Guest guest Posted July 9, 2004 Report Share Posted July 9, 2004 TJ, I think you're right, it wasn't really a mistake - it was supposed to happen. You are so right, they ARE here - I love it when someone else talks to their loved ones like I do mine. I refuse to stop - I know they hear me, and I feel I get love and support in return. Good for you, TJ! Love Lana 0:-) Lana- Thanks Lana- To be honest- I meant to send that to Betty's private e-mail- and forgot to take the groups e-mail off due to my youngest distracting me- and admit I " gulped " after I hit send- then decided hmmmmmm- The boys are worth it........ And I'll betchya they definitely hear and see what we type as well------ because they are not 'gone'- they are here spiritually......... beings both walked through those gates due to VEDS- then am sure they are members of this group as well ;-) Was hoping it did not disturb anyone - and especially you Betty- I honestly meant to send to you and you alone but made a mistake- but maybe it was meant to happen....... Hugs And Love -------- TJ RE: and < Happy Birthday Danny ! > TJ, I LOVE it that you are talking to Danny and Kenny! :-) They love it MORE! :-) Love Lana 0:-) Happy Birthday Danny ! I know that you are celebrating in ways we here on Earth can only wish for....... Your a very special young man- I am sure that you have met my " Kenny " - and he's right there celebrating with you- In fact- from talking with your mom- Kenny and You are a lot alike- so am positive you two have become steadfast friends. I'm also betting that you are doing what Kenny does for me on his birthday since he entered the 'pearly gates.' ----- Watching over your family on Earth and giving them a reassuring hug that you are ok and happier than we on Earth can ever be. Just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday and thank you for blessing your parents with the alotted time you were on the Earth- You will forever remain in their hearts -just as Kenny will forever remain in mine. I will see you when its my turn to enter our Heavenly Home----- Enjoy those helium balloons that are floating the skies in your honor....... Hugs------- Love TJ ( Kenny's Mom ;-) Betty- I have some unexpected but very welcomed company coming my way within a day or two- some people that I met online via paltalk - so will be a little longer in responding than previously thought - but definitely wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers - today and everyday. Big Hugs to you as you go through yet another trying day- I am positive Danny is watching those helium balloons and smiling down at his loving family ---- I too- ( when I could get out of my house more often- have done the same as you are doing- released helium balloons on Kenny's birthday- we took markers and everyone in the family wrote a special note in Kenny's memory on a balloon and then we released them at his gravesite after we held a ry session...... it was beautiful to say the least- although it did bring tears- it was still beautiful..... We had a cassette with the rosary on it and the family stood there saying the prayers with the tape - I do feel that it helped my other 2 boys to be able to let their brother know that they will never forget how much he touches our lives. We also took chalk and wrote on the cement beside his tombstone- " Happy Birthday Kenny- we will be reunited soon " - Soon- because in heaven there is no time.......I think releasing helium balloons in the provincial park is a great idea------- !!! Yes I was able to open that attachment , very familiar site site that they are standing by there! Hope to get time to respond to your e-mails soon. Just could not let this day go by without letting you know that you are in my thoughts ! {{{{{{{ Betty }}}}}} Big hugsssssssssss and talk to you soon ! Love, TJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2004 Report Share Posted July 9, 2004 TJ, I think you're right, it wasn't really a mistake - it was supposed to happen. You are so right, they ARE here - I love it when someone else talks to their loved ones like I do mine. I refuse to stop - I know they hear me, and I feel I get love and support in return. Good for you, TJ! Love Lana 0:-) Lana- Thanks Lana- To be honest- I meant to send that to Betty's private e-mail- and forgot to take the groups e-mail off due to my youngest distracting me- and admit I " gulped " after I hit send- then decided hmmmmmm- The boys are worth it........ And I'll betchya they definitely hear and see what we type as well------ because they are not 'gone'- they are here spiritually......... beings both walked through those gates due to VEDS- then am sure they are members of this group as well ;-) Was hoping it did not disturb anyone - and especially you Betty- I honestly meant to send to you and you alone but made a mistake- but maybe it was meant to happen....... Hugs And Love -------- TJ RE: and < Happy Birthday Danny ! > TJ, I LOVE it that you are talking to Danny and Kenny! :-) They love it MORE! :-) Love Lana 0:-) Happy Birthday Danny ! I know that you are celebrating in ways we here on Earth can only wish for....... Your a very special young man- I am sure that you have met my " Kenny " - and he's right there celebrating with you- In fact- from talking with your mom- Kenny and You are a lot alike- so am positive you two have become steadfast friends. I'm also betting that you are doing what Kenny does for me on his birthday since he entered the 'pearly gates.' ----- Watching over your family on Earth and giving them a reassuring hug that you are ok and happier than we on Earth can ever be. Just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday and thank you for blessing your parents with the alotted time you were on the Earth- You will forever remain in their hearts -just as Kenny will forever remain in mine. I will see you when its my turn to enter our Heavenly Home----- Enjoy those helium balloons that are floating the skies in your honor....... Hugs------- Love TJ ( Kenny's Mom ;-) Betty- I have some unexpected but very welcomed company coming my way within a day or two- some people that I met online via paltalk - so will be a little longer in responding than previously thought - but definitely wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers - today and everyday. Big Hugs to you as you go through yet another trying day- I am positive Danny is watching those helium balloons and smiling down at his loving family ---- I too- ( when I could get out of my house more often- have done the same as you are doing- released helium balloons on Kenny's birthday- we took markers and everyone in the family wrote a special note in Kenny's memory on a balloon and then we released them at his gravesite after we held a ry session...... it was beautiful to say the least- although it did bring tears- it was still beautiful..... We had a cassette with the rosary on it and the family stood there saying the prayers with the tape - I do feel that it helped my other 2 boys to be able to let their brother know that they will never forget how much he touches our lives. We also took chalk and wrote on the cement beside his tombstone- " Happy Birthday Kenny- we will be reunited soon " - Soon- because in heaven there is no time.......I think releasing helium balloons in the provincial park is a great idea------- !!! Yes I was able to open that attachment , very familiar site site that they are standing by there! Hope to get time to respond to your e-mails soon. Just could not let this day go by without letting you know that you are in my thoughts ! {{{{{{{ Betty }}}}}} Big hugsssssssssss and talk to you soon ! Love, TJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2004 Report Share Posted July 9, 2004 Hi I echo that and TJ I don't mind a bit. SOme people may think I am crazy but I do believe that they are not gone. It has been a bit of a rough day but with everyones help, thoughts & prayers it made it a little easier to bear. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!! Betty RE: and < Happy Birthday Danny ! > > > > TJ, I LOVE it that you are talking to Danny and Kenny! :-) They love it > MORE! :-) > > > > Love Lana 0:-) > > > > Happy Birthday Danny ! I know that you are celebrating in ways we here > on > Earth can only wish for....... Your a very special young man- I am sure > that > you have met my " Kenny " - and he's right there celebrating with you- In > fact- from talking with your mom- Kenny and You are a lot alike- so am > positive you two have become steadfast friends. I'm also betting that you > are doing what Kenny does for me on his birthday since he entered the > 'pearly gates.' ----- Watching over your family on Earth and giving them a > reassuring hug that you are ok and happier than we on Earth can ever be. > Just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday and thank you for blessing your > parents with the alotted time you were on the Earth- You will forever > remain > in their hearts -just as Kenny will forever remain in mine. I will see > you > when its my turn to enter our Heavenly Home----- Enjoy those helium > balloons > that are floating the skies in your honor....... Hugs------- Love TJ ( > Kenny's Mom ;-) > > Betty- > I have some unexpected but very welcomed company coming my way within a > day or two- some people that I met online via paltalk - so will be a > little > longer in responding than previously thought - but definitely wanted to > let > you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers - today and everyday. > Big > Hugs to you as you go through yet another trying day- I am positive Danny > is > watching those helium balloons and smiling down at his loving family ---- > I > too- ( when I could get out of my house more often- have done the same as > you are doing- released helium balloons on Kenny's birthday- we took > markers > and everyone in the family wrote a special note in Kenny's memory on a > balloon and then we released them at his gravesite after we held a ry > session...... it was beautiful to say the least- although it did bring > tears- it was still beautiful..... We had a cassette with the rosary on it > and the family stood there saying the prayers with the tape - I do feel > that > it helped my other 2 boys to be able to let their brother know that they > will never forget how much he touches our lives. We also took chalk and > wrote on the cement beside his tombstone- " Happy Birthday Kenny- we will > be > reunited soon " - Soon- because in heaven there is no time.......I think > releasing helium balloons in the provincial park is a great idea------- > !!! > > Yes I was able to open that attachment , very familiar site site that > they > are standing by there! Hope to get time to respond to your e-mails soon. > Just could not let this day go by without letting you know that you are in > my thoughts ! > > {{{{{{{ Betty }}}}}} Big hugsssssssssss and talk to you soon ! > Love, TJ > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2004 Report Share Posted July 9, 2004 {{{{{{ Betty }}}}}} If your crazy- then I'm with you- Sure am glad that you didn't mind- sure does make one feel like you swallowed your stomach though when you send something without intention to a whole group. As you stated- they are not gone- I am in full agreement........ It is rough- daily- but the prayers- thoughts and everyones kindness and God will get us through it all..... Talk to you soon............ TJ Hi I echo that and TJ I don't mind a bit. SOme people may think I am crazy but I do believe that they are not gone. It has been a bit of a rough day but with everyones help, thoughts & prayers it made it a little easier to bear. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!! Betty RE: and < Happy Birthday Danny ! > > > > TJ, I LOVE it that you are talking to Danny and Kenny! :-) They love it > MORE! :-) > > > > Love Lana 0:-) > > > > Happy Birthday Danny ! I know that you are celebrating in ways we here > on > Earth can only wish for....... Your a very special young man- I am sure > that > you have met my " Kenny " - and he's right there celebrating with you- In > fact- from talking with your mom- Kenny and You are a lot alike- so am > positive you two have become steadfast friends. I'm also betting that you > are doing what Kenny does for me on his birthday since he entered the > 'pearly gates.' ----- Watching over your family on Earth and giving them a > reassuring hug that you are ok and happier than we on Earth can ever be. > Just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday and thank you for blessing your > parents with the alotted time you were on the Earth- You will forever > remain > in their hearts -just as Kenny will forever remain in mine. I will see > you > when its my turn to enter our Heavenly Home----- Enjoy those helium > balloons > that are floating the skies in your honor....... Hugs------- Love TJ ( > Kenny's Mom ;-) > > Betty- > I have some unexpected but very welcomed company coming my way within a > day or two- some people that I met online via paltalk - so will be a > little > longer in responding than previously thought - but definitely wanted to > let > you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers - today and everyday. > Big > Hugs to you as you go through yet another trying day- I am positive Danny > is > watching those helium balloons and smiling down at his loving family ---- > I > too- ( when I could get out of my house more often- have done the same as > you are doing- released helium balloons on Kenny's birthday- we took > markers > and everyone in the family wrote a special note in Kenny's memory on a > balloon and then we released them at his gravesite after we held a ry > session...... it was beautiful to say the least- although it did bring > tears- it was still beautiful..... We had a cassette with the rosary on it > and the family stood there saying the prayers with the tape - I do feel > that > it helped my other 2 boys to be able to let their brother know that they > will never forget how much he touches our lives. We also took chalk and > wrote on the cement beside his tombstone- " Happy Birthday Kenny- we will > be > reunited soon " - Soon- because in heaven there is no time.......I think > releasing helium balloons in the provincial park is a great idea------- > !!! > > Yes I was able to open that attachment , very familiar site site that > they > are standing by there! Hope to get time to respond to your e-mails soon. > Just could not let this day go by without letting you know that you are in > my thoughts ! > > {{{{{{{ Betty }}}}}} Big hugsssssssssss and talk to you soon ! > Love, TJ > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 25, 2004 Report Share Posted July 25, 2004 You got that right, very sad when a Nun wont let people honor their passed loved ones...... I was not raised any religion but always had a yearning for Catholocism..... and I do love it, yet there are many things from the " old ways " that I do disagree on " holding book over head in case roof falls in lol " - my x was just like that Nun in the grief stage of our son - he thought it was horrible that I grieved the way I did.......... but will tell you- he had many reasons to be feeling " guilty " so perhaps he just wanted it over and erased...... to ease his own conscience (sp?) . That particular Nun is no longer with the Church that I always went to- She had her good points but lol get this- she and the new Father did not get along- so she left the building ;-) Hugs- Love TJ How sad that a NUN won't let people honor their passed loved ones their own way! Course they always were kind of odd - most of them anyway! LOL! You just keep doing what feels right TJ! Love Lana 0:-) Lana- Thanks Lana- I've only had two people that told me I was 'bonkers' and believe it or not - one was the Church nun- she told me that I should stop visiting the cemetery and putting so much umph into it ( decorated and kept clean - plus went down there daily when I was able to drive ) just to say prayers and an I love you- this Nun- grabbed my hand and put it to my heart- she said -------- " Keep him here----- not up here ( she pointed to my head )........ I was in horrible shock at her display of thoughts- but I just looked at her and said " I know my son is NOT in the grave ---- his spirit is everywhere ----- but everyone handles their grief differently and I will not let you make me feel that I am doing anything wrong " - she said no more. The other person was my x- and to be honest with you- the two never got along- Kenny saw too much of what went on- and if anything- I think his dad fears that something will happen to him if he is down by the grave yard too long or too often- *paybacks?* But I didn't let that stop me either- told him I was going to continue with or without him......... and that I did- up until I could no longer do it...... And I know that saying the prayers here or anywhere- or just plain talking to him - he hears - no matter where I am. It is great to hear that I'm not alone in having conversations with loved ones that have went before me ........ Hugs And Love- TJ TJ, I think you're right, it wasn't really a mistake - it was supposed to happen. You are so right, they ARE here - I love it when someone else talks to their loved ones like I do mine. I refuse to stop - I know they hear me, and I feel I get love and support in return. Good for you, TJ! Love Lana 0:-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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