Guest guest Posted July 26, 2002 Report Share Posted July 26, 2002 Dear , I just read the post from Donna Silverlocket and realized I'd left out an entire point I'd wanted to make about not taking abuse and using a shelter if necessary. When writing about what you could do to stop the destructive fighting, I meant to include, along with all the stuff about reaching out to him, a recommendation that you let him know that you are not going to take any more of him following you around and screaming at you abusively, and that you would leave for a friend's, relative's or even shelter if you had to. However Donna said it all and much better than I can. She's absolutely right about some people being crazy makers-- that's what my ex was-- and she's right about wasting years of your life-- that's what I did. Please don't go down that road, if your husband falls into that category. But only you can tell, based on your history together, if this behavior is representative of the way he deals with conflict. If it is, if this is always how he acts, you have some very difficult decisions to make. But if it isn't, and this is something new, then I think it's worth trying to save it. Margaret Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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