Re: One small victory/ GOOD FOR YOU

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Good for you....you are right it has become an abusive situation, and you ARE too good for that. No one should be treated the way your Ex has treated you. and It's just fine that you feel better about yourself now that you have had a chance to know the you that you can be!!

One small victory

Thanks for the prayers and good wishes. I've taken a step, and I'm already feeling a little relieved.I am definitely having a small flare. I'm on a medrol pulse, so in anoter day or two I should start to feel a bit better.Yesterday I had my neighbor come over and help me move my ex's furniture out into the garage. All he has left in my house now are some boxes in his closet. He's supposed to come over tonight to see the dog, so I'm going to have him move the boxes out into the shed with his other stuff....then he's finally out of the house. His apartment still isn't ready, but I'm going to tell him to get a storage unit and have his stuff out one way or another before I get back in town on Tuesday.....anything left will be donated to charity. I'm really ready to get on with my life, and for some reason he's still trying to hold on. In my opinion it's been going on so long that it's now abuse....and I'm not going to play that one.He's supposed to come move stuff out on Saturday, and I'm going to stay with a friend for the day till my plane leaves. I'm not going to participate in any way. I finally see my victory dance in the near future.I'm having neuro testing on my hurting feet today and an MRA tomorrow. I just love pre test enemas...don't you? Ugh. I've got a massage scheduled for later tomorrow, and then I'm on vacation.I probably won't post again till late next week, but then again I might post on Friday if I have time.I really love you all. Have a good weekend."The LUPIES Store" Come check out our store...http://www.cafepress.com/thelupies"The LUPIES Web Page"http://www.itzarion.com/lupusgroup.html"The LUPIES online photo albums!" Check out what your fellow Lupies look like...http://www.picturetrail.com/lupies