Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 Missy, Is your present husband aware of what is happening to you? And, where is he in all this mess? We have had so many cases here in northern CA where a woman files complaints, the cops ignore it or pooh pooh her fear, and then something really bad happens to her and/or her kids. It just is such a sick system. Honey, if it was me, I would call the local newspaper and tell them what is happening to you, and that the local authorities are not enforcing the law or your restraining order. Putting it in public will make it impossible for the cops to ignore you any more, and make sure your husband is with you at all times when you do these things. Wouldn't hurt to have an independent witness also, like a neighbor or friend who has seen your ex in action. Stalking is against the law, and he should be locked up. It is a federal offense now, not just a local ordinance or law. Don't let this type of "silent" sex descrimination make you a victim any longer. There should be an action group in your area that deals with this, and it is usually run by women who know what you are going through. Contact them. I will pray that you find a solution, and are safe. Loving hugs, MM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 Missy, Is your present husband aware of what is happening to you? And, where is he in all this mess? We have had so many cases here in northern CA where a woman files complaints, the cops ignore it or pooh pooh her fear, and then something really bad happens to her and/or her kids. It just is such a sick system. Honey, if it was me, I would call the local newspaper and tell them what is happening to you, and that the local authorities are not enforcing the law or your restraining order. Putting it in public will make it impossible for the cops to ignore you any more, and make sure your husband is with you at all times when you do these things. Wouldn't hurt to have an independent witness also, like a neighbor or friend who has seen your ex in action. Stalking is against the law, and he should be locked up. It is a federal offense now, not just a local ordinance or law. Don't let this type of "silent" sex descrimination make you a victim any longer. There should be an action group in your area that deals with this, and it is usually run by women who know what you are going through. Contact them. I will pray that you find a solution, and are safe. Loving hugs, MM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 Missy, Is your present husband aware of what is happening to you? And, where is he in all this mess? We have had so many cases here in northern CA where a woman files complaints, the cops ignore it or pooh pooh her fear, and then something really bad happens to her and/or her kids. It just is such a sick system. Honey, if it was me, I would call the local newspaper and tell them what is happening to you, and that the local authorities are not enforcing the law or your restraining order. Putting it in public will make it impossible for the cops to ignore you any more, and make sure your husband is with you at all times when you do these things. Wouldn't hurt to have an independent witness also, like a neighbor or friend who has seen your ex in action. Stalking is against the law, and he should be locked up. It is a federal offense now, not just a local ordinance or law. Don't let this type of "silent" sex descrimination make you a victim any longer. There should be an action group in your area that deals with this, and it is usually run by women who know what you are going through. Contact them. I will pray that you find a solution, and are safe. Loving hugs, MM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 I wasn't going to say anything to the group about my personal problem but I have no one to talk to right now about this and I can not stop my pain until I discuss this or get my anger talked out. I was married to a jerk for over 10 years. I divorced him in 1999 he was stalking me and harassing me for a long time I started dating my now husband and My x even got in my current husbands truck to see who I was dating. My x thought if he forced his self that my current hubby would not want me. He was wrong we got married in late 1999 I had my daughter in may 2000 he has still bothered me all these years I called the law countless times. He has went as far as cutting my brake lines on my van. Well on 6/4/04 of this month he punched me in my face I called the law. Today I called the prosecutors office for them to tell me nothing will be done because of conflicting story's. He pulled up on my property punched me and is not going to be prosecuted. I have had a protective order a permanent protective order every since my divorce. They say it is no good and so I got another one. He has violated it 4 times since. He is still able to torcher me to the point that I can not take much more. I know he is not worth me getting sick over but right now my body is out of control I am sick. I have cried so much today. My son who sides with his dad told me that I had an attitude adjustment coming. Isn't that wonderful. My son who I fought to keep alive all these years. My x when I was pregnant with him punched me so hard that I fell on my older son who was in a walker at the time and I busted the walker all to hell. I missed my son within inches. I am fighting this nasty disease, my health, my ssdi,and I have to go thru this crap with an x my gosh what else am I suppose to do. The x knows that I am sick he use to scream at me that I was a Lazy B all the time my house was spic and span. I am sorry I could write a script for a soap I just was wanting to vent. Please pray for a resolution soon. I can not take much more. Love bunches MISSY__________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2004 Report Share Posted June 30, 2004 Missy I dont know what i can do for you...I wish there was something! I am not normally one to pray,.,,but in this case...i think its warranted. I have always heard about how protective orders are a bunch of bolony...I am sorry to hear from you that its true. The police should take your word for it. Please keep going....you sound like a very strong person. Reading your posts, I admire you for your courage in the face of all of this adversity. Many people would have given up in your place...I hope that things settle down for your and your family's sake. My thoughts are with you. Love, Meg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2004 Report Share Posted June 30, 2004 Missy I dont know what i can do for you...I wish there was something! I am not normally one to pray,.,,but in this case...i think its warranted. I have always heard about how protective orders are a bunch of bolony...I am sorry to hear from you that its true. The police should take your word for it. Please keep going....you sound like a very strong person. Reading your posts, I admire you for your courage in the face of all of this adversity. Many people would have given up in your place...I hope that things settle down for your and your family's sake. My thoughts are with you. Love, Meg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2004 Report Share Posted June 30, 2004 Missy I dont know what i can do for you...I wish there was something! I am not normally one to pray,.,,but in this case...i think its warranted. I have always heard about how protective orders are a bunch of bolony...I am sorry to hear from you that its true. The police should take your word for it. Please keep going....you sound like a very strong person. Reading your posts, I admire you for your courage in the face of all of this adversity. Many people would have given up in your place...I hope that things settle down for your and your family's sake. My thoughts are with you. Love, Meg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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