Re: My Weekend...

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Hi Terri,

I am truly sorry you went through that!! Those people was nothing but

totally rude! It's hard to believe that adults can be so cruel. You

can understand how children act that way because they don't know

better!!! Terri you know what I wish for people like that!!! I wish

they could be soooo big they couldn't walk for about a week!!! LOL

Well girl don't let it get you down before long you will be on the

other side and never have to be humiliated (SP?) again!! Have a good

day!!! Marie

In MiniGastricBypass (AT) e, " Theresa Somers "

wrote:

> Hello everyone..

>

> Well, as I said when I posted the list for today, I have been

away all

> weekend.. Chuck and I went to see his grandparents

grandparents> as well as his parents since they were coming down

for the

> weekend also.. Well, let's just say i could have had more fun with

someone

> throwing knives at me... We got there on saturday about 1 in the

afternoon

> or so... .. Chuck's parents wouldn't be

there til

> later that afternoon so we just sat outside and let run around

the yard

> and just the normal family stuff.. Everything was fine... Well,

Chuck went

> in the house and he was trying to take a nap being that his body

seemed to

> think he was supposed to be sleeping since he works nights and I

went to the

> other side of the house where Chuck's grandparents and a friend of

theirs

> were.. Chuck's grandmother kept offering to let me sit down since I

was

> holding .. She had one of those folding chairs with the wide

plastic

> strips for the seat.. Well, i was afraid to sit in it.. I kept

thinking I

> would break it.. Well, finally my back started hurting so bad she

offered

> once more and I took her up on it.. As I began to sit in it, I

realized the

> chair was MUCH smaller than I thought and my hips and legs would

barely

> fit.. But, when I realized it, it was too late.. I was already

sitting.. The

> arms of the chair were cutting into my legs and hurting.. Then I

couldn't

> believe what happened next.. Chuck's grandfather pointed at me,

started

> lauing and said something about the seat... I didn't hear exactly

what he

> said but i figured it out when the three of them sat there

laughing.. I

> would be lying if I said I didn't want to die at that moment.. I

actually

> thought of suicide for about a full 10 seconds.. Of course I'm not

that

> stupid.. But, if I could have disappeared, I would have... I

couldn't

> believe it.. It was the most humiliating day of my life... I could

have ran

> away like a child but, i didn't... I just sat there watching them

laugh at

> me, trying not to burts into tears.. When they stopped, I got up as

> gracefully as I could and walked to the other side of the house and

sat

> there praying Chuck's parents would get there soon... Maybe that

would take

> the focos off of me and my fat a$$... I truely just wanted to go

home.. But,

> I tried to be adult about it and stuck it out... Well, we left

about 11:30

> that night... Saturday morning I got up so I could take my shower

and get

> ready to once again go see them.. I was everything but

thrilled.. I

> just wanted to stay home.. But, I got Chuck up and we left soon

after..

> Luckily, I didn't put myself in the situation again but, I was

still

> miserable.. No sooner did we get there, i wanted to go home.. But,

I am glad

> we weren't home because there were some really strong thunderstorms

hitting

> here and we even had someone report a tornado right around the

corner from

> our home.. Luckily our trailer was safe and more importantly, so

were our

> babies ... Well, we got home about 11:30 last

night... I am

> so glad to be home.. I still can't believe they did that.. but, I

can't let

> it get to me.. I mean, I've gone through this all my life.. I

should be used

> to it, right? Well, not really.. and having people that I think my

son

> should be looking up to doing this just hurts.. I never did tell

chuck or

> his parents what happened and I didn't confront the grandparents..

I just

> wanted to forget about it... I didn't want it to be this long drawn

out

> thing... But, I did feel I needed to tell y'all.. It makes it so

much easier

> to tell someone when you know they have been there at one point or

> another... Sorry this is so long...

>

> In my thoughts and prayers,

>

> Terri

>

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