Guest guest Posted October 21, 2011 Report Share Posted October 21, 2011 Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away. What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 21, 2011 Report Share Posted October 21, 2011 Jackie I am so sorry to hear this. How horrible and scary. Everyone is in my prayers. Hugs nne To the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world""May the Lord Bless you and keep you,May the Lord Make his face shine upon you, and give you Peace...Forever"Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://breastcancerpatientssoulmatesforlife.bravehost.com/ Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancerhttp://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancerAngel Feather Loomerwww.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.comThe Cancer Clubwww.cancerclub.com -----Original Message-----From: rubyjax61@...Sent: Fri, 21 Oct 2011 00:28:00 -0700To: mserslife Subject: Prayers please Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away. What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie Send your photos by email in seconds... Try FREE IM ToolPack at www.imtoolpack.com Works in all emails, instant messengers, blogs, forums and social networks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 21, 2011 Report Share Posted October 21, 2011 Another thought Jackie. Does your state have open court records online like we do here in Arizona? If so, please check to see if he has a record. There may be something he is hiding. hugs SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: "MSersLife " <MSersLife >Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:06 PMSubject: Re: Prayers please Would Tina talk to the local domestic violence shelter? They could provide ideas and perhaps some counsel. He may not be hitting her but emotional abuse is still abuse!love SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:28 AMSubject: Prayers please Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away. What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 21, 2011 Report Share Posted October 21, 2011 Another thought.... have you or Tina ever talked to the x-wife or her mother? They may have some valuable information for you. Did he ever threaten the x-wife or her mom? hugs SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: "MSersLife " <MSersLife >Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:06 PMSubject: Re: Prayers please Would Tina talk to the local domestic violence shelter? They could provide ideas and perhaps some counsel. He may not be hitting her but emotional abuse is still abuse!love SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:28 AMSubject: Prayers please Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away. What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 21, 2011 Report Share Posted October 21, 2011 Another thought.... have you or Tina ever talked to the x-wife or her mother? They may have some valuable information for you. Did he ever threaten the x-wife or her mom? hugs SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: "MSersLife " <MSersLife >Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:06 PMSubject: Re: Prayers please Would Tina talk to the local domestic violence shelter? They could provide ideas and perhaps some counsel. He may not be hitting her but emotional abuse is still abuse!love SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:28 AMSubject: Prayers please Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away. What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 21, 2011 Report Share Posted October 21, 2011 When she first got together with him, we saw danger areas and his story about why his ex left him and it was all her mothers fault didn’t sound right. We tried to warn Tina about him, and she was to enamored because in the beginning he treated her like a “queen†she said. Better than her other 2 marriages. It’s just that she didn’t get to know him LONG enough for his true colors to show. My Tina is a very long suffering woman and she doesn’t have a lot of confidence. So it’s hard for me to suggest stuff because she also denies a lot of stuff saying it isn’t that bad mom one day, and then after a fight she’s ready to throw in the towel but………….. sigh………. Anyhow about his ex, I looked up the name and where she was last living, but at the time it was in the beginning of the relationship and I had already stirred the pot enough, and I didn’t know if his ex would contact him about me, or how it would play out. I don’t know if he was physically abusive towards her, but he was doing hard drugs then, and drinking. He’s the type of husband that does not want them to have very much contact with any of the family. We probably see them more than anyone else. And that’s only because my husband and he play war video games together. So he likes my husband a lot! Hugs, Jackie From: MSersLife [mailto:MSersLife ] On Behalf Of SharonSent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:20 PMTo: MSersLife Subject: Re: Prayers please Another thought.... have you or Tina ever talked to the x-wife or her mother? They may have some valuable information for you. Did he ever threaten the x-wife or her mom? hugs SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: " MSersLife " <MSersLife >Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:06 PMSubject: Re: Prayers please Would Tina talk to the local domestic violence shelter? They could provide ideas and perhaps some counsel. He may not be hitting her but emotional abuse is still abuse! love SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:28 AMSubject: Prayers please Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away. What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 21, 2011 Report Share Posted October 21, 2011 When she first got together with him, we saw danger areas and his story about why his ex left him and it was all her mothers fault didn’t sound right. We tried to warn Tina about him, and she was to enamored because in the beginning he treated her like a “queen†she said. Better than her other 2 marriages. It’s just that she didn’t get to know him LONG enough for his true colors to show. My Tina is a very long suffering woman and she doesn’t have a lot of confidence. So it’s hard for me to suggest stuff because she also denies a lot of stuff saying it isn’t that bad mom one day, and then after a fight she’s ready to throw in the towel but………….. sigh………. Anyhow about his ex, I looked up the name and where she was last living, but at the time it was in the beginning of the relationship and I had already stirred the pot enough, and I didn’t know if his ex would contact him about me, or how it would play out. I don’t know if he was physically abusive towards her, but he was doing hard drugs then, and drinking. He’s the type of husband that does not want them to have very much contact with any of the family. We probably see them more than anyone else. And that’s only because my husband and he play war video games together. So he likes my husband a lot! Hugs, Jackie From: MSersLife [mailto:MSersLife ] On Behalf Of SharonSent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:20 PMTo: MSersLife Subject: Re: Prayers please Another thought.... have you or Tina ever talked to the x-wife or her mother? They may have some valuable information for you. Did he ever threaten the x-wife or her mom? hugs SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: " MSersLife " <MSersLife >Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:06 PMSubject: Re: Prayers please Would Tina talk to the local domestic violence shelter? They could provide ideas and perhaps some counsel. He may not be hitting her but emotional abuse is still abuse! love SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:28 AMSubject: Prayers please Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away. What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 21, 2011 Report Share Posted October 21, 2011 Me too Akiba, thanks for responding it helps to have the support. Hugs, Jackie From: MSersLife [mailto:MSersLife ] On Behalf Of AkibaSent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:30 PMTo: MSersLife Subject: Re: Prayers please I'm sorry honey, it's a sad situation all the way around. Sharon has made some excellent suggestions (thank you Sharon!). I hope something helps.   ~*~Hugs~*~~*~Akiba~*~Pragmatic Visionaryhttp://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php-------Original Message------- From: Jackie HDate: 10/21/2011 3:28:11 AMTo: MSersLife Subject: Prayers please Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away. What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 21, 2011 Report Share Posted October 21, 2011 I know nne,……thank you for your prayers they always encourage, and help! Hugs, Jackie From: MSersLife [mailto:MSersLife ] On Behalf Of nne SvihlikSent: Friday, October 21, 2011 4:52 AMTo: mserslife Subject: RE: Prayers please Jackie I am so sorry to hear this. How horrible and scary. Everyone is in my prayers.HugsnneTo the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world " " May the Lord Bless you and keep you,May the Lord Make his face shine upon you, and give you Peace...Forever " Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://breastcancerpatientssoulmatesforlife.bravehost.com/ Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancerhttp://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancerAngel Feather Loomerwww.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.comThe Cancer Clubwww.cancerclub.com -----Original Message-----From: rubyjax61@...Sent: Fri, 21 Oct 2011 00:28:00 -0700To: mserslife Subject: Prayers please Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away. What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie Send your photos by email in seconds...Try FREE IM ToolPack at www.imtoolpack.comWorks in all emails, instant messengers, blogs, forums and social networks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 21, 2011 Report Share Posted October 21, 2011 I know nne,……thank you for your prayers they always encourage, and help! Hugs, Jackie From: MSersLife [mailto:MSersLife ] On Behalf Of nne SvihlikSent: Friday, October 21, 2011 4:52 AMTo: mserslife Subject: RE: Prayers please Jackie I am so sorry to hear this. How horrible and scary. Everyone is in my prayers.HugsnneTo the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world " " May the Lord Bless you and keep you,May the Lord Make his face shine upon you, and give you Peace...Forever " Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://breastcancerpatientssoulmatesforlife.bravehost.com/ Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancerhttp://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancerAngel Feather Loomerwww.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.comThe Cancer Clubwww.cancerclub.com -----Original Message-----From: rubyjax61@...Sent: Fri, 21 Oct 2011 00:28:00 -0700To: mserslife Subject: Prayers please Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away. What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie Send your photos by email in seconds...Try FREE IM ToolPack at www.imtoolpack.comWorks in all emails, instant messengers, blogs, forums and social networks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 21, 2011 Report Share Posted October 21, 2011 I know nne,……thank you for your prayers they always encourage, and help! Hugs, Jackie From: MSersLife [mailto:MSersLife ] On Behalf Of nne SvihlikSent: Friday, October 21, 2011 4:52 AMTo: mserslife Subject: RE: Prayers please Jackie I am so sorry to hear this. How horrible and scary. Everyone is in my prayers.HugsnneTo the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world " " May the Lord Bless you and keep you,May the Lord Make his face shine upon you, and give you Peace...Forever " Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://breastcancerpatientssoulmatesforlife.bravehost.com/ Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancerhttp://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancerAngel Feather Loomerwww.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.comThe Cancer Clubwww.cancerclub.com -----Original Message-----From: rubyjax61@...Sent: Fri, 21 Oct 2011 00:28:00 -0700To: mserslife Subject: Prayers please Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away. What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie Send your photos by email in seconds...Try FREE IM ToolPack at www.imtoolpack.comWorks in all emails, instant messengers, blogs, forums and social networks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 21, 2011 Report Share Posted October 21, 2011 The domestic violence shelter would find her a secret place to live and would help her get custody through the courts. Let me know what she decides to do. I am worried for her and Christian.love SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 1:15 PMSubject: RE: Prayers please I found a place where we use to live, but its out of state so I don’t know if that would work. There are places in this area too, and if it gets to that point, then I hope she would find a way to get to one. She tried to call her dad to come get her and Christian but her husband grabbed the phone and ripped it out of the wall. Anytime she mentions leaving she says he goes ballistic. I really think he has her so afraid its easier to just stay and put up with it. She will stand up for herself verbally, but her fear keeps her from leaving. Mostly because he has threatened to take Christian and go into hiding where she would never see him again. Emotional blackmail ya know. Thanks for your help Sharon.Hugs, Jackie From: MSersLife [mailto:MSersLife ] On Behalf Of SharonSent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:07 PMTo: MSersLife Subject: Re: Prayers please Would Tina talk to the local domestic violence shelter? They could provide ideas and perhaps some counsel. He may not be hitting her but emotional abuse is still abuse! love SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:28 AMSubject: Prayers please Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away. What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 21, 2011 Report Share Posted October 21, 2011 The domestic violence shelter would find her a secret place to live and would help her get custody through the courts. Let me know what she decides to do. I am worried for her and Christian.love SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 1:15 PMSubject: RE: Prayers please I found a place where we use to live, but its out of state so I don’t know if that would work. There are places in this area too, and if it gets to that point, then I hope she would find a way to get to one. She tried to call her dad to come get her and Christian but her husband grabbed the phone and ripped it out of the wall. Anytime she mentions leaving she says he goes ballistic. I really think he has her so afraid its easier to just stay and put up with it. She will stand up for herself verbally, but her fear keeps her from leaving. Mostly because he has threatened to take Christian and go into hiding where she would never see him again. Emotional blackmail ya know. Thanks for your help Sharon.Hugs, Jackie From: MSersLife [mailto:MSersLife ] On Behalf Of SharonSent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:07 PMTo: MSersLife Subject: Re: Prayers please Would Tina talk to the local domestic violence shelter? They could provide ideas and perhaps some counsel. He may not be hitting her but emotional abuse is still abuse! love SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:28 AMSubject: Prayers please Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away. What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 21, 2011 Report Share Posted October 21, 2011 The domestic violence shelter would find her a secret place to live and would help her get custody through the courts. Let me know what she decides to do. I am worried for her and Christian.love SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 1:15 PMSubject: RE: Prayers please I found a place where we use to live, but its out of state so I don’t know if that would work. There are places in this area too, and if it gets to that point, then I hope she would find a way to get to one. She tried to call her dad to come get her and Christian but her husband grabbed the phone and ripped it out of the wall. Anytime she mentions leaving she says he goes ballistic. I really think he has her so afraid its easier to just stay and put up with it. She will stand up for herself verbally, but her fear keeps her from leaving. Mostly because he has threatened to take Christian and go into hiding where she would never see him again. Emotional blackmail ya know. Thanks for your help Sharon.Hugs, Jackie From: MSersLife [mailto:MSersLife ] On Behalf Of SharonSent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:07 PMTo: MSersLife Subject: Re: Prayers please Would Tina talk to the local domestic violence shelter? They could provide ideas and perhaps some counsel. He may not be hitting her but emotional abuse is still abuse! love SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:28 AMSubject: Prayers please Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away. What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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