Re: Been a while (long email)

[Guest guest]

Odette wrote, > I keep saying to myself I can't carry on anymore, and then I

> think about taking an OD, just to get rid of the pain....

>

> Please don't even think of that. I have been through thoughts like that

> and I decided that if I killed myself on Monday, there would be a cure on

> Tuesday.

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>

> I ask my gynie for a hysterectomy but he said I was too young, and growled

> back that I have already had my four kids, I am never going to have anymore

> especially since I plan to stay with my husband and he has had the snip....

> Why do doctors treat you like they have the upper hand when we as their

> patience should at least get a say in what they do.

I really don't understand why your doctor would not be willing to talk to you

about having a hysterectomy. How young are you? With four kids and not being

able to have anymore, I don;t understand

Take care,

Irene

Books may well be the only true magic

Alice Hoffman

[Guest guest]

Odette wrote, > I keep saying to myself I can't carry on anymore, and then I

> think about taking an OD, just to get rid of the pain....

>

> Please don't even think of that. I have been through thoughts like that

> and I decided that if I killed myself on Monday, there would be a cure on

> Tuesday.

#########################>

>

> I ask my gynie for a hysterectomy but he said I was too young, and growled

> back that I have already had my four kids, I am never going to have anymore

> especially since I plan to stay with my husband and he has had the snip....

> Why do doctors treat you like they have the upper hand when we as their

> patience should at least get a say in what they do.

I really don't understand why your doctor would not be willing to talk to you

about having a hysterectomy. How young are you? With four kids and not being

able to have anymore, I don;t understand

Take care,

Irene

Books may well be the only true magic

Alice Hoffman

[Guest guest]

Odette wrote, > I keep saying to myself I can't carry on anymore, and then I

> think about taking an OD, just to get rid of the pain....

>

> Please don't even think of that. I have been through thoughts like that

> and I decided that if I killed myself on Monday, there would be a cure on

> Tuesday.

#########################>

>

> I ask my gynie for a hysterectomy but he said I was too young, and growled

> back that I have already had my four kids, I am never going to have anymore

> especially since I plan to stay with my husband and he has had the snip....

> Why do doctors treat you like they have the upper hand when we as their

> patience should at least get a say in what they do.

I really don't understand why your doctor would not be willing to talk to you

about having a hysterectomy. How young are you? With four kids and not being

able to have anymore, I don;t understand

Take care,

Irene

Books may well be the only true magic

Alice Hoffman

[Guest guest]

Hi Irene,

I am 26yrs old, and I don't want anymore kids, I have three beautiful girls and

one boy and I haven't had them all easely.

First was a Caesarean and second was hard labour, third was real easy but I had

Gestational Diabetes and the fourth was a bit harder I also had low Iron count.

Plus like I said my hubby has had the snip.

I did talk to the main consultant about a hysterectomy but he said I was too

young plus he knew better because he had 44yrs experience, so I told him that he

hasn't ever had the experience of havng a period.

I am now seeing his consulatant under him, and he has tried a injection to stop

me bleeding, which didn't work instead of twice a month it was all month.

I am now on two tablets to try and stop some of the symtoms... only been on them

about a week, so can't really tell whether or not they are working.

Hopefully these will work, if not then where do we go from here...

Thanks for your email.

Odette

Re: Been a while (long email)

Odette wrote, > I keep saying to myself I can't carry on anymore, and then I

> think about taking an OD, just to get rid of the pain....

>

> Please don't even think of that. I have been through thoughts like that

> and I decided that if I killed myself on Monday, there would be a cure on

> Tuesday.

#########################>

>

> I ask my gynie for a hysterectomy but he said I was too young, and growled

> back that I have already had my four kids, I am never going to have anymore

> especially since I plan to stay with my husband and he has had the snip....

> Why do doctors treat you like they have the upper hand when we as their

> patience should at least get a say in what they do.

I really don't understand why your doctor would not be willing to talk to you

about having a hysterectomy. How young are you? With four kids and not being

able to have anymore, I don;t understand

Take care,

Irene

Books may well be the only true magic

Alice Hoffman

[Guest guest]

Hi Irene,

I am 26yrs old, and I don't want anymore kids, I have three beautiful girls and

one boy and I haven't had them all easely.

First was a Caesarean and second was hard labour, third was real easy but I had

Gestational Diabetes and the fourth was a bit harder I also had low Iron count.

Plus like I said my hubby has had the snip.

I did talk to the main consultant about a hysterectomy but he said I was too

young plus he knew better because he had 44yrs experience, so I told him that he

hasn't ever had the experience of havng a period.

I am now seeing his consulatant under him, and he has tried a injection to stop

me bleeding, which didn't work instead of twice a month it was all month.

I am now on two tablets to try and stop some of the symtoms... only been on them

about a week, so can't really tell whether or not they are working.

Hopefully these will work, if not then where do we go from here...

Thanks for your email.

Odette

Re: Been a while (long email)

Odette wrote, > I keep saying to myself I can't carry on anymore, and then I

> think about taking an OD, just to get rid of the pain....

>

> Please don't even think of that. I have been through thoughts like that

> and I decided that if I killed myself on Monday, there would be a cure on

> Tuesday.

#########################>

>

> I ask my gynie for a hysterectomy but he said I was too young, and growled

> back that I have already had my four kids, I am never going to have anymore

> especially since I plan to stay with my husband and he has had the snip....

> Why do doctors treat you like they have the upper hand when we as their

> patience should at least get a say in what they do.

I really don't understand why your doctor would not be willing to talk to you

about having a hysterectomy. How young are you? With four kids and not being

able to have anymore, I don;t understand

Take care,

Irene

Books may well be the only true magic

Alice Hoffman

[Guest guest]

Odette wrote, > Hopefully these will work, if not then where do we go from

> here...

>

> I would suggest a new doctor. What you are going through is not right. I

> have never heard of anyone having the problems that you are having.

>

> I had a hysterectomy but I was in my 40s and my children were in High

> School. I had two D & Cs to help with the bleeding but my doctor told me

> he would do no more. To come back when I started bleeding in my shoes.

> Well, that is what happened. I started bleeding and it did go into my

> shoes before I could get some place to take care of things. When I called

> the office about the surgery, the first thing his nurse said was " You are

> bleeding into your shoes, aren't you. "

>

Take care,

Irene

Books may well be the only true magic

Alice Hoffman