Guest guest Posted July 29, 2004 Report Share Posted July 29, 2004 Cheryl I didn't take your letter offensively at all...like I said before this family (Lupies) is the only thing keeping me sane. I enjoy talking about it...getting my frustrations out. Plus you all have been so helpful. I appreciate all that you have done. Blessings, In Cali > Oh , > > I am so sorry. Yours is a horrible story. This kid and his family should > really pay for this atrocity! This was not a molesting (that is bad > enough) but rape! I felt sorry for you but didn't know how bad it really > was. I was hoping it was just a fondling incident and Lacey was real young > and could get over it pretty well in time. This will never leave her; I > know this to be a fact as I was raped at about 9 years old myself. .. I am > sorry it happened to you too. How could you have known? We just can't have > our eyes on them every minute and we can't scare the kids so much they will > be afraid of everyone they meet either. -You must have found my letter to > be offensive. I am really really sorry. Keep after those cops and keep > taking her to a shrink. You must be a mild and kind person to hold your > anger back so well from that scummy family. I congratulate you on your > Christian self-control. > > With love and admiration, Cheryl in CA > > > > > > ---- Original Message ----- > > From: auroraskyward > > To: LUPIES > > Sent: Wednesday, July 28, 2004 2:42 AM > > Subject: My Daughters Assault > > > > The kid is over 12 yrs. old; he penetrated her with his penis AND a > tampon (with a HARD plastic applicator...I do not use tampons either). > The kid told her " not to tell " because he will get in trouble and if > she DID tell " their secret " that he would have an older girlfriend > beat her up. We are acting like nothing happened...we went on with our > lives but Lacey is showing ALL the signs that you have mentioned. She > NEVERS wets the bed but now she has done it twice since the assault > occured. Plus this is the 2nd time this kid has done this to her. The > law says that if there is 4 or more years seperating the victim and > the perp. then there has been a crime committed. We just found out > from the DA's office that they are taking the kid to trial. THANK GOD! > But we STILL haven't found an attorney to take our case...we are still > praying for one though. The parents aren't taking this seriously. They > STILL haven't punished the kid. He was even riding his bike on our > property today...coming down our driveway and turning around. > And I agree with you that I am more traumatized right now because I > had it happen to me when I was 4 and I STILL carry this horrible > memory. I did NOT want what happened to me happen to her....and it > did...THAT'S why I feel I have failed her. Thanks for responding...I > know A LOT of the messages getting pushed to the back and no one sees > them. > > Blessings, > > In Cali > > > > , please don't get mad but I wonder if your daughter is as > traumatized > > as you are? Did he penetrate her? Is she old enough to know what > he did? > > Sometimes things happen to little ones and they are too young to > know just > > what it is and get over it quite well. Sometimes it is the parents who > > suffer the most. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT! It is the fault of the purp > and his > > family! I am so sorry this happened and really, really sorry the cops > > botched it. How is Lacey behaving? Is she acting out (disobedient, > angry, > > bed wetting, afraid to go out) or something? Please stop blaming > yourself. > > I just found out my son was molested by a boy 5 years older when he was > > young. My son finally told me and he just turned 36! I feel guilty > too! I > > am trying to get over it, it is too late to do anything about it. > I'm glad > > you caught it right away, see, that's the good part. Lacey will get > over > > this before you will I bet. > > http://www.mymailsignature.com> > > > > > > > > _____ > > > > From: auroraskyward [mailto:AuroraSkyward@h...] > > Sent: Friday, July 23, 2004 3:48 AM > > To: LUPIES > > Subject: UPDATE On My Daughters Assault > > > > > > > > Well, the reports are now going to the DA's office. We are probably > > going to go to trial. Plus the Sheriff has lied to us so, now on > > Monday we are going to be on the local news. Victim Services is going > > to be here too. We sent over ALL our paperwork and the news guy, , > > is amazed at ALL the mess ups the cops AND the hospital did. We MIGHT > > have an attorney but no one has the experience to take on the county > > and the sheriff's dept. > > I know it isn't my fault but I STILL feel VERY GUILTY. I'm still > > having the crying sessions at night, > > > > In Cali > > > > " The LUPIES Store " Come check out our store... > http://www.cafepress.com/thelupies > > " The LUPIES Web Page " > http://www.itzarion.com/lupusgroup.html > > " The LUPIES online photo albums! " > Check out what your fellow Lupies look like... > http://www.picturetrail.com/lupies > > > > > " The LUPIES Store " Come check out our store... > http://www.cafepress.com/thelupies > > " The LUPIES Web Page " > http://www.itzarion.com/lupusgroup.html > > " The LUPIES online photo albums! " > Check out what your fellow Lupies look like... > http://www.picturetrail.com/lupies > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 29, 2004 Report Share Posted July 29, 2004 Cheryl I didn't take your letter offensively at all...like I said before this family (Lupies) is the only thing keeping me sane. I enjoy talking about it...getting my frustrations out. Plus you all have been so helpful. I appreciate all that you have done. Blessings, In Cali > Oh , > > I am so sorry. Yours is a horrible story. This kid and his family should > really pay for this atrocity! This was not a molesting (that is bad > enough) but rape! I felt sorry for you but didn't know how bad it really > was. I was hoping it was just a fondling incident and Lacey was real young > and could get over it pretty well in time. This will never leave her; I > know this to be a fact as I was raped at about 9 years old myself. .. I am > sorry it happened to you too. How could you have known? We just can't have > our eyes on them every minute and we can't scare the kids so much they will > be afraid of everyone they meet either. -You must have found my letter to > be offensive. I am really really sorry. Keep after those cops and keep > taking her to a shrink. You must be a mild and kind person to hold your > anger back so well from that scummy family. I congratulate you on your > Christian self-control. > > With love and admiration, Cheryl in CA > > > > > > ---- Original Message ----- > > From: auroraskyward > > To: LUPIES > > Sent: Wednesday, July 28, 2004 2:42 AM > > Subject: My Daughters Assault > > > > The kid is over 12 yrs. old; he penetrated her with his penis AND a > tampon (with a HARD plastic applicator...I do not use tampons either). > The kid told her " not to tell " because he will get in trouble and if > she DID tell " their secret " that he would have an older girlfriend > beat her up. We are acting like nothing happened...we went on with our > lives but Lacey is showing ALL the signs that you have mentioned. She > NEVERS wets the bed but now she has done it twice since the assault > occured. Plus this is the 2nd time this kid has done this to her. The > law says that if there is 4 or more years seperating the victim and > the perp. then there has been a crime committed. We just found out > from the DA's office that they are taking the kid to trial. THANK GOD! > But we STILL haven't found an attorney to take our case...we are still > praying for one though. The parents aren't taking this seriously. They > STILL haven't punished the kid. He was even riding his bike on our > property today...coming down our driveway and turning around. > And I agree with you that I am more traumatized right now because I > had it happen to me when I was 4 and I STILL carry this horrible > memory. I did NOT want what happened to me happen to her....and it > did...THAT'S why I feel I have failed her. Thanks for responding...I > know A LOT of the messages getting pushed to the back and no one sees > them. > > Blessings, > > In Cali > > > > , please don't get mad but I wonder if your daughter is as > traumatized > > as you are? Did he penetrate her? Is she old enough to know what > he did? > > Sometimes things happen to little ones and they are too young to > know just > > what it is and get over it quite well. Sometimes it is the parents who > > suffer the most. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT! It is the fault of the purp > and his > > family! I am so sorry this happened and really, really sorry the cops > > botched it. How is Lacey behaving? Is she acting out (disobedient, > angry, > > bed wetting, afraid to go out) or something? Please stop blaming > yourself. > > I just found out my son was molested by a boy 5 years older when he was > > young. My son finally told me and he just turned 36! I feel guilty > too! I > > am trying to get over it, it is too late to do anything about it. > I'm glad > > you caught it right away, see, that's the good part. Lacey will get > over > > this before you will I bet. > > http://www.mymailsignature.com> > > > > > > > > _____ > > > > From: auroraskyward [mailto:AuroraSkyward@h...] > > Sent: Friday, July 23, 2004 3:48 AM > > To: LUPIES > > Subject: UPDATE On My Daughters Assault > > > > > > > > Well, the reports are now going to the DA's office. We are probably > > going to go to trial. Plus the Sheriff has lied to us so, now on > > Monday we are going to be on the local news. Victim Services is going > > to be here too. We sent over ALL our paperwork and the news guy, , > > is amazed at ALL the mess ups the cops AND the hospital did. We MIGHT > > have an attorney but no one has the experience to take on the county > > and the sheriff's dept. > > I know it isn't my fault but I STILL feel VERY GUILTY. I'm still > > having the crying sessions at night, > > > > In Cali > > > > " The LUPIES Store " Come check out our store... > http://www.cafepress.com/thelupies > > " The LUPIES Web Page " > http://www.itzarion.com/lupusgroup.html > > " The LUPIES online photo albums! " > Check out what your fellow Lupies look like... > http://www.picturetrail.com/lupies > > > > > " The LUPIES Store " Come check out our store... > http://www.cafepress.com/thelupies > > " The LUPIES Web Page " > http://www.itzarion.com/lupusgroup.html > > " The LUPIES online photo albums! " > Check out what your fellow Lupies look like... > http://www.picturetrail.com/lupies > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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