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Hi, Jan! Thank you for the message. Sorry to get back to you so late. For some

reason your message was at the bottom of my inbox. My computer says you sent

your message on Tuesday October 18, which is totally weird. Maybe the date on

your computer is October instead of September. Or maybe my computer was wrong on

the day your email came in. lol

I find that I cannot post too much here because I know so very little about all

the medical things. I am not sure yet what " take down " means, for example. Over

time I guess we won't be newbies anymore. It is comforting to know that people

like you are out there and part of this group. Good luck with your husband's

chemo/radiation. Let us know how he does.

Take care,

~Deb from Kansas

Jan merrimary@...> wrote:

Hi Deb,

I'm Jan from California and my husband, Bill, was diagnosed very recently

with Stage III with lymph nodes positive. He is having a Groshonn cathether

put in tomorrow (out pt surgery) and on Tuesday starts chemo/radiation for

five weeks, also five days a week, then after a rest period he will have

further surgery and most likely a colostomy, than an additional four months

of chemo (this is the current plan). He will be taking Xeloda for this first

five week period, then the next chemo will be something thru a pump.

I was worse than panic when we found out and I am a nurse altho not working

at this time. Panic, horror and rage, big time rage, was my reaction. Bill

is much calmer and even about it and he is very aware of his odds. I am

just now past the panic mode, staying awake for nights on end, etc. Now

thanks to his example I am doing this one day at a time. He is such a great

lead to follow. He was always a firebrand before the diagnosis, quick on

everything. Now he has just mellowed out and says " I am going to fight

this, but I will do it one day at a time " .

Hang in there and know that there is another newbie facing the same trip you

are. I rarely post but this list is a wealth of information and comfort.

Hugs,

Jan

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> Hi, Ingrid. My husband's chemo/radiation is supposed to be daily sessions

on Mon through Fri and then Sat & Sun off. This is for 5 weeks; supposed to

start in November. If he reacts in a bad way, that might change. Hopefully,

he will do great. I just have to trust God that everything will work out. :)

> ~Deb from Kansas

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Hi, Jan! Thank you for the message. Sorry to get back to you so late. For some

reason your message was at the bottom of my inbox. My computer says you sent

your message on Tuesday October 18, which is totally weird. Maybe the date on

your computer is October instead of September. Or maybe my computer was wrong on

the day your email came in. lol

I find that I cannot post too much here because I know so very little about all

the medical things. I am not sure yet what " take down " means, for example. Over

time I guess we won't be newbies anymore. It is comforting to know that people

like you are out there and part of this group. Good luck with your husband's

chemo/radiation. Let us know how he does.

Take care,

~Deb from Kansas

Jan merrimary@...> wrote:

Hi Deb,

I'm Jan from California and my husband, Bill, was diagnosed very recently

with Stage III with lymph nodes positive. He is having a Groshonn cathether

put in tomorrow (out pt surgery) and on Tuesday starts chemo/radiation for

five weeks, also five days a week, then after a rest period he will have

further surgery and most likely a colostomy, than an additional four months

of chemo (this is the current plan). He will be taking Xeloda for this first

five week period, then the next chemo will be something thru a pump.

I was worse than panic when we found out and I am a nurse altho not working

at this time. Panic, horror and rage, big time rage, was my reaction. Bill

is much calmer and even about it and he is very aware of his odds. I am

just now past the panic mode, staying awake for nights on end, etc. Now

thanks to his example I am doing this one day at a time. He is such a great

lead to follow. He was always a firebrand before the diagnosis, quick on

everything. Now he has just mellowed out and says " I am going to fight

this, but I will do it one day at a time " .

Hang in there and know that there is another newbie facing the same trip you

are. I rarely post but this list is a wealth of information and comfort.

Hugs,

Jan

: Re: Re: New member

> Hi, Ingrid. My husband's chemo/radiation is supposed to be daily sessions

on Mon through Fri and then Sat & Sun off. This is for 5 weeks; supposed to

start in November. If he reacts in a bad way, that might change. Hopefully,

he will do great. I just have to trust God that everything will work out. :)

> ~Deb from Kansas

---------------------------------

Yahoo! for Good

Click here to donate to the Hurricane Katrina relief effort.

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Hi, Jan! Thank you for the message. Sorry to get back to you so late. For some

reason your message was at the bottom of my inbox. My computer says you sent

your message on Tuesday October 18, which is totally weird. Maybe the date on

your computer is October instead of September. Or maybe my computer was wrong on

the day your email came in. lol

I find that I cannot post too much here because I know so very little about all

the medical things. I am not sure yet what " take down " means, for example. Over

time I guess we won't be newbies anymore. It is comforting to know that people

like you are out there and part of this group. Good luck with your husband's

chemo/radiation. Let us know how he does.

Take care,

~Deb from Kansas

Jan merrimary@...> wrote:

Hi Deb,

I'm Jan from California and my husband, Bill, was diagnosed very recently

with Stage III with lymph nodes positive. He is having a Groshonn cathether

put in tomorrow (out pt surgery) and on Tuesday starts chemo/radiation for

five weeks, also five days a week, then after a rest period he will have

further surgery and most likely a colostomy, than an additional four months

of chemo (this is the current plan). He will be taking Xeloda for this first

five week period, then the next chemo will be something thru a pump.

I was worse than panic when we found out and I am a nurse altho not working

at this time. Panic, horror and rage, big time rage, was my reaction. Bill

is much calmer and even about it and he is very aware of his odds. I am

just now past the panic mode, staying awake for nights on end, etc. Now

thanks to his example I am doing this one day at a time. He is such a great

lead to follow. He was always a firebrand before the diagnosis, quick on

everything. Now he has just mellowed out and says " I am going to fight

this, but I will do it one day at a time " .

Hang in there and know that there is another newbie facing the same trip you

are. I rarely post but this list is a wealth of information and comfort.

Hugs,

Jan

: Re: Re: New member

> Hi, Ingrid. My husband's chemo/radiation is supposed to be daily sessions

on Mon through Fri and then Sat & Sun off. This is for 5 weeks; supposed to

start in November. If he reacts in a bad way, that might change. Hopefully,

he will do great. I just have to trust God that everything will work out. :)

> ~Deb from Kansas

---------------------------------

Yahoo! for Good

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Hi Deb,

I'm Jan from California and my husband, Bill, was diagnosed very recently

with Stage III with lymph nodes positive. He is having a Groshonn cathether

put in tomorrow (out pt surgery) and on Tuesday starts chemo/radiation for

five weeks, also five days a week, then after a rest period he will have

further surgery and most likely a colostomy, than an additional four months

of chemo (this is the current plan). He will be taking Xeloda for this first

five week period, then the next chemo will be something thru a pump.

I was worse than panic when we found out and I am a nurse altho not working

at this time. Panic, horror and rage, big time rage, was my reaction. Bill

is much calmer and even about it and he is very aware of his odds. I am

just now past the panic mode, staying awake for nights on end, etc. Now

thanks to his example I am doing this one day at a time. He is such a great

lead to follow. He was always a firebrand before the diagnosis, quick on

everything. Now he has just mellowed out and says " I am going to fight

this, but I will do it one day at a time " .

Hang in there and know that there is another newbie facing the same trip you

are. I rarely post but this list is a wealth of information and comfort.

Hugs,

Jan

: Re: Re: New member

> Hi, Ingrid. My husband's chemo/radiation is supposed to be daily sessions

on Mon through Fri and then Sat & Sun off. This is for 5 weeks; supposed to

start in November. If he reacts in a bad way, that might change. Hopefully,

he will do great. I just have to trust God that everything will work out. :)

> ~Deb from Kansas

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Hi Deb,

I'm Jan from California and my husband, Bill, was diagnosed very recently

with Stage III with lymph nodes positive. He is having a Groshonn cathether

put in tomorrow (out pt surgery) and on Tuesday starts chemo/radiation for

five weeks, also five days a week, then after a rest period he will have

further surgery and most likely a colostomy, than an additional four months

of chemo (this is the current plan). He will be taking Xeloda for this first

five week period, then the next chemo will be something thru a pump.

I was worse than panic when we found out and I am a nurse altho not working

at this time. Panic, horror and rage, big time rage, was my reaction. Bill

is much calmer and even about it and he is very aware of his odds. I am

just now past the panic mode, staying awake for nights on end, etc. Now

thanks to his example I am doing this one day at a time. He is such a great

lead to follow. He was always a firebrand before the diagnosis, quick on

everything. Now he has just mellowed out and says " I am going to fight

this, but I will do it one day at a time " .

Hang in there and know that there is another newbie facing the same trip you

are. I rarely post but this list is a wealth of information and comfort.

Hugs,

Jan

: Re: Re: New member

> Hi, Ingrid. My husband's chemo/radiation is supposed to be daily sessions

on Mon through Fri and then Sat & Sun off. This is for 5 weeks; supposed to

start in November. If he reacts in a bad way, that might change. Hopefully,

he will do great. I just have to trust God that everything will work out. :)

> ~Deb from Kansas

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