Guest guest Posted July 12, 2004 Report Share Posted July 12, 2004 We are all affected differently Betty, even within the same family. Men do not seem to fare as well with VEDS for some reason it seems, and have major events earlier than women. Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2004 Report Share Posted July 12, 2004 This is just wonderful Betty! No news is very good news with VEDS! Now maybe you can take a deep breath and start to fell a bit better. Just because Danny died with a rupture does not mean that you will! Please thank the Lord that you have a mild case and can live a *normal* life. It is NOT YOUR FAULT that Danny died! Did he get your genes? Yup! But it was the Lord that took him home. Remember it is His timing not YOUR fault. I am sure your husband and other son will be just tickled to think now they don't (nor do you) have to keep waiting for the other shoe to drop. It is good, very good! Blessings to you! Debbi I should be relieved but..... Hi all I just got back from my vascular doctor appointment and after going over the aortic CT.....I recieved a clean bill of health, in fact he was surprised given my diagnosis (VEDS) that he didn't see anything. I know I should be relieved and I guess part of me is but I don't get why I have such a " mild " (for lack of a better term) case of VEDS. Has anyone ever hrard of this happening. I haven't had any real medical issue except an emergency C-section in 1989 when I was 31. It puzzles me that Danny could have passed away from a rupture and I have nothing to speak of in the way of medical things. I know I sound like a complainer and I am thnakful that I am still here for my husband and other son but still I feel so awful that Danny died from this. I truly believe that sometimes somewhere in my mind I must be wanting there to be something wrong so I can at least justify this. ANyway thats the complaint of the day. Sorry to be such a pill about it. Betty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2004 Report Share Posted July 12, 2004 This is just wonderful Betty! No news is very good news with VEDS! Now maybe you can take a deep breath and start to fell a bit better. Just because Danny died with a rupture does not mean that you will! Please thank the Lord that you have a mild case and can live a *normal* life. It is NOT YOUR FAULT that Danny died! Did he get your genes? Yup! But it was the Lord that took him home. Remember it is His timing not YOUR fault. I am sure your husband and other son will be just tickled to think now they don't (nor do you) have to keep waiting for the other shoe to drop. It is good, very good! Blessings to you! Debbi I should be relieved but..... Hi all I just got back from my vascular doctor appointment and after going over the aortic CT.....I recieved a clean bill of health, in fact he was surprised given my diagnosis (VEDS) that he didn't see anything. I know I should be relieved and I guess part of me is but I don't get why I have such a " mild " (for lack of a better term) case of VEDS. Has anyone ever hrard of this happening. I haven't had any real medical issue except an emergency C-section in 1989 when I was 31. It puzzles me that Danny could have passed away from a rupture and I have nothing to speak of in the way of medical things. I know I sound like a complainer and I am thnakful that I am still here for my husband and other son but still I feel so awful that Danny died from this. I truly believe that sometimes somewhere in my mind I must be wanting there to be something wrong so I can at least justify this. ANyway thats the complaint of the day. Sorry to be such a pill about it. Betty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2004 Report Share Posted July 12, 2004 Thank you so very much for the kind words, maybe I will begin to believe them. I hope that you are well. Please take care. Betty I should be relieved but..... > > > > Hi all > I just got back from my vascular doctor appointment and after going over the > aortic CT.....I recieved a clean bill of health, in fact he was surprised > given my diagnosis (VEDS) that he didn't see anything. I know I should be > relieved and I guess part of me is but I don't get why I have such a " mild " > (for lack of a better term) case of VEDS. Has anyone ever hrard of this > happening. I haven't had any real medical issue except an emergency > C-section in 1989 when I was 31. It puzzles me that Danny could have passed > away from a rupture and I have nothing to speak of in the way of medical > things. I know I sound like a complainer and I am thnakful that I am still > here for my husband and other son but still I feel so awful that Danny died > from this. I truly believe that sometimes somewhere in my mind I must be > wanting there to be something wrong so I can at least justify this. > ANyway thats the complaint of the day. Sorry to be such a pill about it. > Betty > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2004 Report Share Posted July 12, 2004 Thank you so very much for the kind words, maybe I will begin to believe them. I hope that you are well. Please take care. Betty I should be relieved but..... > > > > Hi all > I just got back from my vascular doctor appointment and after going over the > aortic CT.....I recieved a clean bill of health, in fact he was surprised > given my diagnosis (VEDS) that he didn't see anything. I know I should be > relieved and I guess part of me is but I don't get why I have such a " mild " > (for lack of a better term) case of VEDS. Has anyone ever hrard of this > happening. I haven't had any real medical issue except an emergency > C-section in 1989 when I was 31. It puzzles me that Danny could have passed > away from a rupture and I have nothing to speak of in the way of medical > things. I know I sound like a complainer and I am thnakful that I am still > here for my husband and other son but still I feel so awful that Danny died > from this. I truly believe that sometimes somewhere in my mind I must be > wanting there to be something wrong so I can at least justify this. > ANyway thats the complaint of the day. Sorry to be such a pill about it. > Betty > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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