Re: Re: Strangers telling you what to do (was mobile phone emissions

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Ruthie wrote

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It is funny how different your children are don't you think. I mean you would

have thought that they would be somewhat alike but when I look at me my older

sister and my younger brother I can not understand how we possible could come

from the same gene pool.. ;o)

I do think Tammy sounds sweet when you speak about her ;o) I just know that if

she goes off on the wrong person (someone like me LOL) she will not get a

welcome reception ;o)..

Lonnie Phoebe & Eloisa's mama

& expecting a Christmas delivery...

My therapist told me the way to achieve true inner peace is to finish what you

start.

So far today, I have finished 2 bags of chips and a Chocolate cake.

I feel better already.

Re: Strangers telling you what to do (was mobile phone

emissions

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mobile phone emissions,(they equated it to smoking) >>

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> Ruthie

> I don't know, all I have read have been rather inconclusive. I have

got to say however that if a complete stranger (to me) came up to me

and started telling me off for using my mobile phone around my

children I would NOT take to it kindly.

Oh I quite agree. Tammy needs to get her brain in gear before she

opens her mouth sometimes. She has her heart in the right place and

always means well but she never was my brightest kid . Yelling

like she did at Yeshaya was *not* a good idea, all it achieved was to

alienate him from her. He has no intention of going anywhere near her

for the next hundred years.

I go and visit Tammy most Sabbath afternoons as she lives within a

five mn walk (as opposed to DD1 who lives a good 20 mns walk away).

Sometimes Tammy can be great company, but sometimes she's on some kind

of crusade and she'll spout a lot of rubbish and upset me and I'll go

home feeling really depressed.

Out of all my girls, Tavya, who is the second youngest, seems to be

the best one for saying exactly the right thing at the right time and

being bright and sensible. If I am down or upset she's the best one

to talk to. DD1 Sara is very sensible and bright, but has her

father's offhand attitude to others' distress. She'd as likely say

" oh well, get over it, " than say something comforting and cheering.

It's not her being unfeeling, it is literally her attitude to life.

She very seldom shows her innermost feelings.

Ruthie

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