Guest guest Posted February 5, 2009 Report Share Posted February 5, 2009 Sikeea, Hi! You're absolutely welcome for the " listening. " Anytime you need me (or anyone else on this board), please know that we're here for you. It sounds like you're going through a rough time. I can completely empathize with your comment about waiting forever for the doctors to call back. The only advice I can give you is to keep on them. Even if you have to call daily, don't be afraid to do it. Your health is important and you/we need to be vigilant about it. Do you know if any of the GIs you're calling have a cancellation/waitlist that you could place yourself on? I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this! Going to the doctor is never pleasant and it's just ridiculous and ironic that we find ourselves begging for somebody to see us at times. I hope you find somebody great soon! As to your job situation, how is your relationship with your boss? Is he/she somebody you could sit down with and have an open/honest conversation? Maybe it would be possible to arrange some work at home hours or a split shift that would allow you to nap during the middle of the day. If you can think of some ideas that might work for you, you may want to try presenting them to your boss and see what happens from there. Also, I know this is a touchy subject for some, but if you are feeling overwhelmed, talking to an impartial third party like a therapist may help. Sometimes just saying things out loud takes away their power to stress you and having an objective ear can sometimes lend new perspective. It's a personal choice, but I thought I'd mention it for what it's worth! Hope things go your way very soon! Sandi in VA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 5, 2009 Report Share Posted February 5, 2009 Sikeea, Hi! You're absolutely welcome for the " listening. " Anytime you need me (or anyone else on this board), please know that we're here for you. It sounds like you're going through a rough time. I can completely empathize with your comment about waiting forever for the doctors to call back. The only advice I can give you is to keep on them. Even if you have to call daily, don't be afraid to do it. Your health is important and you/we need to be vigilant about it. Do you know if any of the GIs you're calling have a cancellation/waitlist that you could place yourself on? I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this! Going to the doctor is never pleasant and it's just ridiculous and ironic that we find ourselves begging for somebody to see us at times. I hope you find somebody great soon! As to your job situation, how is your relationship with your boss? Is he/she somebody you could sit down with and have an open/honest conversation? Maybe it would be possible to arrange some work at home hours or a split shift that would allow you to nap during the middle of the day. If you can think of some ideas that might work for you, you may want to try presenting them to your boss and see what happens from there. Also, I know this is a touchy subject for some, but if you are feeling overwhelmed, talking to an impartial third party like a therapist may help. Sometimes just saying things out loud takes away their power to stress you and having an objective ear can sometimes lend new perspective. It's a personal choice, but I thought I'd mention it for what it's worth! Hope things go your way very soon! Sandi in VA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 Serbrina: For what it's worth, my doc told me just last week that he does not like to put someone on a list with a MELD lower than 12 or so (25 being the typical point for transplant). He told me that the info that would be put into all the databases would probably be obsolete by the time I would really NEED the transplant. As far as HOW LONG to a transplant? No one knows! In my case, he said it could be anywhere from a year to 15 years to never. Go figure! Wim (aka ) > > Alison > I too am new to the group. I was diagnosed with UC in 2001 and PSC in 2004. I am listed on the transplant list but my MELD is an 8. Even after I've done tons of research, I still don't understand so much about this disease. Why do some people get sick quicker than others? How long am I going to wait to get a transplant? And how sick am I really going to get? I feel so lucky that I have found a group of people that understand what I'm going through. > Serbrina > Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T > > Re: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need advice) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 Serbrina: For what it's worth, my doc told me just last week that he does not like to put someone on a list with a MELD lower than 12 or so (25 being the typical point for transplant). He told me that the info that would be put into all the databases would probably be obsolete by the time I would really NEED the transplant. As far as HOW LONG to a transplant? No one knows! In my case, he said it could be anywhere from a year to 15 years to never. Go figure! Wim (aka ) > > Alison > I too am new to the group. I was diagnosed with UC in 2001 and PSC in 2004. I am listed on the transplant list but my MELD is an 8. Even after I've done tons of research, I still don't understand so much about this disease. Why do some people get sick quicker than others? How long am I going to wait to get a transplant? And how sick am I really going to get? I feel so lucky that I have found a group of people that understand what I'm going through. > Serbrina > Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T > > Re: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need advice) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 Serbrina: For what it's worth, my doc told me just last week that he does not like to put someone on a list with a MELD lower than 12 or so (25 being the typical point for transplant). He told me that the info that would be put into all the databases would probably be obsolete by the time I would really NEED the transplant. As far as HOW LONG to a transplant? No one knows! In my case, he said it could be anywhere from a year to 15 years to never. Go figure! Wim (aka ) > > Alison > I too am new to the group. I was diagnosed with UC in 2001 and PSC in 2004. I am listed on the transplant list but my MELD is an 8. Even after I've done tons of research, I still don't understand so much about this disease. Why do some people get sick quicker than others? How long am I going to wait to get a transplant? And how sick am I really going to get? I feel so lucky that I have found a group of people that understand what I'm going through. > Serbrina > Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T > > Re: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need advice) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 Thanks I can only hope that by the time we really both need a transplant, they've come up with a cure for this nasty disease.SerbrinaSent via BlackBerry by AT&TFrom: " Drukker" Date: Fri, 06 Feb 2009 08:14:14 -0000To: < >Subject: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need advice) Serbrina: For what it's worth, my doc told me just last week that he does not like to put someone on a list with a MELD lower than 12 or so (25 being the typical point for transplant). He told me that the info that would be put into all the databases would probably be obsolete by the time I would really NEED the transplant. As far as HOW LONG to a transplant? No one knows! In my case, he said it could be anywhere from a year to 15 years to never. Go figure! Wim (aka ) > > Alison > I too am new to the group. I was diagnosed with UC in 2001 and PSC in 2004. I am listed on the transplant list but my MELD is an 8. Even after I've done tons of research, I still don't understand so much about this disease. Why do some people get sick quicker than others? How long am I going to wait to get a transplant? And how sick am I really going to get? I feel so lucky that I have found a group of people that understand what I'm going through. > Serbrina > Sent via BlackBerry by AT & T > > Re: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need advice) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 Thanks I can only hope that by the time we really both need a transplant, they've come up with a cure for this nasty disease.SerbrinaSent via BlackBerry by AT&TFrom: " Drukker" Date: Fri, 06 Feb 2009 08:14:14 -0000To: < >Subject: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need advice) Serbrina: For what it's worth, my doc told me just last week that he does not like to put someone on a list with a MELD lower than 12 or so (25 being the typical point for transplant). He told me that the info that would be put into all the databases would probably be obsolete by the time I would really NEED the transplant. As far as HOW LONG to a transplant? No one knows! In my case, he said it could be anywhere from a year to 15 years to never. Go figure! Wim (aka ) > > Alison > I too am new to the group. I was diagnosed with UC in 2001 and PSC in 2004. I am listed on the transplant list but my MELD is an 8. Even after I've done tons of research, I still don't understand so much about this disease. Why do some people get sick quicker than others? How long am I going to wait to get a transplant? And how sick am I really going to get? I feel so lucky that I have found a group of people that understand what I'm going through. > Serbrina > Sent via BlackBerry by AT & T > > Re: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need advice) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 Serbrina: In my case, I was diagnosed in 1990; however, I had symptoms of both PSC and UC in February, 1987. I had a fairly normal life with minimal symptoms and only two or three flares until August, 2007. At that point, my health started on a fast downhill. My liver numbers skyrocketed; I had a constant fever, jaundiced. My MELD went to 13 in September and to 28 in October. I was put on the transplant list in early October and received the call on the 17th. Joe PSC & UC - 1990; Liver Transplant - 2007 From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Drukker Sent: Friday, February 06, 2009 2:14 AM To: Subject: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need advice) Serbrina: For what it's worth, my doc told me just last week that he does not like to put someone on a list with a MELD lower than 12 or so (25 being the typical point for transplant). As far as HOW LONG to a transplant? No one knows! In my case, he said it could be anywhere from a year to 15 years to never. Go figure! Wim (aka ) > > Alison > I too am new to the group. I was diagnosed with UC in 2001 and PSC in 2004. I am listed on the transplant list but my MELD is an 8. How long am I going to wait to get a transplant? And how sick am I really going to get? > Serbrina _,_._,___ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 Serbrina: In my case, I was diagnosed in 1990; however, I had symptoms of both PSC and UC in February, 1987. I had a fairly normal life with minimal symptoms and only two or three flares until August, 2007. At that point, my health started on a fast downhill. My liver numbers skyrocketed; I had a constant fever, jaundiced. My MELD went to 13 in September and to 28 in October. I was put on the transplant list in early October and received the call on the 17th. Joe PSC & UC - 1990; Liver Transplant - 2007 From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Drukker Sent: Friday, February 06, 2009 2:14 AM To: Subject: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need advice) Serbrina: For what it's worth, my doc told me just last week that he does not like to put someone on a list with a MELD lower than 12 or so (25 being the typical point for transplant). As far as HOW LONG to a transplant? No one knows! In my case, he said it could be anywhere from a year to 15 years to never. Go figure! Wim (aka ) > > Alison > I too am new to the group. I was diagnosed with UC in 2001 and PSC in 2004. I am listed on the transplant list but my MELD is an 8. How long am I going to wait to get a transplant? And how sick am I really going to get? > Serbrina _,_._,___ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 Serbrina: In my case, I was diagnosed in 1990; however, I had symptoms of both PSC and UC in February, 1987. I had a fairly normal life with minimal symptoms and only two or three flares until August, 2007. At that point, my health started on a fast downhill. My liver numbers skyrocketed; I had a constant fever, jaundiced. My MELD went to 13 in September and to 28 in October. I was put on the transplant list in early October and received the call on the 17th. Joe PSC & UC - 1990; Liver Transplant - 2007 From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Drukker Sent: Friday, February 06, 2009 2:14 AM To: Subject: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need advice) Serbrina: For what it's worth, my doc told me just last week that he does not like to put someone on a list with a MELD lower than 12 or so (25 being the typical point for transplant). As far as HOW LONG to a transplant? No one knows! In my case, he said it could be anywhere from a year to 15 years to never. Go figure! Wim (aka ) > > Alison > I too am new to the group. I was diagnosed with UC in 2001 and PSC in 2004. I am listed on the transplant list but my MELD is an 8. How long am I going to wait to get a transplant? And how sick am I really going to get? > Serbrina _,_._,___ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 JoeWow it amazes me how this disease may be slow in progression but when it hits it hits hard. I hope you are doing well with the new liver. SerbrinaSent via BlackBerry by AT&TFrom: "Joe Berry" Date: Fri, 6 Feb 2009 09:18:18 -0600To: < >Subject: RE: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need advice) Serbrina: In my case, I was diagnosed in 1990; however, I had symptoms of both PSC and UC in February, 1987. I had a fairly normal life with minimal symptoms and only two or three flares until August, 2007. At that point, my health started on a fast downhill. My liver numbers skyrocketed; I had a constant fever, jaundiced. My MELD went to 13 in September and to 28 in October. I was put on the transplant list in early October and received the call on the 17th. Joe PSC & UC - 1990; Liver Transplant - 2007 From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of DrukkerSent: Friday, February 06, 2009 2:14 AMTo: Subject: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need advice) Serbrina: For what it's worth, my doc told me just last week that he does not like to put someone on a list with a MELD lower than 12 or so (25 being the typical point for transplant). As far as HOW LONG to a transplant? No one knows! In my case, he said it could be anywhere from a year to 15 years to never. Go figure! Wim (aka ) > > Alison > I too am new to the group. I was diagnosed with UC in 2001 and PSC in 2004. I am listed on the transplant list but my MELD is an 8. How long am I going to wait to get a transplant? And how sick am I really going to get? > Serbrina _,_._,___ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 JoeWow it amazes me how this disease may be slow in progression but when it hits it hits hard. I hope you are doing well with the new liver. SerbrinaSent via BlackBerry by AT&TFrom: "Joe Berry" Date: Fri, 6 Feb 2009 09:18:18 -0600To: < >Subject: RE: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need advice) Serbrina: In my case, I was diagnosed in 1990; however, I had symptoms of both PSC and UC in February, 1987. I had a fairly normal life with minimal symptoms and only two or three flares until August, 2007. At that point, my health started on a fast downhill. My liver numbers skyrocketed; I had a constant fever, jaundiced. My MELD went to 13 in September and to 28 in October. I was put on the transplant list in early October and received the call on the 17th. Joe PSC & UC - 1990; Liver Transplant - 2007 From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of DrukkerSent: Friday, February 06, 2009 2:14 AMTo: Subject: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need advice) Serbrina: For what it's worth, my doc told me just last week that he does not like to put someone on a list with a MELD lower than 12 or so (25 being the typical point for transplant). As far as HOW LONG to a transplant? No one knows! In my case, he said it could be anywhere from a year to 15 years to never. Go figure! Wim (aka ) > > Alison > I too am new to the group. I was diagnosed with UC in 2001 and PSC in 2004. I am listed on the transplant list but my MELD is an 8. How long am I going to wait to get a transplant? And how sick am I really going to get? > Serbrina _,_._,___ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 >Hi Sandy, Thanks for yor kind words! I'm trying to get as much rest as I can and waiting till I can see my GI on Thursday. I was able to go to work today, so, I can attest to earlier posts by others on the surprising effects of a positive attitude. I told my boss a few months after I was diagnosed in 2007. She has been very understanding so far, but I doubt she figured I'd need so much time to deal with this recurring thing. I'm hoping that once my doctors and I decide what is going on and what to do about it, that I will feel better soon. Your idea of perhaps cutting some hours and/or working some hours from home is awesome. That sounds really plausible. My boss is pretty flexible and may say yes to that. I'll give it a lot of thought and bring it up to my boss. I'll be sure to let you know what she says. Thanks Again, Sikeea > Sikeea, > > Hi! You're absolutely welcome for the " listening. " Anytime you need me (or anyone else on this board), please know that we're here for you. It sounds like you're going through a rough time. I can completely empathize with your comment about waiting forever for the doctors to call back. The only advice I can give you is to keep on them. Even if you have to call daily, don't be afraid to do it. Your health is important and you/we need to be vigilant about it. Do you know if any of the GIs you're calling have a cancellation/waitlist that you could place yourself on? I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this! Going to the doctor is never pleasant and it's just ridiculous and ironic that we find ourselves begging for somebody to see us at times. I hope you find somebody great soon! > > As to your job situation, how is your relationship with your boss? Is he/she somebody you could sit down with and have an open/honest conversation? Maybe it would be possible to arrange some work at home hours or a split shift that would allow you to nap during the middle of the day. If you can think of some ideas that might work for you, you may want to try presenting them to your boss and see what happens from there. > > Also, I know this is a touchy subject for some, but if you are feeling overwhelmed, talking to an impartial third party like a therapist may help. Sometimes just saying things out loud takes away their power to stress you and having an objective ear can sometimes lend new perspective. It's a personal choice, but I thought I'd mention it for what it's worth! > > Hope things go your way very soon! > > Sandi in VA > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 > > >I really want to thank you and the other 2 people who actually > wrote > > back, thanks for " listening " . I can really also relate to the post > > about feeling angry sometimes, especially right now. I have taken > > yesterday and today off work because I am so fatigued I can't do > > anything. Also, decreased appetite and foul taste in my mouth and > foul, > > upset-feeling stomach. Kind of like before I was diagnosed. I am > still > > waiting for my labs (do drs ever really call back?) and can't get > an > > appointment with my GI till next Thursday. I need to see someone > now. > > But I have spent most of the day calling other GI's in my city and > they > > are either not accepting new patients or are booked till at least > the > > end of this month. I've been feeling this way for at least 2 weeks. > I > > need to care for myself, but am also afraid of taking too much time > > from work. My boss is being fair, but anyone's understanding can > only > > be stretched so thin. How do all of you deal with stuff like this? > > Please help. > > > > > Hi! I'm so sorry to hear you're feeling worse. I have a lot of > the > > symptoms that you're talking about. I'm not sure what form of Urso > > you're on, but when I was on Ursodiol, I was continually in pain, > > vomiting and nauseous. They switched me to Urso Forte and that > > definitely made a difference. As to whether what's happening to you > is > > PSC related or not, I can't give you an answer. You may want to ask > > your doctor about the possibility of something else going on if > you're > > not sure. At the very least, it might give you piece of mind. > > > > > > Hope you're feeling better soon! > > > > > > Sandi in VA > > > > > > > > __.._,_.___ > Messages in this topic (13) Reply (via web post) | Start a new topic > Messages | Files | Photos | Links | Database | Polls | Members | Calendar > MARKETPLACE > > ________________________________ > From kitchen basics to easy recipes - join the Group from Kraft Foods > > Change settings via the Web (Yahoo! ID required) > Change settings via email: Switch delivery to Daily Digest | Switch format to Traditional > Visit Your Group | Yahoo! Groups Terms of Use | Unsubscribe > Recent Activity > * Â 18 > New MembersVisit Your Group > Need traffic? > Drive customers > With search ads > on Yahoo! > Find helpful tips > for Moderators > on the Yahoo! > Groups team blog. > Support Group > Lose lbs together > Share your weight- > loss successes. > . > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 >Yeah, you're right. A mini-summary for when/if I have to see someone new. > And. If you tell them that you think you may be having either a reaction to > the meds or a much deteriorated condition AND you can't get in to see > anyone, AND you are scared. > > > > From: [mailto:psc- support ] On > Behalf Of Ian Cribb > Sent: Thursday, February 05, 2009 5:48 PM > To: > Subject: Re: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need > advice) > > > > Sikeea, > > If you have a sheet saying wath medications you are on and what medical > conditions you have it should make thing easlier for you when/if you go to > an ER. If you have it typed up you won't have to spell it out for them and > they can access infomation on the disease on the internet. > > Ian (52) PSC 89 > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 >Yeah, you're right. A mini-summary for when/if I have to see someone new. > And. If you tell them that you think you may be having either a reaction to > the meds or a much deteriorated condition AND you can't get in to see > anyone, AND you are scared. > > > > From: [mailto:psc- support ] On > Behalf Of Ian Cribb > Sent: Thursday, February 05, 2009 5:48 PM > To: > Subject: Re: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need > advice) > > > > Sikeea, > > If you have a sheet saying wath medications you are on and what medical > conditions you have it should make thing easlier for you when/if you go to > an ER. If you have it typed up you won't have to spell it out for them and > they can access infomation on the disease on the internet. > > Ian (52) PSC 89 > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 >Yeah, you're right. A mini-summary for when/if I have to see someone new. > And. If you tell them that you think you may be having either a reaction to > the meds or a much deteriorated condition AND you can't get in to see > anyone, AND you are scared. > > > > From: [mailto:psc- support ] On > Behalf Of Ian Cribb > Sent: Thursday, February 05, 2009 5:48 PM > To: > Subject: Re: Re: I'm on Urso, but...(update, still need > advice) > > > > Sikeea, > > If you have a sheet saying wath medications you are on and what medical > conditions you have it should make thing easlier for you when/if you go to > an ER. If you have it typed up you won't have to spell it out for them and > they can access infomation on the disease on the internet. > > Ian (52) PSC 89 > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 7, 2009 Report Share Posted February 7, 2009 Sikeea, I'm glad you liked the ideas. Please do keep us updated. We're all wishing you the best of luck! Sandi in VA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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