Guest guest Posted October 12, 2002 Report Share Posted October 12, 2002 While while I appreciate the compliments my post seems to have generated; it was not intended to be about ME as such. It was about what happens when one is forced into retirement by a condition one could not have anticipated, along with " all the rest of it, " and finds that one ultimately does have time to interact with others, to do web searches, to learn. I wrote the post after someone on an entirely different list had suggested " how nice it was that I had the time to do all this re search, " and I thought--sure would be nice were it not for all that I posted. I appre ciate the time, which many will never have, but I paid for it dearly and just had one of those " I am a little tired of everyone assuming that because of my age, nothing medical or even cf-wise has ever been a biggie with me! " attacks and ran with it. I hope not to have offended anyone. I think that each of us and each of our kids will have accounts like this, and should we, our our kids, find that this " time " is forced upon life, it should be understood intrinsicly that none of us signed up for diability in line, on a " voluntary " basis. None of us requested this, much as we may enjoy (and I do, greatly) those who become our friends on line, and what we are rather forced to learn to survive and for our children to survive. I did, however, find that rather than just twiddle the thumbs which now move, that I would peer into the'net and see what I could see--and it was and is wonderful, amazing and personally re warding. Thank you all for being there with me. There is not a day that passes that I do not think of every parent, every child with cf and hope my best for the best for the parents and the children. I hope for a future, as I have been given one, which I also did not " volunteer " for, but am so grateful for. We all know the alternative! Love to all at cfparents, n Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 12, 2002 Report Share Posted October 12, 2002 Thank you for sharing some of your life's story with us. You have experienced so much. I wish that I could meet you. You are such a valuable part of this group. You can relate to both the parents and the pwcf on this list. Those of us wocf can never really know what our loved ones wcf are going through. You help us to understand. Thanks for being you and being here! Gale > While while I appreciate the compliments my post seems to have generated; it > was > not intended to be about ME as such. It was about what happens when one is > forced into retirement by a condition one could not have anticipated, along > with > " all the rest of it, " and finds that one ultimately does have time to > interact with > others, to do web searches, to learn. I wrote the post after someone on an > entirely > different list had suggested " how nice it was that I had the time to do all > this re > search, " and I thought--sure would be nice were it not for all that I posted. > I appre > ciate the time, which many will never have, but I paid for it dearly and just > had one > of those " I am a little tired of everyone assuming that because of my age, > nothing > medical or even cf-wise has ever been a biggie with me! " attacks and ran with > it. > I hope not to have offended anyone. I think that each of us and each of our > kids will > have accounts like this, and should we, our our kids, find that this " time " > is forced > upon life, it should be understood intrinsicly that none of us signed up for > diability > in line, on a " voluntary " basis. None of us requested this, much as we may > enjoy > (and I do, greatly) those who become our friends on line, and what we are > rather > forced to learn to survive and for our children to survive. I did, however, > find that > rather than just twiddle the thumbs which now move, that I would peer into > the'net > and see what I could see--and it was and is wonderful, amazing and personally > re > warding. Thank you all for being there with me. There is not a day that > passes that > I do not think of every parent, every child with cf and hope my best for the > best for > the parents and the children. I hope for a future, as I have been given one, > which I > also did not " volunteer " for, but am so grateful for. We all know the > alternative! > Love to all at cfparents, > n Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 12, 2002 Report Share Posted October 12, 2002 Thank you for sharing some of your life's story with us. You have experienced so much. I wish that I could meet you. You are such a valuable part of this group. You can relate to both the parents and the pwcf on this list. Those of us wocf can never really know what our loved ones wcf are going through. You help us to understand. Thanks for being you and being here! Gale > While while I appreciate the compliments my post seems to have generated; it > was > not intended to be about ME as such. It was about what happens when one is > forced into retirement by a condition one could not have anticipated, along > with > " all the rest of it, " and finds that one ultimately does have time to > interact with > others, to do web searches, to learn. I wrote the post after someone on an > entirely > different list had suggested " how nice it was that I had the time to do all > this re > search, " and I thought--sure would be nice were it not for all that I posted. > I appre > ciate the time, which many will never have, but I paid for it dearly and just > had one > of those " I am a little tired of everyone assuming that because of my age, > nothing > medical or even cf-wise has ever been a biggie with me! " attacks and ran with > it. > I hope not to have offended anyone. I think that each of us and each of our > kids will > have accounts like this, and should we, our our kids, find that this " time " > is forced > upon life, it should be understood intrinsicly that none of us signed up for > diability > in line, on a " voluntary " basis. None of us requested this, much as we may > enjoy > (and I do, greatly) those who become our friends on line, and what we are > rather > forced to learn to survive and for our children to survive. I did, however, > find that > rather than just twiddle the thumbs which now move, that I would peer into > the'net > and see what I could see--and it was and is wonderful, amazing and personally > re > warding. Thank you all for being there with me. There is not a day that > passes that > I do not think of every parent, every child with cf and hope my best for the > best for > the parents and the children. I hope for a future, as I have been given one, > which I > also did not " volunteer " for, but am so grateful for. We all know the > alternative! > Love to all at cfparents, > n Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 12, 2002 Report Share Posted October 12, 2002 Thank you for sharing some of your life's story with us. You have experienced so much. I wish that I could meet you. You are such a valuable part of this group. You can relate to both the parents and the pwcf on this list. Those of us wocf can never really know what our loved ones wcf are going through. You help us to understand. Thanks for being you and being here! Gale > While while I appreciate the compliments my post seems to have generated; it > was > not intended to be about ME as such. It was about what happens when one is > forced into retirement by a condition one could not have anticipated, along > with > " all the rest of it, " and finds that one ultimately does have time to > interact with > others, to do web searches, to learn. I wrote the post after someone on an > entirely > different list had suggested " how nice it was that I had the time to do all > this re > search, " and I thought--sure would be nice were it not for all that I posted. > I appre > ciate the time, which many will never have, but I paid for it dearly and just > had one > of those " I am a little tired of everyone assuming that because of my age, > nothing > medical or even cf-wise has ever been a biggie with me! " attacks and ran with > it. > I hope not to have offended anyone. I think that each of us and each of our > kids will > have accounts like this, and should we, our our kids, find that this " time " > is forced > upon life, it should be understood intrinsicly that none of us signed up for > diability > in line, on a " voluntary " basis. None of us requested this, much as we may > enjoy > (and I do, greatly) those who become our friends on line, and what we are > rather > forced to learn to survive and for our children to survive. I did, however, > find that > rather than just twiddle the thumbs which now move, that I would peer into > the'net > and see what I could see--and it was and is wonderful, amazing and personally > re > warding. Thank you all for being there with me. There is not a day that > passes that > I do not think of every parent, every child with cf and hope my best for the > best for > the parents and the children. I hope for a future, as I have been given one, > which I > also did not " volunteer " for, but am so grateful for. We all know the > alternative! > Love to all at cfparents, > n Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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