I'm writing for S

[Guest guest]

asked me to write for her. She wants to apologize for her , for not being

able to write to the group with all that is going on with you all. Every time

she tries to read or write to the group, her ADD husband is over her shoulder

interfering and watching her like a Hawk. She wants and needs to be active in

the group, but he stops her from doing what she wants. I have told her over and

over it's OK, not to worry about the group, but as a nurse, she so wants to

help. Things are very hard for her at home, she just tries to keep peace. She

can't get on the PC when he sleeps because it wakes him up, she can't get on

while he's awake because he's over her shoulder, while he is at work, it's night

time. His controlling behavior is very hard for her, and she wanted you all to

know she really wants to help, but just can't for now. He has started

medication, but it's going to take some time. She will get online here and there

when ever she finds a moment alone.

On a happy note, She drove today. It was the first time in several years. Her

husband had dental surgery and she drove home for 30 minutes. She felt so free.

It did hurt her shoulders and back, but she loved to be behind the wheel again.

So this is what she wanted to say, that she couldn't say herself.

Cindylouwho