Re: Shirley & Sherri

[Guest guest]

This sounds exactly like me..I could have wrote

this..I'm to the point now though that the " Looks &

Weight Thing " don't embarrass me like it use to do.

Sometimes it's hard for my other half to deal with the

XXX life limitations. I also have a bladder disease

which just complicates and restricts the XXX life. I

know there are alternatives but having intercourse

causes my bladder to go into severe flare. My whole

body hurts to move and even touching me hurts so it

limits our XXX relationship. I know this is difficult

for many others too. When we got together before all

my health problems and I was more active and felt

better I enjoyed that part of our relationship but

he's above average size and has stamina which also

causes additional pain and compounds to additional

flaring problems. I wish I had some advice here but I

don't. It's very difficult on our relationship as well

as he gets angry towards me over it.

You're not alone here.

I finally told dh today that I know he lost his XXX

life but I lost my entire life. I used to

be so active, now I just lay around the house... just

not fair, is it? I don't want to see anyone because

of the weight I have gained. My dad's side

of the family is so into " Looks " I have even started

to go grocery shopping in another town.

Cyberhugs,

Sherri

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