Guest guest Posted June 9, 2000 Report Share Posted June 9, 2000 > > I want this surgery so badly! I knew it the moment I read about it > that I wanted it. It didn't take me months to decide. Now to break it > to my husband... > > Sorry, but I don't know who you are, but you sound exactly like I was. I > was 300# and my husband is about 160#, quite a mental picture. Well I had > tried everything.............we have been married for 23 years. He has > never been mean or unkind about my wt. but knew it bothered me and was > unhealthy. One day he said he hadn't gotten me anything for a certain > occassion and asked me what I wanted. I told him I wanted to have this > surgery and he said, " Go for it " , and I did. Speaking it to the first > person for the first time was the hardest. All my fears about what he > would say were unfounded and only my own insecurities and feelings of > inadequacy and failure. But he didn't look at it like that. He looked at > it as a tool to help me to be what I wanted to be. So now my advice to > you is to just GO FOR IT and tell him. Good Luck and prayers. Let me > know how it goes. Darlene > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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