To

[Guest guest]

GOOD FOR YOU!!

I am so relieved for you that things not only went

well but that you have that peaceful feeling when you

know you have done the right thing.

Have a great weekend!

Love,

Nikki

--- brian_mosher2002 brian_mosher2002@...>

wrote:

> Thanks for the prayers everyone...they definitely

> were answered. I

> went home early yesterday to prepare for my ex to

> come over and divvy

> up our belongings. I decided to go get a massage to

> pamper myself,

> then I went to the gym and sat in the steam room for

> a while. By the

> time he came over I was relaxed and serene.

>

> He came in and we hugged, and for the first time I

> really didn't feel

> anything. No anger, so sadness, no love...just

> nothing. It was

> great. He was very uncomfortable and said so. I

> told him that we

> will both be okay, and that we had work to do. He

> took me out to

> dinner at a neighborhood place, and it was

> comfortable for me, not as

> comfortable for him.

>

> Before he came over I went ahead and made a stack

> for him of all the

> stuff in the kitchen that I was willing to give up.

> I told him he

> couldn't have anything else because I couldn't

> afford to replace it

> and he can. He was fine with that. I stacked towels

> for kitchen and

> bath, and stuff like that. I took all the stuff

> that were gifts to

> us and set them all out so we could see everything

> at once. There

> were two items that we both wanted, and we both knew

> that would

> happen. I didn't care which one I got as long as I

> got one of them.

> We flipped a coin and each took one. After that, we

> didn't really

> want what the other person wanted, so there was no

> problem.

>

> He packed up his stuff in boxes and stored them in

> his closet out of

> my way. He was supposed to move this weekend, but

> his place won't be

> ready till next week. He's going to move a week

> from tomorrow, and

> I'm leaving on a vacation that day. He'll really be

> alone

> then...like he said he wanted to be. I think he's

> going to be in for

> a shock.

>

> It all went very well for me. I wasn't sad or

> anything. I still

> consider him a friend, just not a seriously

> dependable one. He

> hasn't been alone yet since he left, so he still has

> all the hard

> stuff to do. Thank God I don't have to go through

> that with him.

>

> I feel really evolved today.

>

> Have a great weekend.

>

>

>

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