Guest guest Posted July 1, 2004 Report Share Posted July 1, 2004 , I think you'll do just fine. We don't need people sucking energy out of us, not when our own bodies are already doing enough of that. " You " take care of " you " right now. with luv, Robyn > Thanks all for the responses. I'm realizing that I am the classic co- > dependant. I just thought I was very caring, but apparently I was a > door mat. That's going to change. I'm getting professional help, > I'm saying positive affirmations all day long - cuz if I say it, it > can and will happen. I am seeking out friends and they are reaching > back. I'm taking the dog on long a long walk every single day. > Things can only get better right? > > Saturday morning I'm starting a yoga class, (don't worry, I'll take > it easy), and next week I'm going to start a T'ai Chi class for > meditative purposes. I'm putting myself on a track of nothing but > self improvement for 6 months, and I'm going to start making stained > glass windows again with a vengence. I've been the perfect passive, > supportive, deferring partner for 11 years, and now it's time to take > action and move forward. I'm making my cocoon, and in 6 months I hope > to emerge a beautiful butterfly. > > I am starting to have some minor symptoms, but I'm not sure if it's a > little flare or if I'm just exhausted from my life events of the past > week and a half. I'm hoping a good rest tonight will give me an > answer in the morning. > > I do appreciate you all every day, and love you more than you know. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2004 Report Share Posted July 2, 2004 I'm glad you are doing all these things....but when are you going to realize you ARE a beautiful butterfly NOW. It's just taken you this long to realize that you ARE a butterfly and not a dog (which your companion made you THINK you were). By the way, I'm the 2nd Lupie in line for a stain glass window (which I have NEVER had before). Blessings, In California > > Thanks all for the responses. I'm realizing that I am the classic > co- > > dependant. I just thought I was very caring, but apparently I was > a > > door mat. That's going to change. I'm getting professional help, > > I'm saying positive affirmations all day long - cuz if I say it, > it > > can and will happen. I am seeking out friends and they are > reaching > > back. I'm taking the dog on long a long walk every single day. > > Things can only get better right? > > > > Saturday morning I'm starting a yoga class, (don't worry, I'll > take > > it easy), and next week I'm going to start a T'ai Chi class for > > meditative purposes. I'm putting myself on a track of nothing but > > self improvement for 6 months, and I'm going to start making > stained > > glass windows again with a vengence. I've been the perfect > passive, > > supportive, deferring partner for 11 years, and now it's time to > take > > action and move forward. I'm making my cocoon, and in 6 months I > hope > > to emerge a beautiful butterfly. > > > > I am starting to have some minor symptoms, but I'm not sure if > it's a > > little flare or if I'm just exhausted from my life events of the > past > > week and a half. I'm hoping a good rest tonight will give me an > > answer in the morning. > > > > I do appreciate you all every day, and love you more than you know. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2004 Report Share Posted July 2, 2004 I'm glad you are doing all these things....but when are you going to realize you ARE a beautiful butterfly NOW. It's just taken you this long to realize that you ARE a butterfly and not a dog (which your companion made you THINK you were). By the way, I'm the 2nd Lupie in line for a stain glass window (which I have NEVER had before). Blessings, In California > > Thanks all for the responses. I'm realizing that I am the classic > co- > > dependant. I just thought I was very caring, but apparently I was > a > > door mat. That's going to change. I'm getting professional help, > > I'm saying positive affirmations all day long - cuz if I say it, > it > > can and will happen. I am seeking out friends and they are > reaching > > back. I'm taking the dog on long a long walk every single day. > > Things can only get better right? > > > > Saturday morning I'm starting a yoga class, (don't worry, I'll > take > > it easy), and next week I'm going to start a T'ai Chi class for > > meditative purposes. I'm putting myself on a track of nothing but > > self improvement for 6 months, and I'm going to start making > stained > > glass windows again with a vengence. I've been the perfect > passive, > > supportive, deferring partner for 11 years, and now it's time to > take > > action and move forward. I'm making my cocoon, and in 6 months I > hope > > to emerge a beautiful butterfly. > > > > I am starting to have some minor symptoms, but I'm not sure if > it's a > > little flare or if I'm just exhausted from my life events of the > past > > week and a half. I'm hoping a good rest tonight will give me an > > answer in the morning. > > > > I do appreciate you all every day, and love you more than you know. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2004 Report Share Posted July 2, 2004 I'm glad you are doing all these things....but when are you going to realize you ARE a beautiful butterfly NOW. It's just taken you this long to realize that you ARE a butterfly and not a dog (which your companion made you THINK you were). By the way, I'm the 2nd Lupie in line for a stain glass window (which I have NEVER had before). Blessings, In California > > Thanks all for the responses. I'm realizing that I am the classic > co- > > dependant. I just thought I was very caring, but apparently I was > a > > door mat. That's going to change. I'm getting professional help, > > I'm saying positive affirmations all day long - cuz if I say it, > it > > can and will happen. I am seeking out friends and they are > reaching > > back. I'm taking the dog on long a long walk every single day. > > Things can only get better right? > > > > Saturday morning I'm starting a yoga class, (don't worry, I'll > take > > it easy), and next week I'm going to start a T'ai Chi class for > > meditative purposes. I'm putting myself on a track of nothing but > > self improvement for 6 months, and I'm going to start making > stained > > glass windows again with a vengence. I've been the perfect > passive, > > supportive, deferring partner for 11 years, and now it's time to > take > > action and move forward. I'm making my cocoon, and in 6 months I > hope > > to emerge a beautiful butterfly. > > > > I am starting to have some minor symptoms, but I'm not sure if > it's a > > little flare or if I'm just exhausted from my life events of the > past > > week and a half. I'm hoping a good rest tonight will give me an > > answer in the morning. > > > > I do appreciate you all every day, and love you more than you know. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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