My Daughters Assault

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The kid is over 12 yrs. old; he penetrated her with his penis AND a

tampon (with a HARD plastic applicator...I do not use tampons either).

The kid told her " not to tell " because he will get in trouble and if

she DID tell " their secret " that he would have an older girlfriend

beat her up. We are acting like nothing happened...we went on with our

lives but Lacey is showing ALL the signs that you have mentioned. She

NEVERS wets the bed but now she has done it twice since the assault

occured. Plus this is the 2nd time this kid has done this to her. The

law says that if there is 4 or more years seperating the victim and

the perp. then there has been a crime committed. We just found out

from the DA's office that they are taking the kid to trial. THANK GOD!

But we STILL haven't found an attorney to take our case...we are still

praying for one though. The parents aren't taking this seriously. They

STILL haven't punished the kid. He was even riding his bike on our

property today...coming down our driveway and turning around.

And I agree with you that I am more traumatized right now because I

had it happen to me when I was 4 and I STILL carry this horrible

memory. I did NOT want what happened to me happen to her....and it

did...THAT'S why I feel I have failed her. Thanks for responding...I

know A LOT of the messages getting pushed to the back and no one sees

them.

Blessings,

In Cali

> , please don't get mad but I wonder if your daughter is as

traumatized

> as you are? Did he penetrate her? Is she old enough to know what

he did?

> Sometimes things happen to little ones and they are too young to

know just

> what it is and get over it quite well. Sometimes it is the parents who

> suffer the most. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT! It is the fault of the purp

and his

> family! I am so sorry this happened and really, really sorry the cops

> botched it. How is Lacey behaving? Is she acting out (disobedient,

angry,

> bed wetting, afraid to go out) or something? Please stop blaming

yourself.

> I just found out my son was molested by a boy 5 years older when he was

> young. My son finally told me and he just turned 36! I feel guilty

too! I

> am trying to get over it, it is too late to do anything about it.

I'm glad

> you caught it right away, see, that's the good part. Lacey will get

over

> this before you will I bet.

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> From: auroraskyward [mailto:AuroraSkyward@h...]

> Sent: Friday, July 23, 2004 3:48 AM

> To: LUPIES

> Subject: UPDATE On My Daughters Assault

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> Well, the reports are now going to the DA's office. We are probably

> going to go to trial. Plus the Sheriff has lied to us so, now on

> Monday we are going to be on the local news. Victim Services is going

> to be here too. We sent over ALL our paperwork and the news guy, ,

> is amazed at ALL the mess ups the cops AND the hospital did. We MIGHT

> have an attorney but no one has the experience to take on the county

> and the sheriff's dept.

> I know it isn't my fault but I STILL feel VERY GUILTY. I'm still

> having the crying sessions at night,

>

> In Cali