Guest guest Posted July 22, 2004 Report Share Posted July 22, 2004 {{{{{{{{ }}}}}}}}} , we are with you in spirit------ I remember those days myself- so totally understand. Keeping you tucked safely in my prayers- , if You talk to her Cindy- please let her know- thanks in advance and here's a {{{{{{{{{ Cindy }}}}}}}} hug for you too. I'm writing for S asked me to write for her. She wants to apologize for her , for not being able to write to the group with all that is going on with you all. Every time she tries to read or write to the group, her ADD husband is over her shoulder interfering and watching her like a Hawk. She wants and needs to be active in the group, but he stops her from doing what she wants. I have told her over and over it's OK, not to worry about the group, but as a nurse, she so wants to help. Things are very hard for her at home, she just tries to keep peace. She can't get on the PC when he sleeps because it wakes him up, she can't get on while he's awake because he's over her shoulder, while he is at work, it's night time. His controlling behavior is very hard for her, and she wanted you all to know she really wants to help, but just can't for now. He has started medication, but it's going to take some time. She will get online here and there when ever she finds a moment alone. On a happy note, She drove today. It was the first time in several years. Her husband had dental surgery and she drove home for 30 minutes. She felt so free. It did hurt her shoulders and back, but she loved to be behind the wheel again. So this is what she wanted to say, that she couldn't say herself. Cindylouwho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2004 Report Share Posted July 22, 2004 {{{{{{{{ }}}}}}}}} , we are with you in spirit------ I remember those days myself- so totally understand. Keeping you tucked safely in my prayers- , if You talk to her Cindy- please let her know- thanks in advance and here's a {{{{{{{{{ Cindy }}}}}}}} hug for you too. I'm writing for S asked me to write for her. She wants to apologize for her , for not being able to write to the group with all that is going on with you all. Every time she tries to read or write to the group, her ADD husband is over her shoulder interfering and watching her like a Hawk. She wants and needs to be active in the group, but he stops her from doing what she wants. I have told her over and over it's OK, not to worry about the group, but as a nurse, she so wants to help. Things are very hard for her at home, she just tries to keep peace. She can't get on the PC when he sleeps because it wakes him up, she can't get on while he's awake because he's over her shoulder, while he is at work, it's night time. His controlling behavior is very hard for her, and she wanted you all to know she really wants to help, but just can't for now. He has started medication, but it's going to take some time. She will get online here and there when ever she finds a moment alone. On a happy note, She drove today. It was the first time in several years. Her husband had dental surgery and she drove home for 30 minutes. She felt so free. It did hurt her shoulders and back, but she loved to be behind the wheel again. So this is what she wanted to say, that she couldn't say herself. Cindylouwho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2004 Report Share Posted July 22, 2004 {{{{{{{{ }}}}}}}}} , we are with you in spirit------ I remember those days myself- so totally understand. Keeping you tucked safely in my prayers- , if You talk to her Cindy- please let her know- thanks in advance and here's a {{{{{{{{{ Cindy }}}}}}}} hug for you too. I'm writing for S asked me to write for her. She wants to apologize for her , for not being able to write to the group with all that is going on with you all. Every time she tries to read or write to the group, her ADD husband is over her shoulder interfering and watching her like a Hawk. She wants and needs to be active in the group, but he stops her from doing what she wants. I have told her over and over it's OK, not to worry about the group, but as a nurse, she so wants to help. Things are very hard for her at home, she just tries to keep peace. She can't get on the PC when he sleeps because it wakes him up, she can't get on while he's awake because he's over her shoulder, while he is at work, it's night time. His controlling behavior is very hard for her, and she wanted you all to know she really wants to help, but just can't for now. He has started medication, but it's going to take some time. She will get online here and there when ever she finds a moment alone. On a happy note, She drove today. It was the first time in several years. Her husband had dental surgery and she drove home for 30 minutes. She felt so free. It did hurt her shoulders and back, but she loved to be behind the wheel again. So this is what she wanted to say, that she couldn't say herself. Cindylouwho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2004 Report Share Posted July 23, 2004 Ditto, Cindy and . Cindy, when you talk with again, please let her know that we all understand and she needs to do what is good for her. The group will always be here for her.. Please let her know that I will be keeping her in my prayers and thoughts. Love, Patti I'm writing for S asked me to write for her. She wants to apologize for her , for not being able to write to the group with all that is going on with you all. Every time she tries to read or write to the group, her ADD husband is over her shoulder interfering and watching her like a Hawk. She wants and needs to be active in the group, but he stops her from doing what she wants. I have told her over and over it's OK, not to worry about the group, but as a nurse, she so wants to help. Things are very hard for her at home, she just tries to keep peace. She can't get on the PC when he sleeps because it wakes him up, she can't get on while he's awake because he's over her shoulder, while he is at work, it's night time. His controlling behavior is very hard for her, and she wanted you all to know she really wants to help, but just can't for now. He has started medication, but it's going to take some time. She will get online here and there when ever she finds a moment alone. On a happy note, She drove today. It was the first time in several years. Her husband had dental surgery and she drove home for 30 minutes. She felt so free. It did hurt her shoulders and back, but she loved to be behind the wheel again. So this is what she wanted to say, that she couldn't say herself. Cindylouwho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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