Re: TO HEATHER / CHILD SUPPORT/ DNA

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Hey ,

just found out from my mom the rheumy's office never called in the medicine. it makes me so angry especially when i told her the circumstances. so my mom is refilling my zoloft until i can contact the office on monday.

as for my son and his deadbeat father. i filed for child support back in december. i started the paperwork when my son was still in the hossy. they told me the only way dna testing is done is if he asks for it. i just found out he got a new job as he quit the other one. i hope they garnish his wages as my son deserves it. he thinks i want child support so i can do my nails and hair but its to feed my child, put diapers on him, and clothes on his back. pay for doctor appointments when he's sick, etc. he's so far behind now he owe's me almost 10 grand. plus interest. when he files for his taxes though, i get the money now he doesnt cause the IRS is involved in cases like this. i just hate how it takes so long for things to be done. it gets aggrivating. anyways, gotta go play with my son......he just wants to be on the go! talk to you later.

linda Carey wrote:

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I'm just so glad that you got someone to listen to you.... From: heather anfinson

To: LUPIES

Sent: Friday, August 27, 2004 1:01 AM

Subject: Re: TO HEATHER/ THANK GOD!

Hey ,

Thanks! I need all the encouragement I can get. When I was in the 7th grade I had done something completely terrible to my sister. I had chased her around the house with a butcher knife. I had then collapsed in tears saying it wasnt me. I had seen it as someone else took over my body and I was watching the whole thing happen on the side. I have done some terrible things in my life to my brother and sister, as it was out of protection to one of them from the other. I have gone through some terrible things in my childhood that it reflected so horrible in my life. Thats when I was diagnosed as bi-polar. Throughout my whole pregnancy this was my fear. I had read stories where mothers either murder their children or kill themselves being in that state of mind. I love my son to death. I know how you feel that something so little can just set you off. I do get that way sometimes. I know I can count on

my family to support me through all my trials with this. As I have stated I have already had to call my sister once at 2am cause I couldnt handle it anymore. Being a single mother of a premature child and not know what is wrong with them is the hardest thing. Now with him wanting to be so mobile and get around everywhere drives me nuts sometimes. I feel like I dont have the patience for him. My mother takes over a lot and so does my step dad. When my sister is around, as she's in Athens right now for the Olympics, she helps me a lot too with him. His father isnt in the picture as he believes this isnt his son so I am basically raising him on my own. You know how it is being a single mother and trying to stay sane when they drive you crazy. Thanks so much for listening. I love you all too. I feel like I have a new family here. People that actually listen to me whine! HAHA I'll keep you updated and

inform you on what the medication is. Thanks again!

in CA Carey wrote:

Hello ,

You are a very smart lady !

C./new anti-depressant

Hi there -

I wanted to let you know I called my Rheumy today and they called in another anti-depressant for me. The doctor didnt want me starting a new one yet cause I was starting other meds again so I am not sure why he didnt perscribe it to me when I was there in July. I told his front desk girl that knows me very well that if I didnt get something new I didnt know what I was going to do to my son if things got worse. She instantly put me on hold and told my Rheumy and asked for the pharmacies phone number. Glad she understood. Will be starting it tomorrow. Not sure what he's giving me as I havent picked it up from the pharmacy yet. My mom is picking it up after dinner. I will deffinantly be doing some research on this new one as the doc said it is suppose to help with depression and also with my fibromyalgia. So I have my homework set up for me. Hope you have had a great day today. Talk to you later, and thanks a bunch

for your concerns.

in CA

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That really sucks, big time....That your Rheumy never called in your prescription! ....I just went through this same sort of thing with my ex- PCP......I now have a new Doctor just because of this same thing. Do you have a phychiatrist? Who diagnosed you with Bipolar disorder? I'm sorry that you have to wait till Monday to call again.....it seems like they would take you seriouly enough to do something!

These are the kind of things that leads to tragedies......when someone can't get the help they need. What is wrong with the Doctors?

As for your son's Deadbeat Dad, Im glad that when he files his income tax that the IRS will make sure YOU get it. That's what my ex always said......I wanted the money to Party .......gggrrrrr!

just hang in there, and try the best you can.....it sound like your Mom is aWonderful help to you.

C.

C./new anti-depressant

Hi there -

I wanted to let you know I called my Rheumy today and they called in another anti-depressant for me. The doctor didnt want me starting a new one yet cause I was starting other meds again so I am not sure why he didnt perscribe it to me when I was there in July. I told his front desk girl that knows me very well that if I didnt get something new I didnt know what I was going to do to my son if things got worse. She instantly put me on hold and told my Rheumy and asked for the pharmacies phone number. Glad she understood. Will be starting it tomorrow. Not sure what he's giving me as I havent picked it up from the pharmacy yet. My mom is picking it up after dinner. I will deffinantly be doing some research on this new one as the doc said it is suppose to help with depression and also with my fibromyalgia. So I have my homework set up for me. Hope you have had a great day today. Talk to you later, and thanks a bunch for your concerns.

in CA

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