RE: Tina's plight - Jackie's daughter -

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Got it; I read your post, but was not thinking well when I typed the post!Love to you and to your Tina and to all in our group and their loved ones,nSubject: Re: Prayers pleaseTo: "MSersLife " <MSersLife >Date: Friday, October 21, 2011, 12:06 PM Would Tina talk to the local domestic violence shelter? They could provide ideas and perhaps some counsel.

He may not be hitting her but emotional abuse is still abuse! love SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Friday, October 21, 2011 12:28 AMSubject: Prayers please Hey everyone,….I’m sorry to bother you with this but you are the only ones I can talk to that aren’t directly connected to my family. I need prayer for my daughter and grandson. They are living in a very mentally unstable abusive home. Tina’s husband hasn’t hit her as far as I know, but I feel its only a matter of time before he gets physically violent. He’s drinking again, and he basically has her and Christian trapped in their home. He threatens her and tells her if she tried to leave he would take Christian and go someplace where she would never see him again. He uses emotional blackmail to control her, and is so verbally abusive. The home is literally a war zone verbally, and my poor little grandson witnesses this on a daily basis. He doesn’t work, so he’s at the house all the time. The car is in his name, and she feels stuck. We told her if she decided to leave him we would come and get her, but he doesn’t have very good feelings towards me so my life would be in danger if she came here. I would almost have to go into hiding with her. Which I would do, but then my husband wouldn’t agree with that. I can’t impress upon him that with my disabilities I would have a hard time defending myself. I don’t know what her husband is capable of doing, but his first wife left at the insistence of her mother. So he blamed everything on her. See the MIL connection. Another MIL taking a wife away.

What will it take to tip the scales? He’s already paranoid, possibly schizophrenic with so many more mental problems. Please pray that she and Christian can find a safe haven somewhere and I will be protected too. This is wrecking havoc on my illnesses, and the worry is tearing me up. This is the type of thing that drives me crazy because if I wasn’t sick I would have had my dau and GS out of there 2 years ago. Thanks for your prayers, and being here to share this with you all. Hugs Jackie