Guest guest Posted July 17, 2004 Report Share Posted July 17, 2004 Bitter! You should be! And in my very humble opinion.,,,,, Any physician that would say. that you have " too high an expectation of the medical profession for wanting to know what is causing this " !! Should have his license taken away! Just because he is too stupid and lazy to figure it out or send you to someone who will figure it out is NO reason he should lump the whole medical association in with his philosophy! You need to get yourself a new GP. Ask one of the cardiologist who they would recommend and DO go to that person. Debbi Re: Cardiac problems/Jo I just wanted to thank everyone for their support and encouragement following my cardiac issues on Thursday, you really have been a huge help to me. I have to confess that I am struggling to get my head around it all and I'm incredibly scared and emotional. I spent this afternoon talking it all over with my parents and for the first time we all admitted out in the open just how scared we all are of what is happening to me. I am trying hard to stay positive but I just feel consumed by my fears at the moment. I am very tired of all the tests but I don't mind going through as many as needed to get to the bottom of this and hopefully get some help managing or controlling it. I think the hardest part for me is knowing how my GP has ignored this issue for so long telling me it was nothing to worry about....the cardiologists are horrified this hasn't been investigated properly. This Go has constantly told me he doesn't think it's anything important and the best of all was his statement that I have " I just can't help thinking that if he'd done his job I may not have ended up in collapsing and being told I probably had a dissection. Bitter? Too right I'm bitter..... Anyway, I am trying not to get wound up as he isn't worth putting myself back in hospital with another attack of whatever is wrong with my heart. But it is hard not to feel angry. Thanks again for all of your care, consideration and wonderful support - it means the world to me. Love and hugs....Jo xxx To learn more about EDS, visit our website: http://www.ehlersdanlos.ca Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2004 Report Share Posted July 17, 2004 Bitter! You should be! And in my very humble opinion.,,,,, Any physician that would say. that you have " too high an expectation of the medical profession for wanting to know what is causing this " !! Should have his license taken away! Just because he is too stupid and lazy to figure it out or send you to someone who will figure it out is NO reason he should lump the whole medical association in with his philosophy! You need to get yourself a new GP. Ask one of the cardiologist who they would recommend and DO go to that person. Debbi Re: Cardiac problems/Jo I just wanted to thank everyone for their support and encouragement following my cardiac issues on Thursday, you really have been a huge help to me. I have to confess that I am struggling to get my head around it all and I'm incredibly scared and emotional. I spent this afternoon talking it all over with my parents and for the first time we all admitted out in the open just how scared we all are of what is happening to me. I am trying hard to stay positive but I just feel consumed by my fears at the moment. I am very tired of all the tests but I don't mind going through as many as needed to get to the bottom of this and hopefully get some help managing or controlling it. I think the hardest part for me is knowing how my GP has ignored this issue for so long telling me it was nothing to worry about....the cardiologists are horrified this hasn't been investigated properly. This Go has constantly told me he doesn't think it's anything important and the best of all was his statement that I have " I just can't help thinking that if he'd done his job I may not have ended up in collapsing and being told I probably had a dissection. Bitter? Too right I'm bitter..... Anyway, I am trying not to get wound up as he isn't worth putting myself back in hospital with another attack of whatever is wrong with my heart. But it is hard not to feel angry. Thanks again for all of your care, consideration and wonderful support - it means the world to me. Love and hugs....Jo xxx To learn more about EDS, visit our website: http://www.ehlersdanlos.ca Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2004 Report Share Posted July 17, 2004 Jo, What a trial you have been through, and continue to endure! I wish we lived closer, I'd gladly help you in any way that I could. I feel badly that you shoulder so much in your life and it's taking a toll on you. Please, take some time to reflect upon your needs, it's so important. Hang in there, Love, Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2004 Report Share Posted July 17, 2004 Jo, What a trial you have been through, and continue to endure! I wish we lived closer, I'd gladly help you in any way that I could. I feel badly that you shoulder so much in your life and it's taking a toll on you. Please, take some time to reflect upon your needs, it's so important. Hang in there, Love, Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2004 Report Share Posted July 17, 2004 Jo -- I know it is very hard not to be upset with the doctors like your GP - and you have right to be bitter towards him. Your cardiologists seem to really want to get to the bottom of this and find out what is going on - they are on your side and sound like they will do all they can to help. I know the cardiologist I deal with is very thorough and has become familar with VEDS. He rigorously explores any symptoms I have and told me he will not take any chances with me because of the VEDS and the dissections. So, try to have some faith in your cardiologists - they will find out what is wrong (this is, after all, their field!!). Any time you want to talk, I'm here. Having dealt with cardiac issues in the past, I may be able to help (at least, lend you a shoulder to lean on!!) You can email me off list if you want -- pmelcher@... Take care, Love, Patti Re: Cardiac problems/Jo I just wanted to thank everyone for their support and encouragement following my cardiac issues on Thursday, you really have been a huge help to me. I have to confess that I am struggling to get my head around it all and I'm incredibly scared and emotional. I spent this afternoon talking it all over with my parents and for the first time we all admitted out in the open just how scared we all are of what is happening to me. I am trying hard to stay positive but I just feel consumed by my fears at the moment. I am very tired of all the tests but I don't mind going through as many as needed to get to the bottom of this and hopefully get some help managing or controlling it. I think the hardest part for me is knowing how my GP has ignored this issue for so long telling me it was nothing to worry about....the cardiologists are horrified this hasn't been investigated properly. This Go has constantly told me he doesn't think it's anything important and the best of all was his statement that I have " too high an expectation of the medical profession for wanting to know what is causing this " !! I just can't help thinking that if he'd done his job I may not have ended up in collapsing and being told I probably had a dissection. Bitter? Too right I'm bitter..... Anyway, I am trying not to get wound up as he isn't worth putting myself back in hospital with another attack of whatever is wrong with my heart. But it is hard not to feel angry. Thanks again for all of your care, consideration and wonderful support - it means the world to me. Love and hugs....Jo xxx To learn more about EDS, visit our website: http://www.ehlersdanlos.ca Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 18, 2004 Report Share Posted July 18, 2004 Hi Jo: If it is any consolation I want you to know that I was told almost exactly the The same thing that I expect to much of the doctors in that they often just don't Know the cause of these things. This by a medical specialist from Sick Kids hosp. In Toronto. And I do know how bitter one can feel about it. The fact that your cardiologists are going to investigate fully is a big Big plus though and know that you can go on from here. I also know how very Very scared you feel..........you are not alone! ! Do try to rest. Bernie Re: Cardiac problems/Jo I just wanted to thank everyone for their support and encouragement following my cardiac issues on Thursday, you really have been a huge help to me. I have to confess that I am struggling to get my head around it all and I'm incredibly scared and emotional. I spent this afternoon talking it all over with my parents and for the first time we all admitted out in the open just how scared we all are of what is happening to me. I am trying hard to stay positive but I just feel consumed by my fears at the moment. I am very tired of all the tests but I don't mind going through as many as needed to get to the bottom of this and hopefully get some help managing or controlling it. I think the hardest part for me is knowing how my GP has ignored this issue for so long telling me it was nothing to worry about....the cardiologists are horrified this hasn't been investigated properly. This Go has constantly told me he doesn't think it's anything important and the best of all was his statement that I have " I just can't help thinking that if he'd done his job I may not have ended up in collapsing and being told I probably had a dissection. Bitter? Too right I'm bitter..... Anyway, I am trying not to get wound up as he isn't worth putting myself back in hospital with another attack of whatever is wrong with my heart. But it is hard not to feel angry. Thanks again for all of your care, consideration and wonderful support - it means the world to me. Love and hugs....Jo xxx To learn more about EDS, visit our website: http://www.ehlersdanlos.ca Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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