Guest guest Posted June 24, 2010 Report Share Posted June 24, 2010 Ron, Let me first say that you, your daughter, and your family are in my prayers. I agree, cancer is a horrible and disgusting disease and should not interfere in a child's life. You do bring up a great point. We do spend far too much time sitting around belly-aching. Real life and family is much more important, and deserves more of our attention. Sent from my iPhone, McGee, EMT-P, EMT-T Good afternoon everyone, Forgive me for this being long.... April 5th 2pm, I had to share with my daughter that she has cancer. I asked for prayers at the beginning, and I believe you can’t ever overdose on laughter or prayers. My daughter was in very serious condition and there was a possibility of NOT leaving the hospital, however, due to aggressive care, I think we are getting a better handle on our annoyance of cancer, and I am going to take this long email and share some information. It will be for some of you, and for others, you will simply hit the delete button. I dare you to read this, then act on it. It’s been very busy for the past 84 days, and I am sorry that I haven’t shared any information. If you’re on my facebook account, then you know exactly what is going on. It’s been hell. This is what I found out. Normal people can’t relate to EMS workers. It doesn’t matter if you’re an EMT, nurse or surgeon. They get to know us when they call on us. On the other hand, WE are trained to do a job that NORMAL people wouldn’t ever think about doing. We work late hours, we fight with sarcasm, insult people at the drop of a hat, and also make a difference in someone else’s life. Then we spend our off time complaining to each other, or act like my 5 year old throwing a temper tantrum. My teenager, has been diagnosed with Rhabdomyosarcoma. It’s a rare cancer that has taken over my child’s body. We are currently under aggressive care by Children’s Medical Center Oncologists, and they have been doing an awesome job. (It pays greatly to be medically inclined.) I have a clear cut relationship with the physicians (GOD Bless them, because they have to put up with me) I told them, I am a dog, and if you feed me information, then I am fine. If you don’t, then the dog gets upset, barks, bites and maybe pees on your leg. After they got done laughing, they understood. My daughter is on a 54 week chemotherapy plan to get rid of this annoyance called cancer. I have done more research on this animal than anyone should. Cancer simply sucks, but it can be beaten, and in this case, it will be! It’s an awful disease process, and there is no reason for kids to get it, in my opinion. www.curesearch.org. My community, church, employer and friends in the FD and EMS world have come together to support us. It’s been so overwhelming, that I can’t believe how many caring people there are out there. I have had to cut down on my overtime at work, because it interferes with my family time. I have totally rethought the past 17 years in EMS, down to this one question. What do you want to be remembered for? So, what do YOU want to be remembered for? Bickering? Inventing a new head blocks? Or is it teaching, writing books, etc. I hope you take advantage of this challenge my family has been chosen to deal with and make a difference in your family, your community and do some charity work. If you don’t have money to give, then give your time. If you’re interested in ’s Golf tournament, email me privately. It’s July 12th at Gentle Creek Golf Course. Have a blessed day. Thank you for what you do! Very highest in regards, Ron Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 24, 2010 Report Share Posted June 24, 2010 Ron and family- You know mine and my family's thoughts and prayers are always with you and yours. We will see you July 12th for 's support and well-being. Lord, knows that the past few months have taught us the value of friends and more so family. In deepest regards and christian love, The Abernathy family Abernathy Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Off Topic = Cancer Good afternoon everyone, Forgive me for this being long.... April 5th 2pm, I had to share with my daughter that she has cancer. I asked for prayers at the beginning, and I believe you can’t ever overdose on laughter or prayers. My daughter was in very serious condition and there was a possibility of NOT leaving the hospital, however, due to aggressive care, I think we are getting a better handle on our annoyance of cancer, and I am going to take this long email and share some information. It will be for some of you, and for others, you will simply hit the delete button. I dare you to read this, then act on it. It’s been very busy for the past 84 days, and I am sorry that I haven’t shared any information. If you’re on my facebook account, then you know exactly what is going on. It’s been hell. This is what I found out. Normal people can’t relate to EMS workers. It doesn’t matter if you’re an EMT, nurse or surgeon. They get to know us when they call on us. On the other hand, WE are trained to do a job that NORMAL people wouldn’t ever think about doing. We work late hours, we fight with sarcasm, insult people at the drop of a hat, and also make a difference in someone else’s life. Then we spend our off time complaining to each other, or act like my 5 year old throwing a temper tantrum. My teenager, has been diagnosed with Rhabdomyosarcoma. It’s a rare cancer that has taken over my child’s body. We are currently under aggressive care by Children’s Medical Center Oncologists, and they have been doing an awesome job. (It pays greatly to be medically inclined.) I have a clear cut relationship with the physicians (GOD Bless them, because they have to put up with me) I told them, I am a dog, and if you feed me information, then I am fine. If you don’t, then the dog gets upset, barks, bites and maybe pees on your leg. After they got done laughing, they understood. My daughter is on a 54 week chemotherapy plan to get rid of this annoyance called cancer. I have done more research on this animal than anyone should. Cancer simply sucks, but it can be beaten, and in this case, it will be! It’s an awful disease process, and there is no reason for kids to get it, in my opinion. www.curesearch.org. My community, church, employer and friends in the FD and EMS world have come together to support us. It’s been so overwhelming, that I can’t believe how many caring people there are out there. I have had to cut down on my overtime at work, because it interferes with my family time. I have totally rethought the past 17 years in EMS, down to this one question. What do you want to be remembered for? So, what do YOU want to be remembered for? Bickering? Inventing a new head blocks? Or is it teaching, writing books, etc. I hope you take advantage of this challenge my family has been chosen to deal with and make a difference in your family, your community and do some charity work. If you don’t have money to give, then give your time. If you’re interested in ’s Golf tournament, email me privately. It’s July 12th at Gentle Creek Golf Course. Have a blessed day. Thank you for what you do! Very highest in regards, Ron Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 25, 2010 Report Share Posted June 25, 2010 Ron, first I want to echo what's been said about the importance of family and that our thoughts and prayers are with you, your daughter and family. My little girl is turning 15 tomorrow and I can only imagine what you guys are going through. Second, where is the Gentle Creek Golf Club at? God speed. Barry Barry Sharp, MSHP, CHES Tobacco Prevention & Control Program Coordinator Substance Abuse Services Unit Mental Health and Substance Abuse Division ________________________________ From: texasems-l [mailto:texasems-l ] On Behalf Of hypnoron@... Sent: Wednesday, June 23, 2010 11:34 PM To: texasems-l Subject: Off Topic = Cancer Good afternoon everyone, Forgive me for this being long.... April 5th 2pm, I had to share with my daughter that she has cancer. I asked for prayers at the beginning, and I believe you can't ever overdose on laughter or prayers. My daughter was in very serious condition and there was a possibility of NOT leaving the hospital, however, due to aggressive care, I think we are getting a better handle on our annoyance of cancer, and I am going to take this long email and share some information. It will be for some of you, and for others, you will simply hit the delete button. I dare you to read this, then act on it. It's been very busy for the past 84 days, and I am sorry that I haven't shared any information. If you're on my facebook account, then you know exactly what is going on. It's been hell. This is what I found out. Normal people can't relate to EMS workers. It doesn't matter if you're an EMT, nurse or surgeon. They get to know us when they call on us. On the other hand, WE are trained to do a job that NORMAL people wouldn't ever think about doing. We work late hours, we fight with sarcasm, insult people at the drop of a hat, and also make a difference in someone else's life. Then we spend our off time complaining to each other, or act like my 5 year old throwing a temper tantrum. My teenager, has been diagnosed with Rhabdomyosarcoma. It's a rare cancer that has taken over my child's body. We are currently under aggressive care by Children's Medical Center Oncologists, and they have been doing an awesome job. (It pays greatly to be medically inclined.) I have a clear cut relationship with the physicians (GOD Bless them, because they have to put up with me) I told them, I am a dog, and if you feed me information, then I am fine. If you don't, then the dog gets upset, barks, bites and maybe pees on your leg. After they got done laughing, they understood. My daughter is on a 54 week chemotherapy plan to get rid of this annoyance called cancer. I have done more research on this animal than anyone should. Cancer simply sucks, but it can be beaten, and in this case, it will be! It's an awful disease process, and there is no reason for kids to get it, in my opinion. www.curesearch.org. My community, church, employer and friends in the FD and EMS world have come together to support us. It's been so overwhelming, that I can't believe how many caring people there are out there. I have had to cut down on my overtime at work, because it interferes with my family time. I have totally rethought the past 17 years in EMS, down to this one question. What do you want to be remembered for? So, what do YOU want to be remembered for? Bickering? Inventing a new head blocks? Or is it teaching, writing books, etc. I hope you take advantage of this challenge my family has been chosen to deal with and make a difference in your family, your community and do some charity work. If you don't have money to give, then give your time. If you're interested in 's Golf tournament, email me privately. It's July 12th at Gentle Creek Golf Course. Have a blessed day. Thank you for what you do! Very highest in regards, Ron Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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