Re: and the pressure

[Guest guest]

I think both Behnam and said rather sensible things.

One one hand, it is certainly true that we should

avoid " advertising " (in either positive or negative ways) this or

that surgeon. However, on the other hand, I think it would not be

right to somehow " repress " people's desire to share their feelings,

expectations, joys, praises, or even delusions and complaints about

this or that surgeon. After all, many of us in here did eventually

decide to get resurfed and and by whom through reading the posts in

this Group!

Personally, I took 's " pressure thing " just for what she said

it was: a joking way to tell us that she's trying her best to come

to a decision about her own resurfing and, if possible, she would

like to join our August band " in Belgium (let alone the fact that we

DESPERATELY need a good singer! LOL).

As for me, since going for THR never looked convincing enough for

someone my age, I started looking for possible alternatives. That's

how I learned about yhe existence of resurfacing, that's how I found

out about this wonderful Group and, ultimately, that's how I

realized that I luckily live just SO close to Dr. De Smet!

I do believe that life has its own ways to " show us " the road we're

supposed to follow. But then its' up to us to have " good enough

eyes " to actually SEE that road! Well, my own sequence of events

somehow " told me " that I was supposed to go for resurfacing and that

I should have it done by De Smet. I am certainly not advertising him

(he doesn't need it, anyway) but I am definitely happy to be able to

share my own feelings about thise whole thing with people in this

Group:-))

Have a nice rest of your day, YA'ALL!

Al in Brussels