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Steve said something once, I think it was Steve.. Anyway someone said

that the surgery is the diet. You eat 2000 calories, but only about 750

will be absorbed. I hope this gives you some comfort.

a

Frost wrote:

>

> Hi all, Barb,

>

> Congratulations my neighbor to the North! I just wanted to let you know

> that you probably should'nt worry about your food addiction. I was addicted

> to food, for comfort, boredom.. but not usually for nutrition :) I am

> now 13 weeks post-op and am amazed at how I am eating. Somehow Dr R's

> surgery has broken the chain of sugar/carbo cravings. I just got back from

> my sisters birthday picnic. I had 1/2 of a hamburger, 1 little spoon of

> potato salad, some fresh veggies, about 3 potato chips, a little pickle and

> a Tablespoon of strawberry cheesecake. I felt very full and did'nt even

> think about 2nds, or about the Death By Chocolate Cake! Before surgery I

> know I would have had several burgers and bunches of side dishes. AND NO

> VEGGIES. I had tastes of everything I wanted but was not tempted to " pig

> out " . I hav'nt been post-op very long but eating about 1/4th of what I used

> to just seems " right " . I sure hope it lasts! I always blamed myself for

> lack of will power, but now am really thinking that maybe it was a physical

> instead of a mental thing. I sometimes wonder if the Good Doctor did'nt

> hypnotise me in the operating room to get me off of sugar and carbos!

>

> Good luck, all.. and have fun!

>

> in Ohio

> MGB 2/22/2000

> 325-271

> 54 pounds in 3 months :)

>

> Message: 1

> Date: Sun, 04 Jun 2000 13:09:07 -0400

>

> Subject: BC/BS of Michigan

>

> Well, Here is my long story,

> I found Dr. R's website last Sept. after going to a clinic in Pontiac,

> Mich. and decided immediately Dr. R.'s surgery was the one I wanted. I

> had to wait until Dec 3rd to go on open enrollment of BC ins. at my

> work. I had from Sept until Dec. to get my information and all the

> diet programs I've tried together to send in.Debbie filed my first info

> to BC on Dec. 4th. They wanted the psych eval before they made a

> decision and I had an appt. Dec. 27th. That jerk never sent the info.

> into them until they contacted me and asked where my eval was. So that

> taught me TO CALL EVERYONE TO SEE IF THE INFORMATION HAD BEEN RECEIVED

> AND WHAT STAGE OF THE PROCESS IT WAS IN.

> I waited a few weeks and CALLED BC of Mich. and they told me I was

> denied. I was never called or contacted about this - If I hadn't had

> called I would still be waiting. Debbie then sent in the appeal and I

> called 2 weeks later and THEY COULDNT FIND IT!! Since I had sent it UPS

> I had a record that they received it, but it was lost! So since I have

> made a copy of EVERYTHING I then FAXED it to a girl that seemed to be on

> my side. They didn't give me any more info until the 30TH day - even

> though I learned to call them about every other day by now - knowing I

> had to keep this ball rolling - and I was denied again. I cant remember

> the dates for sure - but believe me I have been on a MISSION to get this

> surgery approved.

> SO, the next appeal went to the Medical Review Board and I figured they

> would approve it after seeing what kind of surgery it was. If they

> hadn't my next step would be to go to the Board of Insurance

> Commisioners in our state capital, LANSING. - A friend of mine in the

> insurance business said ins. co.'s dont want you to go there -EVER.

>

> ALSO,

> Since this surgery looks like it might really happen - I want to talk

> about food addiction. I know I am a food addict! and like other addicts

> - alcoholics, drug addicts, gambling addicts and all the rest, food is

> the love of my life. I not only think about food all day, but as soon as

> I eat, I'm planning my next meal! I'm ashamed to admit that, but I've

> got to face reality if I'm going to be successful with my life after my

> surgery. Being a member of Overeaters Anonymous through my many years

> of struggling with my weight will be a big help with me " Letting GO " of

> my best friend, food.

> With the help of Dr. R. I have found out that being overweight was a

> physical problem too. I had always felt like a failure thinking it was

> just me. It was a real relief to discover a physician who didn't think

> of overweight people with contempt. You have all heard the line, " Why

> don't you just stop eating? " But it's so much more than that - I have 3

> very thin sisters who all weight about 125. They look at me like I'm

> crazy because I'm hungry all the time.. But they have my mother's genes

> and I take after my father's side of the family that was always

> overweight. I'm 50 years old and until I found this website - thought I

> was a weakling and just couldnt' ever lose weight. I really don't know

> why I didn't look around and SEE the genetic difference. I was so busy

> putting myself down for a being a failure I just didn't notice.

> So I guess I'm writing this to decide to start to prepare myself to " let

> go " of food being the highlight of my life. I don't want food to run my

> life anymore. Just like any addict that gives their best friend up, I

> want to be ready to give it up too. I'm motivated. I'm sick of not

> being able to bend over, sit in booths in restaurants, I'm up to a size

> 4X since just before Christmas, I'm sick of buying bigger clothes, I,

> sick of being embarrassed to eat in front of other people because I eat

> so much.

> I can't wait to say " I only need a little bit of food, thanks. " or

> " that's enough for me, I can't eat another bite. " or I don't eat much,

> just give me a little plate. or even better yet, I " M NOT HUNGRY,

> THANKS. hehehe

> I'm ready for my new life, it can't happen soon enough for me.

>

> Well, my friends, sorry to go on so long, I guess I just needed to

> write about this - thanks for listening.

> Barb in Michigan

>

> ________________________________________________________________________

> Get Your Private, Free E-mail from MSN Hotmail at http://www.hotmail.com

>

> ------------------------------------------------------------------------

> Missing old school friends? Find them here:

> http://click.egroups.com/1/4055/2/_/453517/_/960158445/

> ------------------------------------------------------------------------

>

> This message is from the Mini-Gastric Bypass Mailing List at Onelist.com

> Please visit our web site at http://clos.net

> Get the Patient Manual at http://clos.net/get_patient_manual.htm

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Steve said something once, I think it was Steve.. Anyway someone said

that the surgery is the diet. You eat 2000 calories, but only about 750

will be absorbed. I hope this gives you some comfort.

a

Frost wrote:

>

> Hi all, Barb,

>

> Congratulations my neighbor to the North! I just wanted to let you know

> that you probably should'nt worry about your food addiction. I was addicted

> to food, for comfort, boredom.. but not usually for nutrition :) I am

> now 13 weeks post-op and am amazed at how I am eating. Somehow Dr R's

> surgery has broken the chain of sugar/carbo cravings. I just got back from

> my sisters birthday picnic. I had 1/2 of a hamburger, 1 little spoon of

> potato salad, some fresh veggies, about 3 potato chips, a little pickle and

> a Tablespoon of strawberry cheesecake. I felt very full and did'nt even

> think about 2nds, or about the Death By Chocolate Cake! Before surgery I

> know I would have had several burgers and bunches of side dishes. AND NO

> VEGGIES. I had tastes of everything I wanted but was not tempted to " pig

> out " . I hav'nt been post-op very long but eating about 1/4th of what I used

> to just seems " right " . I sure hope it lasts! I always blamed myself for

> lack of will power, but now am really thinking that maybe it was a physical

> instead of a mental thing. I sometimes wonder if the Good Doctor did'nt

> hypnotise me in the operating room to get me off of sugar and carbos!

>

> Good luck, all.. and have fun!

>

> in Ohio

> MGB 2/22/2000

> 325-271

> 54 pounds in 3 months :)

>

> Message: 1

> Date: Sun, 04 Jun 2000 13:09:07 -0400

>

> Subject: BC/BS of Michigan

>

> Well, Here is my long story,

> I found Dr. R's website last Sept. after going to a clinic in Pontiac,

> Mich. and decided immediately Dr. R.'s surgery was the one I wanted. I

> had to wait until Dec 3rd to go on open enrollment of BC ins. at my

> work. I had from Sept until Dec. to get my information and all the

> diet programs I've tried together to send in.Debbie filed my first info

> to BC on Dec. 4th. They wanted the psych eval before they made a

> decision and I had an appt. Dec. 27th. That jerk never sent the info.

> into them until they contacted me and asked where my eval was. So that

> taught me TO CALL EVERYONE TO SEE IF THE INFORMATION HAD BEEN RECEIVED

> AND WHAT STAGE OF THE PROCESS IT WAS IN.

> I waited a few weeks and CALLED BC of Mich. and they told me I was

> denied. I was never called or contacted about this - If I hadn't had

> called I would still be waiting. Debbie then sent in the appeal and I

> called 2 weeks later and THEY COULDNT FIND IT!! Since I had sent it UPS

> I had a record that they received it, but it was lost! So since I have

> made a copy of EVERYTHING I then FAXED it to a girl that seemed to be on

> my side. They didn't give me any more info until the 30TH day - even

> though I learned to call them about every other day by now - knowing I

> had to keep this ball rolling - and I was denied again. I cant remember

> the dates for sure - but believe me I have been on a MISSION to get this

> surgery approved.

> SO, the next appeal went to the Medical Review Board and I figured they

> would approve it after seeing what kind of surgery it was. If they

> hadn't my next step would be to go to the Board of Insurance

> Commisioners in our state capital, LANSING. - A friend of mine in the

> insurance business said ins. co.'s dont want you to go there -EVER.

>

> ALSO,

> Since this surgery looks like it might really happen - I want to talk

> about food addiction. I know I am a food addict! and like other addicts

> - alcoholics, drug addicts, gambling addicts and all the rest, food is

> the love of my life. I not only think about food all day, but as soon as

> I eat, I'm planning my next meal! I'm ashamed to admit that, but I've

> got to face reality if I'm going to be successful with my life after my

> surgery. Being a member of Overeaters Anonymous through my many years

> of struggling with my weight will be a big help with me " Letting GO " of

> my best friend, food.

> With the help of Dr. R. I have found out that being overweight was a

> physical problem too. I had always felt like a failure thinking it was

> just me. It was a real relief to discover a physician who didn't think

> of overweight people with contempt. You have all heard the line, " Why

> don't you just stop eating? " But it's so much more than that - I have 3

> very thin sisters who all weight about 125. They look at me like I'm

> crazy because I'm hungry all the time.. But they have my mother's genes

> and I take after my father's side of the family that was always

> overweight. I'm 50 years old and until I found this website - thought I

> was a weakling and just couldnt' ever lose weight. I really don't know

> why I didn't look around and SEE the genetic difference. I was so busy

> putting myself down for a being a failure I just didn't notice.

> So I guess I'm writing this to decide to start to prepare myself to " let

> go " of food being the highlight of my life. I don't want food to run my

> life anymore. Just like any addict that gives their best friend up, I

> want to be ready to give it up too. I'm motivated. I'm sick of not

> being able to bend over, sit in booths in restaurants, I'm up to a size

> 4X since just before Christmas, I'm sick of buying bigger clothes, I,

> sick of being embarrassed to eat in front of other people because I eat

> so much.

> I can't wait to say " I only need a little bit of food, thanks. " or

> " that's enough for me, I can't eat another bite. " or I don't eat much,

> just give me a little plate. or even better yet, I " M NOT HUNGRY,

> THANKS. hehehe

> I'm ready for my new life, it can't happen soon enough for me.

>

> Well, my friends, sorry to go on so long, I guess I just needed to

> write about this - thanks for listening.

> Barb in Michigan

>

> ________________________________________________________________________

> Get Your Private, Free E-mail from MSN Hotmail at http://www.hotmail.com

>

> ------------------------------------------------------------------------

> Missing old school friends? Find them here:

> http://click.egroups.com/1/4055/2/_/453517/_/960158445/

> ------------------------------------------------------------------------

>

> This message is from the Mini-Gastric Bypass Mailing List at Onelist.com

> Please visit our web site at http://clos.net

> Get the Patient Manual at http://clos.net/get_patient_manual.htm

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Steve said something once, I think it was Steve.. Anyway someone said

that the surgery is the diet. You eat 2000 calories, but only about 750

will be absorbed. I hope this gives you some comfort.

a

Frost wrote:

>

> Hi all, Barb,

>

> Congratulations my neighbor to the North! I just wanted to let you know

> that you probably should'nt worry about your food addiction. I was addicted

> to food, for comfort, boredom.. but not usually for nutrition :) I am

> now 13 weeks post-op and am amazed at how I am eating. Somehow Dr R's

> surgery has broken the chain of sugar/carbo cravings. I just got back from

> my sisters birthday picnic. I had 1/2 of a hamburger, 1 little spoon of

> potato salad, some fresh veggies, about 3 potato chips, a little pickle and

> a Tablespoon of strawberry cheesecake. I felt very full and did'nt even

> think about 2nds, or about the Death By Chocolate Cake! Before surgery I

> know I would have had several burgers and bunches of side dishes. AND NO

> VEGGIES. I had tastes of everything I wanted but was not tempted to " pig

> out " . I hav'nt been post-op very long but eating about 1/4th of what I used

> to just seems " right " . I sure hope it lasts! I always blamed myself for

> lack of will power, but now am really thinking that maybe it was a physical

> instead of a mental thing. I sometimes wonder if the Good Doctor did'nt

> hypnotise me in the operating room to get me off of sugar and carbos!

>

> Good luck, all.. and have fun!

>

> in Ohio

> MGB 2/22/2000

> 325-271

> 54 pounds in 3 months :)

>

> Message: 1

> Date: Sun, 04 Jun 2000 13:09:07 -0400

>

> Subject: BC/BS of Michigan

>

> Well, Here is my long story,

> I found Dr. R's website last Sept. after going to a clinic in Pontiac,

> Mich. and decided immediately Dr. R.'s surgery was the one I wanted. I

> had to wait until Dec 3rd to go on open enrollment of BC ins. at my

> work. I had from Sept until Dec. to get my information and all the

> diet programs I've tried together to send in.Debbie filed my first info

> to BC on Dec. 4th. They wanted the psych eval before they made a

> decision and I had an appt. Dec. 27th. That jerk never sent the info.

> into them until they contacted me and asked where my eval was. So that

> taught me TO CALL EVERYONE TO SEE IF THE INFORMATION HAD BEEN RECEIVED

> AND WHAT STAGE OF THE PROCESS IT WAS IN.

> I waited a few weeks and CALLED BC of Mich. and they told me I was

> denied. I was never called or contacted about this - If I hadn't had

> called I would still be waiting. Debbie then sent in the appeal and I

> called 2 weeks later and THEY COULDNT FIND IT!! Since I had sent it UPS

> I had a record that they received it, but it was lost! So since I have

> made a copy of EVERYTHING I then FAXED it to a girl that seemed to be on

> my side. They didn't give me any more info until the 30TH day - even

> though I learned to call them about every other day by now - knowing I

> had to keep this ball rolling - and I was denied again. I cant remember

> the dates for sure - but believe me I have been on a MISSION to get this

> surgery approved.

> SO, the next appeal went to the Medical Review Board and I figured they

> would approve it after seeing what kind of surgery it was. If they

> hadn't my next step would be to go to the Board of Insurance

> Commisioners in our state capital, LANSING. - A friend of mine in the

> insurance business said ins. co.'s dont want you to go there -EVER.

>

> ALSO,

> Since this surgery looks like it might really happen - I want to talk

> about food addiction. I know I am a food addict! and like other addicts

> - alcoholics, drug addicts, gambling addicts and all the rest, food is

> the love of my life. I not only think about food all day, but as soon as

> I eat, I'm planning my next meal! I'm ashamed to admit that, but I've

> got to face reality if I'm going to be successful with my life after my

> surgery. Being a member of Overeaters Anonymous through my many years

> of struggling with my weight will be a big help with me " Letting GO " of

> my best friend, food.

> With the help of Dr. R. I have found out that being overweight was a

> physical problem too. I had always felt like a failure thinking it was

> just me. It was a real relief to discover a physician who didn't think

> of overweight people with contempt. You have all heard the line, " Why

> don't you just stop eating? " But it's so much more than that - I have 3

> very thin sisters who all weight about 125. They look at me like I'm

> crazy because I'm hungry all the time.. But they have my mother's genes

> and I take after my father's side of the family that was always

> overweight. I'm 50 years old and until I found this website - thought I

> was a weakling and just couldnt' ever lose weight. I really don't know

> why I didn't look around and SEE the genetic difference. I was so busy

> putting myself down for a being a failure I just didn't notice.

> So I guess I'm writing this to decide to start to prepare myself to " let

> go " of food being the highlight of my life. I don't want food to run my

> life anymore. Just like any addict that gives their best friend up, I

> want to be ready to give it up too. I'm motivated. I'm sick of not

> being able to bend over, sit in booths in restaurants, I'm up to a size

> 4X since just before Christmas, I'm sick of buying bigger clothes, I,

> sick of being embarrassed to eat in front of other people because I eat

> so much.

> I can't wait to say " I only need a little bit of food, thanks. " or

> " that's enough for me, I can't eat another bite. " or I don't eat much,

> just give me a little plate. or even better yet, I " M NOT HUNGRY,

> THANKS. hehehe

> I'm ready for my new life, it can't happen soon enough for me.

>

> Well, my friends, sorry to go on so long, I guess I just needed to

> write about this - thanks for listening.

> Barb in Michigan

>

> ________________________________________________________________________

> Get Your Private, Free E-mail from MSN Hotmail at http://www.hotmail.com

>

> ------------------------------------------------------------------------

> Missing old school friends? Find them here:

> http://click.egroups.com/1/4055/2/_/453517/_/960158445/

> ------------------------------------------------------------------------

>

> This message is from the Mini-Gastric Bypass Mailing List at Onelist.com

> Please visit our web site at http://clos.net

> Get the Patient Manual at http://clos.net/get_patient_manual.htm

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