. Miss him very

much.

Lynette

brencolinmom@... wrote:

Lynnette:

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can't believe he lost his battle with

this disease after only 4 months. He was too young. Try to honor his

memory with all the beautiful thoughts of how good he was to you and your

little

ones. You are in my thoughts.

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Lynette, I am so sorry you are having so much pain missing your dad.

Your dad would not want you to be hurting so much. He gave you life

and loved you very much. He is in a wonderful place now. He does not

ever have to hurt and feel pain. He is with all his relatives who

have gone before him. He lives within your heart and soul.

It is wonderful that you remember him and miss him so much. Makes

me wonder how so many families are not like this. You, Lynette are a

wonderful person who is so full of love and life. Your father raised

you to be this way. God Bless him. Ingrid

> Lynnette:

> I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can't believe he lost his

battle with

> this disease after only 4 months. He was too young. Try to honor

his

> memory with all the beautiful thoughts of how good he was to you

and your little

> ones. You are in my thoughts.

>

>

>

>

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