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My husband (active young 65) was diagnosed with Colon Cancer last month. We

finally, after a series of delays, saw the surgeon yesterday. He said the

cancer is a late state III, in the distal portion of the colon extending

into the rectum almost to the outer opening. He is setting Bill up with

chemo and radiation then will do surgery, then follow with chemo and

radiation. So it sounds like the actual surgery is about six weeks away.

We know that he will have a permanent colostomy also. I would like to hear

from any of you who have had the chemo/rad tx and how it affects you

physically. I know that everyone reacts differently but I am trying to

prepare myself for what might be needed to help or take care of him.

I was a nurse but last worked 15 years ago and never in the oncology dept.

I realize this is a broad and sweeping request. I have researched over the

net but will appreciate any advice, information, or whatever you might

offer. He says he is still in a stage of denial, doesn't feel sick, etc.,

just is in the bathroom 10-12 times a day. His appetite is the same as

always and he really thinks he will continue to go to the office daily and

also carry on with the chores here on our acreage. I don't think so! I

don't plan on making him a dependent invalid just want to be prepared as we

live some way from town and I would rather not run back and forth

needlessly. How was it from some of you who have been there, done that?

Thanks....................

Jan