Re: How PF has improved my life??

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Diane.... big mouth me.....

If you're not getting what you want or need, then they are not listening or you are not giving a clear enough message.

Have you talked to hubby (what in the heck is his name?) about needing his help?

You wrote a lot of stuff in one paragraph.

Which do you want to do, let go of the past or let go of anger at people you love?

I ask God to grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change. Change the things I can and Wisdom to the know the difference.

Giving in and Acceptance aren't the same thing Diane.

You'll work yourself through this. The rest of us have. Ask for help when you need it, give help to someone else when they need it.

I wouldn't be so bold if we were not already talking privately...

Keep on keepin' on. ;o)

MamaSher; 70, IPF 3-06, OR. NasturtiumsDon't fret about tomorrow, God is already there!

How PF has improved my life??

Well there is always a different one in the crowd! LOL I know I am behind on a few postings but here goes!1. I am very thankful everday I wake up and can do a few things for myself still.2.I appreciate the time my friends and family spend with me.3. I love giving myself something the next week or month to look forward to, I think it is inportant to have that.4. I am thankful especially when I have had a good day of eating right, taking my meds on time, taking a nap that I need,and day dreaming to get thru the day.Now on the other hand why do I feel bad about putting myself first? I was always a caregiver and since that has been taken away I feel like a bear! I feel awful I cannot get out to shop, purchase things that I WANT instead of what my family wants for me.I used to be a clean- aholic. Although I am grateful for people I don have to help me they don't even read the list of areas I need worked on and do the basic dust/vacuum. Everyone says degignate but the hubby won't even learn to pay the bills! How do you just let go of the past, knowing it is gone and never to return without getting angry at the people you love? I hold everything in for the most part so I don't lose any of my friends and I always appreciate everything. How do I get this denial out of my system and just accept without giving into the end result?Anyway Bruce this was a good question and has many parts to it....Does anyone else feel what I feel as well??Diane NY 51 PF,PM,Raynauds,Sjorgrens 2006 PH 2008