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In a message dated 08/09/2002 8:16:41 AM US Eastern Standard Time,

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> so many people angry at me

I don't think anyone is angry with you sweetie....I just senced that the

whole subject was getting edgy.

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Mick~

I am truly sorry you are leaving the group. Like Missy said, everyone is

welcome to this group and everyone has different opinions. Your story encouraged

many in the group and are trying this diet. I myself can not eat too many

fruits. It has always upset my stomach, even before fms. I eat healthy, don't

get me wrong, but taking fruit in moderation is a must for me. I love fresh

fruit. Pears, apples, peaches, grapes, oranges, etc. I like almost all kinds of

fruit. I am hoping that I'll be able to eat them on a regular basis, like

everyday. I have told people what worked for me and others have shared. I hope

you don't take this personally, but you sounded like a commercial and I know you

didn't mean it to be. I personally liked reading your story and how your diet

worked for you. I am hoping that it will work for others who want to try it. I

wish you continued well health and feel free to e-mail me if you want someone to

chat with. I am also on yahoo msgr. Take care.

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Mick~

I am truly sorry you are leaving the group. Like Missy said, everyone is

welcome to this group and everyone has different opinions. Your story encouraged

many in the group and are trying this diet. I myself can not eat too many

fruits. It has always upset my stomach, even before fms. I eat healthy, don't

get me wrong, but taking fruit in moderation is a must for me. I love fresh

fruit. Pears, apples, peaches, grapes, oranges, etc. I like almost all kinds of

fruit. I am hoping that I'll be able to eat them on a regular basis, like

everyday. I have told people what worked for me and others have shared. I hope

you don't take this personally, but you sounded like a commercial and I know you

didn't mean it to be. I personally liked reading your story and how your diet

worked for you. I am hoping that it will work for others who want to try it. I

wish you continued well health and feel free to e-mail me if you want someone to

chat with. I am also on yahoo msgr. Take care.

~

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Good Luck!

I guess I missed the diet that you mentioned. What

does it consist of?

Have a great day,

Lonnie in Soonerland

--- mickness36 mickness36@...> wrote:

>

> To whom it may concern:

>

> I will be leaving the group permanently. I am so

> sorry to all of you that I made upset, it truly was

> not my intention at all. I suffered for so many

> years in agonizing pain. I spent so many years in

> bed alone suffering and just when I thought it would

> get no worse it did. To go from near death to

> having my complete life back was so exilerating I

> just had to share it with others; others who suffer

> as I did. I am positive that if any of you had this

> happen to you, you would be here sharing it with

> others over and over. Boy I tell you talk about

> taking the wind right of my sails. I never ever

> thought that sharing with others what worked for me

> would make so many people angry at me.

>

> People you will not find a cure in any synthetic

> drugs. Each and every drug you are taking causes a

> whole bunch more problems on their own. I know this

> beyond a shadow of a doubt. When I was first

> diagnosed it was only FMS/TMJ. Those diagnosis

> brought synthetic drugs. Then they added CFS to the

> picture. More drugs. Then IBS which brought more.

> Then hypoglycemia and still more drugs to " control "

> my symptoms. Then my liver and kidneys failing

> (which is incredibly painful). Still more drugs.

> Then a liver tumor of which I was told would kill

> me. According to the doctors, who by the way are a

> fibromyalgia specialist and Internist, I was suppose

> to be dead 4 months ago. Maybe it was hearing that

> I was going to die that pushed me so hard to find

> something to save me.

>

> When I saw my doc last he did tests again to see how

> all was doing. All the tests came back negative,

> yes the tumor is gone!!!! I know what changes I

> made to accomplish this and I shared them here. I

> never expected so many to be offended, I never

> expected so many people to be rude, I never

> expected so many to blow off what I had to say.

>

> I shared with others because I could not stand the

> thought of knowing such valuable information and

> selfishly keeping it to myself. I could of done

> that, I no longer suffer anymore at all and have no

> need for a support group. I came here completely

> for all of you who suffer daily. I was not selling

> anything and had nothing to gain from being here.

>

> I hope and pray that those of you who can still work

> never lose that ability. I hope and pray that those

> here who can still take care of their children never

> lose that. I hope and pray those of you who can

> still walk never have to need another person to

> carry you. I hope and pray that those of you who

> still can think and remember never get to the point

> where you cannot even recall your own childrens

> name. I hope and pray for all of you.

>

> I am thankful that my husband and I no longer have

> to make burial plans. I am thankful that I do not

> have to pick out my casket. I am thankful that I do

> not have to talk with my husband about his next wife

> and who will take care of my children. I am

> thankful that I am alive and healthy today!!! And I

> am thankful that I made a choice to do all that I

> could do to take back my life.

>

> To all of you that have started the diet or are

> thinking about it.......please email me personally

> as I have stated many times I would do anything to

> help you. It breaks my heart to know that you still

> suffer. Not one day goes by that I do not think of

> you. My email address is mickness36@.... I

> come online every morning and I would even be

> willing to talk with you on the phone if need be.

>

> May God bless each and every one of you and I hope

> and pray that you find your little bit of heaven

> here on earth, as I did.

>

> Peace and blessings always and forever,

>

> Mick

>

>

>

> ---------------------------------

>

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Good Luck!

I guess I missed the diet that you mentioned. What

does it consist of?

Have a great day,

Lonnie in Soonerland

--- mickness36 mickness36@...> wrote:

>

> To whom it may concern:

>

> I will be leaving the group permanently. I am so

> sorry to all of you that I made upset, it truly was

> not my intention at all. I suffered for so many

> years in agonizing pain. I spent so many years in

> bed alone suffering and just when I thought it would

> get no worse it did. To go from near death to

> having my complete life back was so exilerating I

> just had to share it with others; others who suffer

> as I did. I am positive that if any of you had this

> happen to you, you would be here sharing it with

> others over and over. Boy I tell you talk about

> taking the wind right of my sails. I never ever

> thought that sharing with others what worked for me

> would make so many people angry at me.

>

> People you will not find a cure in any synthetic

> drugs. Each and every drug you are taking causes a

> whole bunch more problems on their own. I know this

> beyond a shadow of a doubt. When I was first

> diagnosed it was only FMS/TMJ. Those diagnosis

> brought synthetic drugs. Then they added CFS to the

> picture. More drugs. Then IBS which brought more.

> Then hypoglycemia and still more drugs to " control "

> my symptoms. Then my liver and kidneys failing

> (which is incredibly painful). Still more drugs.

> Then a liver tumor of which I was told would kill

> me. According to the doctors, who by the way are a

> fibromyalgia specialist and Internist, I was suppose

> to be dead 4 months ago. Maybe it was hearing that

> I was going to die that pushed me so hard to find

> something to save me.

>

> When I saw my doc last he did tests again to see how

> all was doing. All the tests came back negative,

> yes the tumor is gone!!!! I know what changes I

> made to accomplish this and I shared them here. I

> never expected so many to be offended, I never

> expected so many people to be rude, I never

> expected so many to blow off what I had to say.

>

> I shared with others because I could not stand the

> thought of knowing such valuable information and

> selfishly keeping it to myself. I could of done

> that, I no longer suffer anymore at all and have no

> need for a support group. I came here completely

> for all of you who suffer daily. I was not selling

> anything and had nothing to gain from being here.

>

> I hope and pray that those of you who can still work

> never lose that ability. I hope and pray that those

> here who can still take care of their children never

> lose that. I hope and pray those of you who can

> still walk never have to need another person to

> carry you. I hope and pray that those of you who

> still can think and remember never get to the point

> where you cannot even recall your own childrens

> name. I hope and pray for all of you.

>

> I am thankful that my husband and I no longer have

> to make burial plans. I am thankful that I do not

> have to pick out my casket. I am thankful that I do

> not have to talk with my husband about his next wife

> and who will take care of my children. I am

> thankful that I am alive and healthy today!!! And I

> am thankful that I made a choice to do all that I

> could do to take back my life.

>

> To all of you that have started the diet or are

> thinking about it.......please email me personally

> as I have stated many times I would do anything to

> help you. It breaks my heart to know that you still

> suffer. Not one day goes by that I do not think of

> you. My email address is mickness36@.... I

> come online every morning and I would even be

> willing to talk with you on the phone if need be.

>

> May God bless each and every one of you and I hope

> and pray that you find your little bit of heaven

> here on earth, as I did.

>

> Peace and blessings always and forever,

>

> Mick

>

>

>

> ---------------------------------

>

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Joy,

Sorry that you are leaving the group but am glad that you are happy

with the results of your operation. I think that the immediate

results are the same for resurfacing and THR, that the pain is gone

and it feels wonderful.

For the swelling, keep your leg elevated as much as possible. If

you can lie down so your leg is higher than your heart that should

yeild the best results.

Best of luck with your recovery,

Fred

Dr. Gross, C2K 1/21/04

> I've been a member of the group for 18 months now and have really

> appreciated the advice and guidance given to myself and reading

that

> given to others.

>

> However I will shortly be leaving the group as I am now 5 days

post

> op from a BHR but unfortunately my hip was too far gone to

resurface

> and I have had to have a a THR.

>

> I thought I would have been really upset, however after the

initial

> tears in the recovery room I have put all my energy into getting

> better. I am now 6 days post op, home and cannot believe how well

I

> feel. The back pain has gone, no more arthritic pain and no pain

> walking - I still feel lucky to be in this position. I just have

a

> bit!! of swelling from the waist to my ankle, has anyone any

> suggestions to relieve this.

>

> What I would like to say to anyone in the UK who is reading this

who

> may have been advised to wait as long as possible before having

> surgery is that this is poor advice and has lead to me having a

> replacement rather than a resurface. However if the worst comes

to

> the worst and you have to have a THR you can still feel fantasitic

> and look forward to life afterwards - as I am.

>

> So I would just like to say goodbye to everyone and good luck with

> your surgery and recovery. I will miss seeing all your familiar

> names.

>

> Kind regards and thank you for all the support you have given me

> (sometines without even knowing).

>

> Joy

>

> RTHR Sheffield 16/6/04

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Joy,

Sorry that you are leaving the group but am glad that you are happy

with the results of your operation. I think that the immediate

results are the same for resurfacing and THR, that the pain is gone

and it feels wonderful.

For the swelling, keep your leg elevated as much as possible. If

you can lie down so your leg is higher than your heart that should

yeild the best results.

Best of luck with your recovery,

Fred

Dr. Gross, C2K 1/21/04

> I've been a member of the group for 18 months now and have really

> appreciated the advice and guidance given to myself and reading

that

> given to others.

>

> However I will shortly be leaving the group as I am now 5 days

post

> op from a BHR but unfortunately my hip was too far gone to

resurface

> and I have had to have a a THR.

>

> I thought I would have been really upset, however after the

initial

> tears in the recovery room I have put all my energy into getting

> better. I am now 6 days post op, home and cannot believe how well

I

> feel. The back pain has gone, no more arthritic pain and no pain

> walking - I still feel lucky to be in this position. I just have

a

> bit!! of swelling from the waist to my ankle, has anyone any

> suggestions to relieve this.

>

> What I would like to say to anyone in the UK who is reading this

who

> may have been advised to wait as long as possible before having

> surgery is that this is poor advice and has lead to me having a

> replacement rather than a resurface. However if the worst comes

to

> the worst and you have to have a THR you can still feel fantasitic

> and look forward to life afterwards - as I am.

>

> So I would just like to say goodbye to everyone and good luck with

> your surgery and recovery. I will miss seeing all your familiar

> names.

>

> Kind regards and thank you for all the support you have given me

> (sometines without even knowing).

>

> Joy

>

> RTHR Sheffield 16/6/04

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Joy,

Sorry that you are leaving the group but am glad that you are happy

with the results of your operation. I think that the immediate

results are the same for resurfacing and THR, that the pain is gone

and it feels wonderful.

For the swelling, keep your leg elevated as much as possible. If

you can lie down so your leg is higher than your heart that should

yeild the best results.

Best of luck with your recovery,

Fred

Dr. Gross, C2K 1/21/04

> I've been a member of the group for 18 months now and have really

> appreciated the advice and guidance given to myself and reading

that

> given to others.

>

> However I will shortly be leaving the group as I am now 5 days

post

> op from a BHR but unfortunately my hip was too far gone to

resurface

> and I have had to have a a THR.

>

> I thought I would have been really upset, however after the

initial

> tears in the recovery room I have put all my energy into getting

> better. I am now 6 days post op, home and cannot believe how well

I

> feel. The back pain has gone, no more arthritic pain and no pain

> walking - I still feel lucky to be in this position. I just have

a

> bit!! of swelling from the waist to my ankle, has anyone any

> suggestions to relieve this.

>

> What I would like to say to anyone in the UK who is reading this

who

> may have been advised to wait as long as possible before having

> surgery is that this is poor advice and has lead to me having a

> replacement rather than a resurface. However if the worst comes

to

> the worst and you have to have a THR you can still feel fantasitic

> and look forward to life afterwards - as I am.

>

> So I would just like to say goodbye to everyone and good luck with

> your surgery and recovery. I will miss seeing all your familiar

> names.

>

> Kind regards and thank you for all the support you have given me

> (sometines without even knowing).

>

> Joy

>

> RTHR Sheffield 16/6/04

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Hey Joy! I hope you're joining the hip-replacement support

groups...Totallyhip and Hipuniverse...there are wonderful helpful

people on those web sites too! Happy to hear that you are pain free

and on the mend. Susie in Memphis

> > I've been a member of the group for 18 months now and have really

> > appreciated the advice and guidance given to myself and reading

> that

> > given to others.

> >

> > However I will shortly be leaving the group as I am now 5 days

> post

> > op from a BHR but unfortunately my hip was too far gone to

> resurface

> > and I have had to have a a THR.

> >

> > I thought I would have been really upset, however after the

> initial

> > tears in the recovery room I have put all my energy into getting

> > better. I am now 6 days post op, home and cannot believe how

well

> I

> > feel. The back pain has gone, no more arthritic pain and no pain

> > walking - I still feel lucky to be in this position. I just have

> a

> > bit!! of swelling from the waist to my ankle, has anyone any

> > suggestions to relieve this.

> >

> > What I would like to say to anyone in the UK who is reading this

> who

> > may have been advised to wait as long as possible before having

> > surgery is that this is poor advice and has lead to me having a

> > replacement rather than a resurface. However if the worst comes

> to

> > the worst and you have to have a THR you can still feel

fantasitic

> > and look forward to life afterwards - as I am.

> >

> > So I would just like to say goodbye to everyone and good luck

with

> > your surgery and recovery. I will miss seeing all your familiar

> > names.

> >

> > Kind regards and thank you for all the support you have given me

> > (sometines without even knowing).

> >

> > Joy

> >

> > RTHR Sheffield 16/6/04

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Hey Joy! I hope you're joining the hip-replacement support

groups...Totallyhip and Hipuniverse...there are wonderful helpful

people on those web sites too! Happy to hear that you are pain free

and on the mend. Susie in Memphis

> > I've been a member of the group for 18 months now and have really

> > appreciated the advice and guidance given to myself and reading

> that

> > given to others.

> >

> > However I will shortly be leaving the group as I am now 5 days

> post

> > op from a BHR but unfortunately my hip was too far gone to

> resurface

> > and I have had to have a a THR.

> >

> > I thought I would have been really upset, however after the

> initial

> > tears in the recovery room I have put all my energy into getting

> > better. I am now 6 days post op, home and cannot believe how

well

> I

> > feel. The back pain has gone, no more arthritic pain and no pain

> > walking - I still feel lucky to be in this position. I just have

> a

> > bit!! of swelling from the waist to my ankle, has anyone any

> > suggestions to relieve this.

> >

> > What I would like to say to anyone in the UK who is reading this

> who

> > may have been advised to wait as long as possible before having

> > surgery is that this is poor advice and has lead to me having a

> > replacement rather than a resurface. However if the worst comes

> to

> > the worst and you have to have a THR you can still feel

fantasitic

> > and look forward to life afterwards - as I am.

> >

> > So I would just like to say goodbye to everyone and good luck

with

> > your surgery and recovery. I will miss seeing all your familiar

> > names.

> >

> > Kind regards and thank you for all the support you have given me

> > (sometines without even knowing).

> >

> > Joy

> >

> > RTHR Sheffield 16/6/04

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Hey Joy! I hope you're joining the hip-replacement support

groups...Totallyhip and Hipuniverse...there are wonderful helpful

people on those web sites too! Happy to hear that you are pain free

and on the mend. Susie in Memphis

> > I've been a member of the group for 18 months now and have really

> > appreciated the advice and guidance given to myself and reading

> that

> > given to others.

> >

> > However I will shortly be leaving the group as I am now 5 days

> post

> > op from a BHR but unfortunately my hip was too far gone to

> resurface

> > and I have had to have a a THR.

> >

> > I thought I would have been really upset, however after the

> initial

> > tears in the recovery room I have put all my energy into getting

> > better. I am now 6 days post op, home and cannot believe how

well

> I

> > feel. The back pain has gone, no more arthritic pain and no pain

> > walking - I still feel lucky to be in this position. I just have

> a

> > bit!! of swelling from the waist to my ankle, has anyone any

> > suggestions to relieve this.

> >

> > What I would like to say to anyone in the UK who is reading this

> who

> > may have been advised to wait as long as possible before having

> > surgery is that this is poor advice and has lead to me having a

> > replacement rather than a resurface. However if the worst comes

> to

> > the worst and you have to have a THR you can still feel

fantasitic

> > and look forward to life afterwards - as I am.

> >

> > So I would just like to say goodbye to everyone and good luck

with

> > your surgery and recovery. I will miss seeing all your familiar

> > names.

> >

> > Kind regards and thank you for all the support you have given me

> > (sometines without even knowing).

> >

> > Joy

> >

> > RTHR Sheffield 16/6/04

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> I've been a member of the group for 18 months now and have really

> appreciated the advice and guidance given to myself and reading

that

> given to others.

>

> However I will shortly be leaving the group as I am now 5 days

post

> op from a BHR but unfortunately my hip was too far gone to

resurface

> and I have had to have a a THR.

>

> I thought I would have been really upset, however after the

initial

> tears in the recovery room I have put all my energy into getting

> better. I am now 6 days post op, home and cannot believe how well

I

> feel. The back pain has gone, no more arthritic pain and no pain

> walking - I still feel lucky to be in this position. I just have

a

> bit!! of swelling from the waist to my ankle, has anyone any

> suggestions to relieve this.

>

> What I would like to say to anyone in the UK who is reading this

who

> may have been advised to wait as long as possible before having

> surgery is that this is poor advice and has lead to me having a

> replacement rather than a resurface. However if the worst comes

to

> the worst and you have to have a THR you can still feel fantasitic

> and look forward to life afterwards - as I am.

>

> So I would just like to say goodbye to everyone and good luck with

> your surgery and recovery. I will miss seeing all your familiar

> names.

>

> Kind regards and thank you for all the support you have given me

> (sometines without even knowing).

>

> Joy

>

> RTHR Sheffield 16/6/04

Dear Joy, I am sorry to hear that you could'nt have resurf after all

but very glad your op was successful. It's a good feeling to be pain

free!.

I too had a lot of swelling after the op- like you from waist to

ankle. I am 3 weeks post op and mine has gone down dramatically. I

was advised to elevate the leg whilst lying down. ( obviously not

too high!). Also to apply ice. Take care and happy healing . XCheryl

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> I've been a member of the group for 18 months now and have really

> appreciated the advice and guidance given to myself and reading

that

> given to others.

>

> However I will shortly be leaving the group as I am now 5 days

post

> op from a BHR but unfortunately my hip was too far gone to

resurface

> and I have had to have a a THR.

>

> I thought I would have been really upset, however after the

initial

> tears in the recovery room I have put all my energy into getting

> better. I am now 6 days post op, home and cannot believe how well

I

> feel. The back pain has gone, no more arthritic pain and no pain

> walking - I still feel lucky to be in this position. I just have

a

> bit!! of swelling from the waist to my ankle, has anyone any

> suggestions to relieve this.

>

> What I would like to say to anyone in the UK who is reading this

who

> may have been advised to wait as long as possible before having

> surgery is that this is poor advice and has lead to me having a

> replacement rather than a resurface. However if the worst comes

to

> the worst and you have to have a THR you can still feel fantasitic

> and look forward to life afterwards - as I am.

>

> So I would just like to say goodbye to everyone and good luck with

> your surgery and recovery. I will miss seeing all your familiar

> names.

>

> Kind regards and thank you for all the support you have given me

> (sometines without even knowing).

>

> Joy

>

> RTHR Sheffield 16/6/04

Dear Joy, I am sorry to hear that you could'nt have resurf after all

but very glad your op was successful. It's a good feeling to be pain

free!.

I too had a lot of swelling after the op- like you from waist to

ankle. I am 3 weeks post op and mine has gone down dramatically. I

was advised to elevate the leg whilst lying down. ( obviously not

too high!). Also to apply ice. Take care and happy healing . XCheryl

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> I've been a member of the group for 18 months now and have really

> appreciated the advice and guidance given to myself and reading

that

> given to others.

>

> However I will shortly be leaving the group as I am now 5 days

post

> op from a BHR but unfortunately my hip was too far gone to

resurface

> and I have had to have a a THR.

>

> I thought I would have been really upset, however after the

initial

> tears in the recovery room I have put all my energy into getting

> better. I am now 6 days post op, home and cannot believe how well

I

> feel. The back pain has gone, no more arthritic pain and no pain

> walking - I still feel lucky to be in this position. I just have

a

> bit!! of swelling from the waist to my ankle, has anyone any

> suggestions to relieve this.

>

> What I would like to say to anyone in the UK who is reading this

who

> may have been advised to wait as long as possible before having

> surgery is that this is poor advice and has lead to me having a

> replacement rather than a resurface. However if the worst comes

to

> the worst and you have to have a THR you can still feel fantasitic

> and look forward to life afterwards - as I am.

>

> So I would just like to say goodbye to everyone and good luck with

> your surgery and recovery. I will miss seeing all your familiar

> names.

>

> Kind regards and thank you for all the support you have given me

> (sometines without even knowing).

>

> Joy

>

> RTHR Sheffield 16/6/04

Dear Joy, I am sorry to hear that you could'nt have resurf after all

but very glad your op was successful. It's a good feeling to be pain

free!.

I too had a lot of swelling after the op- like you from waist to

ankle. I am 3 weeks post op and mine has gone down dramatically. I

was advised to elevate the leg whilst lying down. ( obviously not

too high!). Also to apply ice. Take care and happy healing . XCheryl

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Joy

Stay with us and report from time to time - it would help others who are

revised or have left it too long - there are still family doctors out there

advising surgery to be left as long as you can bear the pain. Your advice

to others would be invaluable.

Rog

Leaving the group

> I've been a member of the group for 18 months now and have really

> appreciated the advice and guidance given to myself and reading that

> given to others.

>

> However I will shortly be leaving the group as I am now 5 days post

> op from a BHR but unfortunately my hip was too far gone to resurface

> and I have had to have a a THR.

>

> I thought I would have been really upset, however after the initial

> tears in the recovery room I have put all my energy into getting

> better. I am now 6 days post op, home and cannot believe how well I

> feel. The back pain has gone, no more arthritic pain and no pain

> walking - I still feel lucky to be in this position. I just have a

> bit!! of swelling from the waist to my ankle, has anyone any

> suggestions to relieve this.

>

> What I would like to say to anyone in the UK who is reading this who

> may have been advised to wait as long as possible before having

> surgery is that this is poor advice and has lead to me having a

> replacement rather than a resurface. However if the worst comes to

> the worst and you have to have a THR you can still feel fantasitic

> and look forward to life afterwards - as I am.

>

> So I would just like to say goodbye to everyone and good luck with

> your surgery and recovery. I will miss seeing all your familiar

> names.

>

> Kind regards and thank you for all the support you have given me

> (sometines without even knowing).

>

> Joy

>

> RTHR Sheffield 16/6/04

>

>

>

>

>

>

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Rog

I heard with interest on the UK news last night that changes were to

be made to the NHS system recognising the need for a joined up

approach between the GP and hospital where the surgery will take

place in terms of waiting times and performance indicators.

This is clearly an improvement, but for younger/active people like

ourselves I believe the real issue is lack of diagnosis by GP's as

happened with me as I did not present myself as a typical arthritic

hip patient (ie older). The other problem I had was being told by a

consultant at our local HNS trust (the whole trust does not offer

resurfacing) to wait as long as I could for a THR and did not even

mention resurfacing as an out of area option. By chance a newspaper

article referred onto me by a friend about Angie Best lead to me

finding a surgeon who could resurface me. The rest you all now know.

Today I shall be writing to the Health Minister explaining my

experience and highlighting where things went wrong for me and what

could be done to make improvements for more active hip patients in

the light of these proposed changes.

Also, our local MP will be standing down at the next election and we

are right in the middle of selecting a new candidate. The favourite

is Ed Balls, Chief Adviser to Gordon Brown and husband of Yvette

, Junior Health Minister. He is due to visit me in the next

few days as I have a vote in the selection process. I am going to

raise this as with him in the light of the proposed changes to the

NHS and just maybe he will feedback to someone who can change things

at Government level.

Thank you everyone for all your kind wishes and support over the last

few days.

Joy

> Joy

> Stay with us and report from time to time - it would help others

who are

> revised or have left it too long - there are still family doctors

out there

> advising surgery to be left as long as you can bear the pain. Your

advice

> to others would be invaluable.

> Rog

> Leaving the group

>

>

> > I've been a member of the group for 18 months now and have really

> > appreciated the advice and guidance given to myself and reading

that

> > given to others.

> >

> > However I will shortly be leaving the group as I am now 5 days

post

> > op from a BHR but unfortunately my hip was too far gone to

resurface

> > and I have had to have a a THR.

> >

> > I thought I would have been really upset, however after the

initial

> > tears in the recovery room I have put all my energy into getting

> > better. I am now 6 days post op, home and cannot believe how

well I

> > feel. The back pain has gone, no more arthritic pain and no pain

> > walking - I still feel lucky to be in this position. I just have

a

> > bit!! of swelling from the waist to my ankle, has anyone any

> > suggestions to relieve this.

> >

> > What I would like to say to anyone in the UK who is reading this

who

> > may have been advised to wait as long as possible before having

> > surgery is that this is poor advice and has lead to me having a

> > replacement rather than a resurface. However if the worst comes

to

> > the worst and you have to have a THR you can still feel fantasitic

> > and look forward to life afterwards - as I am.

> >

> > So I would just like to say goodbye to everyone and good luck with

> > your surgery and recovery. I will miss seeing all your familiar

> > names.

> >

> > Kind regards and thank you for all the support you have given me

> > (sometines without even knowing).

> >

> > Joy

> >

> > RTHR Sheffield 16/6/04

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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Joy,

I hope I wasn't too abrupt in my request that you stay with us - I hope you

will. There are others on this site with THR's.

I remember well the article about Angie Best and tried to get her to post on

this site to no avail - The article was in the Daily Mail.

The only way to get the message across is to preach to people the importance

of early treatment - I left it late and was borderline with my left hip but

as it happened had 2 BHR's.

Forgive me stating this, although I admire your stance of taking it up with

politicians, I feel the only way they'll take notice is when the number of

people shouting is high enough or they are getting bad publicity - another

reason for your continued presence on this site - united we stand, divided

we fall.

Rog BHR both hips 2001 Treacy

Leaving the group

> >

> >

> > > I've been a member of the group for 18 months now and have really

> > > appreciated the advice and guidance given to myself and reading

> that

> > > given to others.

> > >

> > > However I will shortly be leaving the group as I am now 5 days

> post

> > > op from a BHR but unfortunately my hip was too far gone to

> resurface

> > > and I have had to have a a THR.

> > >

> > > I thought I would have been really upset, however after the

> initial

> > > tears in the recovery room I have put all my energy into getting

> > > better. I am now 6 days post op, home and cannot believe how

> well I

> > > feel. The back pain has gone, no more arthritic pain and no pain

> > > walking - I still feel lucky to be in this position. I just have

> a

> > > bit!! of swelling from the waist to my ankle, has anyone any

> > > suggestions to relieve this.

> > >

> > > What I would like to say to anyone in the UK who is reading this

> who

> > > may have been advised to wait as long as possible before having

> > > surgery is that this is poor advice and has lead to me having a

> > > replacement rather than a resurface. However if the worst comes

> to

> > > the worst and you have to have a THR you can still feel fantasitic

> > > and look forward to life afterwards - as I am.

> > >

> > > So I would just like to say goodbye to everyone and good luck with

> > > your surgery and recovery. I will miss seeing all your familiar

> > > names.

> > >

> > > Kind regards and thank you for all the support you have given me

> > > (sometines without even knowing).

> > >

> > > Joy

> > >

> > > RTHR Sheffield 16/6/04

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

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Joy,

I hope I wasn't too abrupt in my request that you stay with us - I hope you

will. There are others on this site with THR's.

I remember well the article about Angie Best and tried to get her to post on

this site to no avail - The article was in the Daily Mail.

The only way to get the message across is to preach to people the importance

of early treatment - I left it late and was borderline with my left hip but

as it happened had 2 BHR's.

Forgive me stating this, although I admire your stance of taking it up with

politicians, I feel the only way they'll take notice is when the number of

people shouting is high enough or they are getting bad publicity - another

reason for your continued presence on this site - united we stand, divided

we fall.

Rog BHR both hips 2001 Treacy

Leaving the group

> >

> >

> > > I've been a member of the group for 18 months now and have really

> > > appreciated the advice and guidance given to myself and reading

> that

> > > given to others.

> > >

> > > However I will shortly be leaving the group as I am now 5 days

> post

> > > op from a BHR but unfortunately my hip was too far gone to

> resurface

> > > and I have had to have a a THR.

> > >

> > > I thought I would have been really upset, however after the

> initial

> > > tears in the recovery room I have put all my energy into getting

> > > better. I am now 6 days post op, home and cannot believe how

> well I

> > > feel. The back pain has gone, no more arthritic pain and no pain

> > > walking - I still feel lucky to be in this position. I just have

> a

> > > bit!! of swelling from the waist to my ankle, has anyone any

> > > suggestions to relieve this.

> > >

> > > What I would like to say to anyone in the UK who is reading this

> who

> > > may have been advised to wait as long as possible before having

> > > surgery is that this is poor advice and has lead to me having a

> > > replacement rather than a resurface. However if the worst comes

> to

> > > the worst and you have to have a THR you can still feel fantasitic

> > > and look forward to life afterwards - as I am.

> > >

> > > So I would just like to say goodbye to everyone and good luck with

> > > your surgery and recovery. I will miss seeing all your familiar

> > > names.

> > >

> > > Kind regards and thank you for all the support you have given me

> > > (sometines without even knowing).

> > >

> > > Joy

> > >

> > > RTHR Sheffield 16/6/04

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

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