Guest guest Posted September 19, 2005 Report Share Posted September 19, 2005 I know you feel like you can't lean on him right now, but if you don't find someone to lean on, you will fall over. Maybe you can lean against each other when you feel like you are going to fall over? What I'm trying to say is talk to him and let him know how you feel. It may be a great way of becoming closer. Nobody can go through this kind of emotional roller coaster by themselves. He may be thinking that this is too much for him and he thinks he has to be strong for you too! Yes, you both need strength, but when one falters, the other can help. I don't know either of you so use your best judgement on whether I'm giving good advice. What worked for me may not be the best for you. I'm a stage 1 (T2, N0, M0) survivor and I've been through enough to know that I would have been lost without my wife. She tried not to show me that she was shaken and scared. Eventually when we talked about it we both felt much better. Finally, God will give you strength. He may not do what you expect, but he is listening. I'm amazed at how many times I have needed help, someone comes along and helps. It has been my experience that God usually uses other people to distribute the miracles he wants us to have. Please hang in there and find someone to talk to, whoever it may be. We'll always listen here. Miracles happen! Cliff H. > this life is very unfair...you don't get in time to achieve a sort of > serenity in your life, just to realized that it's time to go. You work > all your life, grow your children and when your husband goes on > retirement you find out that is time to go. And to go where? I am sure > that our soul will never die, but where do we go? I saw that film. > It's beautiful. My parents in law are 87 and were never sick. They > complain about life and the two of them don't know how lucky they are. > My husband didn't tell them about him, so they wont get upset. > > : you wrote about you, but have you heard a doctor? Were you > operated before? > > Please forgive me everyone, but it's hard to talk to my neighbours or > my friends. My husband is the strong of the family. I always lean on > him, but now I can't. I pray, but I know that we must accept the > Lord's wish. I don't want my husband to go. I don't want anyone to go. > Why can we live until we're a hundred uears old.... > > Please forgive me, everybody. Lydia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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