I need advice

[Guest guest]

Hi all,

In my quest to get used to now living alone, I'm having trouble

figuring out things to do by myself other than walk the dog,(not

really by myself since she is with me), or go to a movie, I'm kind of

at a loss right now. I haven't been on my own in 11 years, and

before that I was a work-aholic...and I don't want to go back to

that. So...any ideas or suggestions would be appreciated.

Thanks,

[Guest guest]

- Oh, to have that problem.....LOL....I'm not discounting your

predicament but rather envying your situation. As much as I love my

family, I would love for them just to go away...for a little while.

Just long enough for a nap.

Now, back to business. I think you should focus on resting and

pampering yourself first. Then when that is done, maybe look into

taking some fun classes. I'm starting one for cake decorating

tonight. Maybe a class on stained glass or gourmet cooking? Hubby

and I are going to try a cooking class together. That should be

interesting! I've heard meditation is really good for chronic

illnesses as well. Several good books I bet would be a treat too.

Ah...the possibilities!

Now, if things get really desperate....maybe Deanna can make you a

moderator (we keep all of them hopping!) OR better yet - you could

make a nice stained glass piece for each member of this wonderful

group. Me first, of course, since I suggested it! LOL

Seriously, I know this is a big transistion for you (as it would be

for anyone.) I was divorced 8 years ago (today to be exact) and I

remember sitting alone and thinking " okay, now what? " Things do get

easier, you learn more about yourself and actually concentrate on

what YOU want, like, dislike, etc. instead of having to always

compromise and put others first. Enjoy your freedom and love

yourself. You'll make an even better life for yourself and will be a

better person to eventually share with someone again.

Jerri

> Hi all,

>

> In my quest to get used to now living alone, I'm having trouble

> figuring out things to do by myself other than walk the dog,(not

> really by myself since she is with me), or go to a movie, I'm kind

of

> at a loss right now. I haven't been on my own in 11 years, and

> before that I was a work-aholic...and I don't want to go back to

> that. So...any ideas or suggestions would be appreciated.

>

> Thanks,

>

[Guest guest]

- Oh, to have that problem.....LOL....I'm not discounting your

predicament but rather envying your situation. As much as I love my

family, I would love for them just to go away...for a little while.

Just long enough for a nap.

Now, back to business. I think you should focus on resting and

pampering yourself first. Then when that is done, maybe look into

taking some fun classes. I'm starting one for cake decorating

tonight. Maybe a class on stained glass or gourmet cooking? Hubby

and I are going to try a cooking class together. That should be

interesting! I've heard meditation is really good for chronic

illnesses as well. Several good books I bet would be a treat too.

Ah...the possibilities!

Now, if things get really desperate....maybe Deanna can make you a

moderator (we keep all of them hopping!) OR better yet - you could

make a nice stained glass piece for each member of this wonderful

group. Me first, of course, since I suggested it! LOL

Seriously, I know this is a big transistion for you (as it would be

for anyone.) I was divorced 8 years ago (today to be exact) and I

remember sitting alone and thinking " okay, now what? " Things do get

easier, you learn more about yourself and actually concentrate on

what YOU want, like, dislike, etc. instead of having to always

compromise and put others first. Enjoy your freedom and love

yourself. You'll make an even better life for yourself and will be a

better person to eventually share with someone again.

Jerri

> Hi all,

>

> In my quest to get used to now living alone, I'm having trouble

> figuring out things to do by myself other than walk the dog,(not

> really by myself since she is with me), or go to a movie, I'm kind

of

> at a loss right now. I haven't been on my own in 11 years, and

> before that I was a work-aholic...and I don't want to go back to

> that. So...any ideas or suggestions would be appreciated.

>

> Thanks,

>