Re: Re: More update on my Mom (Stacey)

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These are things that hospice can help you with. She will be medicated

to be comfortable and will not suffer.

If this is your mom's decision then go with it and make it as relaxing

and pleasant as possible. Talk about old

times, get out the old photos and take a walk down memory lane. The good

times.. You will be fine, but this

will be alot easier on you than trying to fight the inevitability of it

all. It hurts to lose a parent but think of her

not suffering anymore and being with who she wants to be with ---your dad.

I think once you come to terms with this you will find yourself at peace

as well... God Bless Jolene

flipper759@... wrote:

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> In a message dated 8/4/2005 10:26:37 AM Eastern Standard Time,

> boerner@... writes:

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> Thank you, Stacey. I'm just so scared and don't know what to

> expect. I don't know how my Mom will die--will she just fall asleep

> or struggle?? What do you do next? call 911? I just can't sleep at

> night trying to think what I'm going to do?? This is so stressfull

> and I don't want to give up but I can't force my Mom to go for more

> treatments when she doesn't want to. I'm not even over the loss of

> my Dad and now I'm going to lose my Mom--why is life so hard and

> unfair?

> Thanks for all the support.

> Diane

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> Oh Diane

> Life really is unfair sometimes HUH? I lost my Dad in March and oh my

> Gosh

> if I were going through what you are well I don't need to tell you.

> Please call Hospice in your area. They will help you with everything.

> By all

> means be there for your Mom but don't try to do all this yourself.

> Big Hugs and Lots of Prayers

> Narice

> PS Be sure to tell Hospice you just lost your Dad. That will help them

> to

> better support you and your Mom. Also if your Mom rallys yes they will

> stay as

> long as you need them but only as long as you need them.

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