Re: oh what a night............

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In a message dated 08/22/2002 9:25:02 AM US Eastern Standard Time,

abbuttercup55@... writes:

> i just don't understand why he

> can't leave me alone

Ali,

I went through the samething about 8 months ago. Missy can vouch for

this...lol (Good ol'e missy what would I do wiff out ya g/f?) Anywho...its

just because they aren't happy with themselves and their lives..and they

realized that they messed up. He probably realized he had one helluva

girl...and he messed up. My ex-boyfriend done the samething to me about 2

months. ago...Started calling all the time...sending me emails...stupid stuff

like that. well come to find out...his g/f that he cheated on me with had

cheated on him with one of his friends...well I guess he thought that he

could come back to me....BEEEPPP wrong answer!

Your right when you say your new b/f isn't the same guy and I know...god I

know..how hard it is to trust again, but think of it this way....how would

you feel if your new b/f didn't and wouldn't trust you because he was

hurt....its not fair to you or your relationship with him. So try your

hardest to not do it to him. I know this is easier said than done, but

remember

* It always takes a bigger person to forgive than to forget*

Granted you might feel like forgiving right now, but in the end when time has

healed all wounds you will forgive and forget eventually. Just take

time...and keep your head up. I'm sure your a great girl and you deserve

better than what you had anyways. Guys can be real buttheads sometimes,

but...oh well. There are some good ones out there...somewhere....lol I

haven't found one, but if I do I will find out if he had a brother....lol

;o)~

Allicia

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hi~ thanks for giving me some confidence and some

advice. i talked to casey, the new one , last night

and told him what had happened and where i was coming

from. he completely understands, and i realized that

i really, truly can trust him we have known

eachother for years and always have been good friends.

i think that's what's making me trust him so much, i

already know him. i don't why i never saw him like

this until now, maybe i just needed to get the 'bad

boys' out of my system unfortunetly casey doesn't

have a brother, but he does have some really nice

friends i'll talk to ya soon

luv and hugs

ali

--- Allicia21@... wrote:

> In a message dated 08/22/2002 9:25:02 AM US Eastern

> Standard Time,

> abbuttercup55@... writes:

>

>

> > i just don't understand why he

> > can't leave me alone

>

> Ali,

> I went through the samething about 8 months

> ago. Missy can vouch for

> this...lol (Good ol'e missy what would I do wiff out

> ya g/f?) Anywho...its

> just because they aren't happy with themselves and

> their lives..and they

> realized that they messed up. He probably realized

> he had one helluva

> girl...and he messed up. My ex-boyfriend done the

> samething to me about 2

> months. ago...Started calling all the time...sending

> me emails...stupid stuff

> like that. well come to find out...his g/f that he

> cheated on me with had

> cheated on him with one of his friends...well I

> guess he thought that he

> could come back to me....BEEEPPP wrong answer!

> Your right when you say your new b/f isn't the same

> guy and I know...god I

> know..how hard it is to trust again, but think of it

> this way....how would

> you feel if your new b/f didn't and wouldn't trust

> you because he was

> hurt....its not fair to you or your relationship

> with him. So try your

> hardest to not do it to him. I know this is easier

> said than done, but

> remember

> * It always takes a bigger person to forgive than to

> forget*

>

> Granted you might feel like forgiving right now, but

> in the end when time has

> healed all wounds you will forgive and forget

> eventually. Just take

> time...and keep your head up. I'm sure your a great

> girl and you deserve

> better than what you had anyways. Guys can be real

> buttheads sometimes,

> but...oh well. There are some good ones out

> there...somewhere....lol I

> haven't found one, but if I do I will find out if he

> had a brother....lol

> ;o)~

> Allicia

>

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been

> removed]

>

>

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Ali wrote,> we have known

> eachother for years and always have been good friends.

> I think that's what's making me trust him so much, I

> already know him.

I think that when friendship turns to love or what ever you two have is a

lasting think. You already know the good and bad about each other. You have

been together as friends without the sexual tension that may have, or will

be, between the two of you.

If you become seriously attached to each other, it should last. I met my

husband in High School. We were friends and we each dated others. Then we

started dating each other and married after school and have been together,

through thick and thin, for 48 years. He is having to put up with a lot and

he is not well himself. I ask him one day " why he could put up with all that

I was going through " and he said " did you ever think that it is because I

love you. " And I think that says it all.

Take care,

Irene

Books may well be the only true magic

Alice Hoffman

[Guest guest]

Ali wrote,> we have known

> eachother for years and always have been good friends.

> I think that's what's making me trust him so much, I

> already know him.

I think that when friendship turns to love or what ever you two have is a

lasting think. You already know the good and bad about each other. You have

been together as friends without the sexual tension that may have, or will

be, between the two of you.

If you become seriously attached to each other, it should last. I met my

husband in High School. We were friends and we each dated others. Then we

started dating each other and married after school and have been together,

through thick and thin, for 48 years. He is having to put up with a lot and

he is not well himself. I ask him one day " why he could put up with all that

I was going through " and he said " did you ever think that it is because I

love you. " And I think that says it all.

Take care,

Irene

Books may well be the only true magic

Alice Hoffman

[Guest guest]

Ali wrote,> we have known

> eachother for years and always have been good friends.

> I think that's what's making me trust him so much, I

> already know him.

I think that when friendship turns to love or what ever you two have is a

lasting think. You already know the good and bad about each other. You have

been together as friends without the sexual tension that may have, or will

be, between the two of you.

If you become seriously attached to each other, it should last. I met my

husband in High School. We were friends and we each dated others. Then we

started dating each other and married after school and have been together,

through thick and thin, for 48 years. He is having to put up with a lot and

he is not well himself. I ask him one day " why he could put up with all that

I was going through " and he said " did you ever think that it is because I

love you. " And I think that says it all.

Take care,

Irene

Books may well be the only true magic

Alice Hoffman