Re: I am so mad

[Guest guest]

Missy, that's what we are here for silly! You can talk about anything here and you will find someone who has been there, or very near to where you are. I was wondering if there was some way that you could move but then I saw that you have children with wonder loser so I guess he would find you no matter what. It is beyond me that he could hit you and get away with it. Sometimes life is just not fair. I wish that I could give you some great idea of what to do but I can't so I will just offer you an ear if you need to vent and will hope that someone who can give you sound advice writes in quickly.

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[Guest guest]

I TRUELY feel for you. I agree that you should get the media involved

(BOTH newspaper and TV news stations). I would also install

inexpensive cameras (which turn on with movement) outside to " capture "

him stalking you (it's more HARD evidence against him so there is no

he said/she said). You HAVE to get attention to stop this crime

against you...plus if you don't watch yourself your Lupus will take

control. Regarding your son...heck, let him go live with his dad for

awhile if he has THAT attitude...then he'll understand YOUR side of

things. I know sometimes kids are VERY ungrateful (especially in their

teenage years). They will appreciate you once they move out on their

own and have their OWN family. Plus my personality changes when my

Lupus is in a flare I could literally love you one minute and want to

kill you in the next. My teenage son tells me sometimes that I

deserved what I got when my ex (HIS father) divorced me and married

the woman he had an affair with. My ex ALSO called me a " lazy b " heck,

my mom still calls me THAT. We are here for you so vent away.

Blessings,

In California

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> I wasn't going to say anything to the group about my personal

problem but I have no one to talk to right now about this and I can

not stop my pain until I discuss this or get my anger talked out. I

was married to a jerk for over 10 years. I divorced him in 1999 he

was stalking me and harassing me for a long time I started dating my

now husband and My x even got in my current husbands truck to see who

I was dating. My x thought if he forced his self that my current

hubby would not want me. He was wrong we got married in late 1999 I

had my daughter in may 2000 he has still bothered me all these years I

called the law countless times. He has went as far as cutting my

brake lines on my van. Well on 6/4/04 of this month he punched me in

my face I called the law. Today I called the prosecutors office for

them to tell me nothing will be done because of conflicting story's.

He pulled up on my property punched me and is not going to be

prosecuted. I have had a protective order a

> permanent protective order every since my divorce. They say it is

no good and so I got another one. He has violated it 4 times since.

He is still able to torcher me to the point that I can not take much

more. I know he is not worth me getting sick over but right now my

body is out of control I am sick. I have cried so much today. My son

who sides with his dad told me that I had an attitude adjustment

coming. Isn't that wonderful. My son who I fought to keep alive all

these years. My x when I was pregnant with him punched me so hard

that I fell on my older son who was in a walker at the time and I

busted the walker all to hell. I missed my son within inches. I am

fighting this nasty disease, my health, my ssdi,and I have to go thru

this crap with an x my gosh what else am I suppose to do. The x knows

that I am sick he use to scream at me that I was a Lazy B all the time

my house was spic and span. I am sorry I could write a script for a

soap I just was wanting to vent.

> Please pray for a resolution soon. I can not take much more. Love

bunches MISSY

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[Guest guest]

Missy, is there any way you can get some legal advise? Or turn to a support group in your area who can help you with advice? I'm sorry, I'm not good at this, I never had anything to do with violence, but I hear so many stories of helplessness. I think it's very important that you speak with someone, who will be able to let you know whether there are option you have. I know one of my friends was constantly "invaded" by her ex for years. After a few times at court, she finally wrote some congressman or senator, saying she was leaving instructions for her family to sue the hell out of the city for not doing something about the abuse, if she turns up dead in a trench one day. I know that got the right attention. Can't give you the details, I don't know them, but I know her ex knew many people in the system and that's how he was getting away with it.

Hope you get some help somewhere.

Mojo

I am so mad

I wasn't going to say anything to the group about my personal problem but I have no one to talk to right now about this and I can not stop my pain until I discuss this or get my anger talked out. I was married to a jerk for over 10 years. I divorced him in 1999 he was stalking me and harassing me for a long time I started dating my now husband and My x even got in my current husbands truck to see who I was dating. My x thought if he forced his self that my current hubby would not want me. He was wrong we got married in late 1999 I had my daughter in may 2000 he has still bothered me all these years I called the law countless times. He has went as far as cutting my brake lines on my van. Well on 6/4/04 of this month he punched me in my face I called the law. Today I called the prosecutors office for them to tell me nothing will be done because of conflicting story's. He pulled up on my property punched me and is not going to be prosecuted. I have had a protective order a permanent protective order every since my divorce. They say it is no good and so I got another one. He has violated it 4 times since. He is still able to torcher me to the point that I can not take much more. I know he is not worth me getting sick over but right now my body is out of control I am sick. I have cried so much today. My son who sides with his dad told me that I had an attitude adjustment coming. Isn't that wonderful. My son who I fought to keep alive all these years. My x when I was pregnant with him punched me so hard that I fell on my older son who was in a walker at the time and I busted the walker all to hell. I missed my son within inches. I am fighting this nasty disease, my health, my ssdi,and I have to go thru this crap with an x my gosh what else am I suppose to do. The x knows that I am sick he use to scream at me that I was a Lazy B all the time my house was spic and span. I am sorry I could write a script for a soap I just was wanting to vent. Please pray for a resolution soon. I can not take much more. Love bunches MISSY

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[Guest guest]

Missy, is there any way you can get some legal advise? Or turn to a support group in your area who can help you with advice? I'm sorry, I'm not good at this, I never had anything to do with violence, but I hear so many stories of helplessness. I think it's very important that you speak with someone, who will be able to let you know whether there are option you have. I know one of my friends was constantly "invaded" by her ex for years. After a few times at court, she finally wrote some congressman or senator, saying she was leaving instructions for her family to sue the hell out of the city for not doing something about the abuse, if she turns up dead in a trench one day. I know that got the right attention. Can't give you the details, I don't know them, but I know her ex knew many people in the system and that's how he was getting away with it.

Hope you get some help somewhere.

Mojo

I am so mad

I wasn't going to say anything to the group about my personal problem but I have no one to talk to right now about this and I can not stop my pain until I discuss this or get my anger talked out. I was married to a jerk for over 10 years. I divorced him in 1999 he was stalking me and harassing me for a long time I started dating my now husband and My x even got in my current husbands truck to see who I was dating. My x thought if he forced his self that my current hubby would not want me. He was wrong we got married in late 1999 I had my daughter in may 2000 he has still bothered me all these years I called the law countless times. He has went as far as cutting my brake lines on my van. Well on 6/4/04 of this month he punched me in my face I called the law. Today I called the prosecutors office for them to tell me nothing will be done because of conflicting story's. He pulled up on my property punched me and is not going to be prosecuted. I have had a protective order a permanent protective order every since my divorce. They say it is no good and so I got another one. He has violated it 4 times since. He is still able to torcher me to the point that I can not take much more. I know he is not worth me getting sick over but right now my body is out of control I am sick. I have cried so much today. My son who sides with his dad told me that I had an attitude adjustment coming. Isn't that wonderful. My son who I fought to keep alive all these years. My x when I was pregnant with him punched me so hard that I fell on my older son who was in a walker at the time and I busted the walker all to hell. I missed my son within inches. I am fighting this nasty disease, my health, my ssdi,and I have to go thru this crap with an x my gosh what else am I suppose to do. The x knows that I am sick he use to scream at me that I was a Lazy B all the time my house was spic and span. I am sorry I could write a script for a soap I just was wanting to vent. Please pray for a resolution soon. I can not take much more. Love bunches MISSY

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[Guest guest]

Missy, is there any way you can get some legal advise? Or turn to a support group in your area who can help you with advice? I'm sorry, I'm not good at this, I never had anything to do with violence, but I hear so many stories of helplessness. I think it's very important that you speak with someone, who will be able to let you know whether there are option you have. I know one of my friends was constantly "invaded" by her ex for years. After a few times at court, she finally wrote some congressman or senator, saying she was leaving instructions for her family to sue the hell out of the city for not doing something about the abuse, if she turns up dead in a trench one day. I know that got the right attention. Can't give you the details, I don't know them, but I know her ex knew many people in the system and that's how he was getting away with it.

Hope you get some help somewhere.

Mojo

I am so mad

I wasn't going to say anything to the group about my personal problem but I have no one to talk to right now about this and I can not stop my pain until I discuss this or get my anger talked out. I was married to a jerk for over 10 years. I divorced him in 1999 he was stalking me and harassing me for a long time I started dating my now husband and My x even got in my current husbands truck to see who I was dating. My x thought if he forced his self that my current hubby would not want me. He was wrong we got married in late 1999 I had my daughter in may 2000 he has still bothered me all these years I called the law countless times. He has went as far as cutting my brake lines on my van. Well on 6/4/04 of this month he punched me in my face I called the law. Today I called the prosecutors office for them to tell me nothing will be done because of conflicting story's. He pulled up on my property punched me and is not going to be prosecuted. I have had a protective order a permanent protective order every since my divorce. They say it is no good and so I got another one. He has violated it 4 times since. He is still able to torcher me to the point that I can not take much more. I know he is not worth me getting sick over but right now my body is out of control I am sick. I have cried so much today. My son who sides with his dad told me that I had an attitude adjustment coming. Isn't that wonderful. My son who I fought to keep alive all these years. My x when I was pregnant with him punched me so hard that I fell on my older son who was in a walker at the time and I busted the walker all to hell. I missed my son within inches. I am fighting this nasty disease, my health, my ssdi,and I have to go thru this crap with an x my gosh what else am I suppose to do. The x knows that I am sick he use to scream at me that I was a Lazy B all the time my house was spic and span. I am sorry I could write a script for a soap I just was wanting to vent. Please pray for a resolution soon. I can not take much more. Love bunches MISSY

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